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8 Wedding Ceremony Scripts to Borrow & Printables

Find beautiful wedding ceremony scripts ranging from unique to traditional. Print and borrow them, or get inspiration to write your own!

By Allison Cullman

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In the midst of the organized chaos of wedding planning, the wedding ceremony is often left until the last minute. But the ceremony is quite significant—after all, it’s the part where you and your future spouse actually become joined in marriage.

We all know about the “I do’s” of a wedding ceremony, but the rest of your ceremony is just as important. While you want to create a wedding ceremony script that’s meaningful and personal to you and your future spouse, figuring out how to do this can leave some couples scratching their heads. If you’re wondering where to begin writing your wedding ceremony script, our tips and examples below are here to help.

This script has been reviewed by Rev. Lisann G. Valentin, an ordained minister at Universal Life Church .

For a nonreligious wedding ceremony, there’s no standard script you need to adhere to. The script below can be a helpful starting point for a simple wedding ceremony you can build upon and personalize however you like.

Opening words/welcome

The ceremony will begin with the officiant addressing the reception.

Officiant: “Welcome friends, family, and loved ones. We’re gathered here today to celebrate [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in their lifelong commitment of love to each other. Finding your life partner is a true joy, and the commitment to share in life’s ups and downs as one is no small feat. While marriage will bring its own challenges and triumphs, let this day be a reminder of what your love has already accomplished, as well as the possibilities for your partnership as you grow together for years to come.”

While a simple wedding ceremony might omit this part altogether, some couples like to personalize their ceremony wedding scripts with a chosen reading or song to celebrate their union. A close friend or family member, the officiant, or the couple themselves might perform readings. For example, the officiant might call upon a chosen friend or family member to perform an original poem or share a story about the couple’s relationship.

Officiant: “As our reading today, [PARTNER A/B] has asked [his, her] [friend/cousin/other family member] to recite an original poem in honor of their union.”

[Reading proceeds.]

Vows and ring exchange

Couples may choose to write their own vows or omit reciting vows altogether.

Officiant to reception: “[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] will now exchange rings as a symbol of their love and lifelong commitment.”

At this point, couples may exchange their vows (if desired) before placing their rings on each other's fingers. Below is an example of vows that might be exchanged:

Partner A to Partner B: “With this ring, I promise to support you, care for you, laugh with you, share in your burdens, be honest with you, and be faithful to you in all that we may face in the years ahead. I promise to love you with everything I have, from this day forward and beyond.”

Partner B to Partner A: “With this ring, I promise to love you and commit myself to you for the rest of my life. I promise to stand by your side, be there for you always, and to find laughter and joy even in tough times. I promise to love and accept you just as you are, and grow with you for every year to come.”

Declaration of intent

Officiant to Partner A: “Do you, [PARTNER A], take [PARTNER B] to be your lawfully wedded [husband, wife, partner]? Will you honor and cherish them, continue to deepen your understanding of them, and treat them with love and compassion in joy and pain, sickness and health, and whatever life might throw your way?”

Partner A: “I will” or “I do.”

Officiant to Partner B: “Do you, [PARTNER B], take [PARTNER A] to be your lawfully wedded [wife, husband, partner]? Will you honor and cherish them, continue to deepen your understanding of them, and treat them with love and compassion in joy and pain, sickness and health, and whatever life might throw your way?”

Partner B: “I will” or “I do.”

Pronouncement

Finally, the officiant will pronounce the couple as married. To capture the perfect moment, couples might also request that the officiant steps to the side for the kiss during the wedding nuptials.

Officiant to all: “By the authority vested in me, and with the trust of you all here today, I now declare you joined in love. You may now kiss!"

Officiant to all: “Thank you all for joining in this momentous occasion for [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]! They now invite you to join them for a reception at [LOCATION]. Thank you all!”

This script has been reviewed by Sheena Wheadon, licensed wedding officiant at Why Knot Weddings .

Any wedding ceremony can take a modern spin. Any number of personal touches can be added to your ceremony to make it more modern—whether you want to include your pets, switch up how your wedding party is presented, or simply add some modern flair to your wedding vows and readings. Personalizing your wedding ceremony script is a great way to infuse who you really are into your big day.

The officiant script will begin by welcoming the reception.

Officiant: “Good afternoon and welcome! We’d like to thank everyone on this beautiful day for coming to support [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in this exciting endeavor and union. Your friendship and support has helped to strengthen them as they’ve made their way to this moment, and they thank you for being here.”

Couples may choose to include a reading in their marriage ceremony script. This reading can be anything you wish, whether it’s a special poem, a reading from a book, a quote from a movie, or a story about the couple’s relationship shared by a close friend or family member.

Vows Exchange

Many modern couples opt to write their own wedding vows or omit them altogether. It’s up to you! Below is an example of modern wedding vows:

Officiant to couple: “[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], please exchange your vows.”

Partner A to Partner B: “[NAME], you’re my best friend. I’m in awe of your lightness, your kindness, and the purity of what it looks like to be loved by someone like you. It’s a love with no expectations, no strings attached, only a desire to support me and see me fulfilled. To know and be known by you is a gift and a privilege. I know we were made for each other. So here’s what I promise:

I vow always to strive to be the best version of myself so that I can show up for you every single day. I vow to seek joy and hope even in dark times and be there for you when you need me. I vow to trust you and love you unconditionally. I vow to continue to learn from the examples of patience and selflessness that you have always embodied.”

Partner B to Partner A: “[NAME], I love you with my whole heart. You’ve loved me with a loyalty that I’d never experienced before, and didn’t even know existed. You have seen every part of me, and even at my lowest you have stood by my side. You’ve never given up on me, and I have no doubt that you are the person I’m meant to spend my life with. I vow to keep a soft heart when challenges come, and to be aware of my words and actions and how they affect you. I vow to support you in all things, to love you well, and to create a life we’re proud of. Life is fleeting, and I want to cherish every minute of it with you.”

Officiant to couple: “[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], do you take one another as partners from this day forward?”

Couple in unison: “We do.”

Officiant: “Will you love, honor, and cherish one another as partners for the rest of your lives?”

Couple responds: “We will.”

• Ring exchange

Officiant to reception: “[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] have chosen these rings as a symbol of their unbreakable love. Please place these rings on each other’s fingers and repeat after me:

‘I give you this ring as a reminder of our love that unites, inspires, and celebrates what we have.’”

[Couple repeats to each other.]

Finally, the officiant will pronounce the couple as legally wed:

Officiant to all: “By the authority vested in me, it is with joy that I pronounce you married. Now kiss and go celebrate!”

Officiant to all: “Thank you all for joining in this beautiful occasion for [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]! They now invite you to join them for a reception at [LOCATION]. Thank you all!”

There’s no rule that says your wedding ceremony has to be serious from start to finish. Some couples prefer to add a bit of humor to their ceremony for a more lighthearted affair. The following funny wedding ceremony script has all the required legal elements of becoming legally married, with a humorous touch to keep your guests on their toes.

The officiant will begin by welcoming the crowd and introducing the ceremony.

Officiant to all: “Hello and welcome! We’re here today because [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] have decided they love each other so much that they want to get the government involved! But in all seriousness, a huge thanks to all who have joined us. We promise we’ll get these two hitched quickly so you can make a beeline to the open bar!

I’d like to take this opportunity to ponder the meaning of marriage. Now I know I made a joke about these two loving each other so much they’ve decided to get the government involved, but we know that’s not all marriage is. It’s a tradition, yes, but it’s so much more. It might take a lot of work and compromise, but at the end of the day, this is about choosing your person until the end of this thing we call life. So no matter how many dishes they leave in the sink, no matter how horrible their cooking is, no matter how bad their mood might be on occasion—you’ve got someone who chooses to stick with you through it all. And that’s what marriage is about!”

Including readings in your ceremony is optional, but some couples opt to personalize their ceremony with a particular reading, quote, or story. Some humorous wedding ceremonies might involve a close friend or family member sharing a lighthearted account of the couple’s relationship, with some light humor to get a laugh out of the crowd. The wedding ceremony officiant script can even include fun elements,

Officiant: “As our reading today, [PARTNER A/B} has asked [his, her] [friend/cousin/other family member] to share a personal story of their relationship in honor of their marriage today.”

At this point, couples may exchange vows if they’ve chosen to write them. Here’s an example of wedding vows with a little humor:

Officiant to Partner A: “Now, it’s time to put a ring on it! [PARTNER A], repeat after me: ‘I give you this ring as a symbol that I will love and cherish you, and that I’ll try to keep my mouth shut when it’s your turn to choose the movie we watch.’”

[Partner A repeats.]

Officiant to Partner B: “[PARTNER B], repeat after me: ‘I give you this ring as a symbol that I will love and cherish you, and that I’ll consider making you dinner every once in a while.’”

[Partner B repeats.]

Officiant to Partner A: “Do you, [PARTNER A], take [PARTNER B] to be your lawfully wedded [husband, wife, partner], to love and cherish them for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, and reap as many tax benefits as you can for as long as you both shall live?”

Partner A: “I do.”

Officiant to Partner B: “Do you, [PARTNER B], take [PARTNER A] to be your lawfully wedded [wife, husband, partner], to love and cherish them for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, and reap as many tax benefits as you can for as long as you both shall live?”

Partner B: “I do.”

Now, the officiant will pronounce the couple as legally wed:

Officiant: “What a romantic exchange. Now, I guess there’s only one thing left to do: By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife]! Now kiss!”

Officiant to all: “That’s a wrap on the formal proceedings of today. [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] will greet you in [LOCATION] at [TIME]. We thank you for coming—now get out of here and go celebrate!”

While traditional gender roles often make up the bulk of how many sample wedding ceremony scripts are written, this doesn’t have to be the case for a more inclusive ceremony. The following example script does away with gendered language and puts the focus on the love shared between the couple and what that means for them.

The officiant will begin by welcoming the reception. This is also when the wedding officiant script can include any specific announcements, like requesting guests to silence their phones.

Officiant: “Welcome friends, family, and loved ones! We’re gathered here today in celebration of (Partner A) and (Partner B) and to bear witness as they join their lives in marriage. On behalf of (Partner A) and (Partner B), it’s a true pleasure to have you here to celebrate this incredible moment.

Love is one of the greatest gifts life has to offer. Love offers hope, joy, comfort, and security, in good times and bad. Love is what spurs our personal growth and allows us to face life and all its challenges, with the unending support of the person we’ve chosen to commit our lives to. (Partner A) and (Partner B) stand before you today to share the love and happiness in their hearts as they take their relationship to a deeper level of commitment by making a passage into marriage.”

While totally optional, couples can choose to include a reading of their choice in their ceremony. This can be anything from a particular poem or section from a book to a special movie quote or personal story about the couple’s relationship. Couples might have the officiant perform the reading or have a loved one come up to share instead.

Officiant: “(Partner A) and (Partner B) have selected a reading from [SOURCE] that represents their unique journey and the commitment they’re making today.”

Vows exchange

Couples who have chosen to write their own wedding vows will recite them here. These could be in a question-and-answer format or long-form vows written beforehand (or a combination of both). Couples can also ask their officiant to step to the side during the vow readings—it helps make the moment more intimate!

Here’s an example of wedding vows for you to work from:

Officiant to couple: “Marriage is a lifelong commitment to love and care for each other to the best of your ability. Are you both ready to take this step together?”

Couple responds: “Yes!”

Officiant to couple: “Do you promise to care for each other, treat each other with respect and compassion, and to always move toward love in your efforts to support one another?”

Couple responds: “We do.”

Officiant to couple: “Do you promise to meet each challenge and triumph with integrity, gratitude, and patience, and to strive to learn and grow together for all of your days?”

Affirmation of family and friends

Officiant to reception: “Do you, the family and friends of (Partner A) and (Partner B), give your full support today and wish them a lifetime of happiness together?”

Reception responds: “We do.”

Expression of intent

Officiant: “In the presence and witness of the loved ones you have gathered here today, I now ask you to state your intentions.

(Partner A) and (Partner B), have you come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in the commitment of marriage?”

Couple responds: “Yes.”

Officiant: “Once more, will you love, honor, and cherish one another as partners for the rest of your lives?”

Officiant to reception: “(Partner A) and (Partner B), please repeat after me:

‘I give you this ring as a symbol of the vows we’ve made today. I pledge to you my love, respect, and commitment. With everything that I am, I honor you.’”

Officiant: “Now that you, (Partner A) and (Partner B), have promised to give yourselves fully to each other, to love each other through the vows you have made, and through the giving and receiving of these rings, it is my great pleasure by the power vested in me to now pronounce you married! You may now kiss!”

Closing/invitation to reception

Officiant to all: “Thank you all for joining in this joyous occasion for (Partner A) and (Partner B)! They now invite you to join them for a reception at [LOCATION]. Thank you all!”

This script has been reviewed by the ordained ministers at Universal Life Church Monastery .

As the name indicates, this script for weddings includes religious aspects, such as Bible readings and prayers. Feel free to personalize this idea to your liking and include more or fewer scriptural elements.

Processional

The processional is simply the beginning of the wedding ceremony, when guests are seated, followed by the entrance of the bridal party.

Officiant to reception: "Welcome, loved ones. We are gathered here today in the sight of God and these witnesses to join together [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] in holy matrimony.”

The declaration of intent is a crucial element of any wedding ceremony, and is legally required to show consent among both parties to be married.

Officiant to the couple: "[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], you have come together this day so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of this minister of his word and this community of family and friends and so, in the presence of this gathering, I ask you to state your intentions:

Have you both come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in marriage? If so, answer by saying 'I have.'"

[Couple responds in unison with ‘I have.’]

A reading from the Bible is a common component in many Christian wedding ceremonies. While choosing a passage from Corinthians isn’t required, it’s a popular choice for many.

Officiant to reception: “A reading from the Apostle Paul, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: ‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.’

Let us pray for this couple as they make their marriage vows.

Father, as [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] pledge themselves to each other, help them and bless them that their love may be pure, and their vows may be true. Through Jesus Christ our Lord, amen."

Today’s wedding vows are often personalized according to whatever feels right to the couple. However, a traditional statement of vows is also common in Christian wedding ceremonies.

Couple to each other: “I, [NAME], take thee, [NAME], to be my wedded (husband, wife), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part. This is my solemn vow.”

Officiant to Partner A: "[PARTNER A], please take the ring you have selected for [PARTNER B]. As you place it on his/her finger, repeat after me:

‘With this ring, I thee wed.’"

[Partner A repeats the phrase as they place the ring on Partner B’s finger]

Officiant to Partner B: "[PARTNER B], please take the ring you have selected for [PARTNER A]. As you place it on his/her finger, repeat after me:

[Partner B repeats the phrase as they place the ring on Partner A’s finger]

One distinction of a Christian wedding ceremony script is including a prayer of blessing over the union.

Officiant to the couple: "May Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, always be at the center of the new lives you are now starting to build together, that you may know the ways of true love and kindness. May the Lord bless you both all the days of your lives and fill you with His joy. Amen."

Officiant to reception: “By the power vested in me by the state of [STATE], I now pronounce you [husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife]! You may kiss the bride!”

Officiant to all: “Thank you all for joining in this joyous occasion for [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]! They now invite you to join them for a reception at [LOCATION]. Thank you all!”

As with the Christian script, this version includes religious elements. However, Catholic ceremonies are greatly rooted in tradition and include formal aspects at their core. The officiant is typically a priest, and these services traditionally take place in the church.

Entrance rite

As the entrance song is played, the assembly stands while the priest, ministers, and servers take their places, followed by the wedding party. The rest of this part of the processional can take two forms.

In the first form, the vested priests and servers greet the bridal party at the church door, and then all enter as is customary for Mass. In the second form, the priest and servers wait in the sanctuary area prepared for the couple to greet them when they arrive. In both forms, the priest always leads the procession.

Once everyone is in place and the music has ended, the priest leads the sign of the cross, or the traditional beginning of Christian prayer, before greeting the assembly.

Priest: “In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy spirit.”

All respond: “Amen.”

Priest: “Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Collect (opening prayer)

The priest invites the assembly to pray. After he prays over the couple, the assembly is seated for the Liturgy of the Word.

Priest: “Be attentive to our prayers, O Lord, and in your kindness uphold what you have established for the increase of the human race, so that the union you have created may be kept safe by your assistance. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever.”

Liturgy of the word

The liturgy of the word outside of mass usually includes three readings proclaimed by the priest, one from the Old Testament, one from the New Testament aside from the Gospel, and one from the Gospel. At the conclusion of each reading, the lector will say, "The Word of the Lord," and the assembly will respond, "Thanks be to God."

Priest: “A reading from the book of Genesis 1:26-28:

Then God said: ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. Let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, and the cattle, and over all the wild animals and all the creatures that crawl on the ground.” God created man in his image; in the image of God he created him; male and female, he created them. God blessed them, saying: “Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, and all the living things that move on the earth.” God looked at everything he had made, and he found it very good. The word of the Lord.’

Assembly responds: “Thanks be to God.”

Priest: “A reading from the New Testament, 1 John 4:7-12:

Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

The word of the Lord.”

All respond: “Thanks be to God.”

Priest: “A reading from the Gospel, Matthew 5:13-16:

You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

All respond: “Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.”

Assembly is seated.

The assembly is seated while the priest (or deacon) offers a homily taken from the Scripture readings. The priest uses this text to discuss the sacredness of Christian marriage, the dignity of conjugal love, the grace of the sacrament, and the responsibilities of married people.

Priest: "John 3:30 says ‘He must increase, but I must decrease.’

Those simple, direct words of St. John the Baptist, whose feast we celebrate today, summarize the life of the Christian disciple. In all things, we want Jesus to increase and our own will, our own desires, our own attachments, to decrease. In my heart, in my prayer, in my family, in my parish, in my work, in my study, in my leisure, in my entertainment - may the Lord Jesus increase!"

Celebration of matrimony

All stand, and the couple comes to the altar, flanked by their witnesses. The priest will address the couple with a celebration of matrimony:

Priest: “Dearly beloved, you have come together into the house of the church so that in the presence of the church’s minister and the community, your intention to enter into marriage may be strengthened by the Lord with a sacred seal.”

If both parties are Christian: “Christ abundantly blesses the love that binds you. Through a special sacrament, he enriches and strengthens those he has already consecrated by holy baptism, that you may be enriched with his blessing, so that you may have the strength to be faithful to each other forever, and assume all the responsibilities of married life. And so, in the presence of the church, I ask you to state your intentions.”

Address and statement of intentions

All stand, including the couple and witnesses, while the priest asks the couple some questions to state their intentions about their freedom of choice, fidelity to each other, and the acceptance and upbringing of children (if necessary).

Priest to couple: “[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], have you come here to enter into marriage without coercion, freely and wholeheartedly?”

Couple in unison: “I have.”

Priest to couple: “Are you prepared, as you follow the path of marriage, to love and honor each other for as long as you both shall live?”

Couple in unison: “I am.”

Exchange of consent

The couple will declare their consent to be married by stating their vows. If you’re writing your own vows, they must be prepared with the wedding script beforehand.

Partner A: “I, [NAME], take you, [NAME], to be my [wife, husband]. I promise to be faithful to you, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, to love you and to honor you all the days of my life.”

Partner B: “I, [NAME], take you, [NAME], to be my [husband, wife]. I promise to be faithful to you, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, to love you and to honor you all the days of my life.”

Blessing and giving of rings

Priest: “Bless, O Lord, these rings which we bless in your name. so that those who wear them may remain entirely faithful to each other, abide in peace and in your will, and live always in mutual charity. Through Christ our Lord.”

Assembly responds: “Amen.”

The priest now sprinkles the wedding rings with holy water before handing them to each partner.

Partner A: “[NAME], receive this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the father, and the son, and the holy spirit.”

[Partner A places the ring on Partner B’s finger]

Partner B: “[NAME], receive this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the father, and the son, and the holy spirit.”

[Partner B places the ring on Partner A’s finger]

The priest and the assembly sing or pray the Lord’s Prayer in unison.

Nuptial blessing

The couple kneels at the altar, where the priest faces them and prays over them.

Priest: “Now let us humbly invoke God’s blessing upon this bride and groom, that in his kindness he may favor with his help those on whom he has bestowed the Sacrament of Matrimony.”

The priest performs communion and distributes the body and blood of Christ to Catholics in the assembly, starting with the newly married couple. An appropriate song is usually sung as the assembly proceeds to the altar for communion.

Priest to reception: “By the power vested in me by the state of [STATE], I now pronounce you [husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife]! You may now kiss!”

Priest to assembly: “Go in peace to glorify the Lord with your life.”

Recessional

At the closing of the ceremony, the couple, bridal party, ministers, and the priest will proceed out of the church, often accompanied by music.

A Jewish wedding also has traditional elements, many of which are centuries old. Talk to your officiant (often a rabbi) about making changes and personalizing this wedding ceremony outline to fit your needs without breaking Jewish tradition.

Signing of the Ketubah

The Ketubah is an ancient marriage contract that documents the commitment between the couple. Typically, the groom signs the contract with the rabbi and two male Jewish witnesses present, along with the bride, in private before the main ceremony begins.

Officiant: “Please gather around for this ‘ceremony before the ceremony’, the signing of the Ketubah. Bride and groom, in this quiet moment before your public wedding ceremony begins, those closest to you are here to witness the signing of the important documents that make this day a remarkable moment for you both. As you become legally husband and wife, we delight in your happiness, and we wish you only good things to come as you face life together. This beautiful Ketubah has these words for you today, and I ask the groom’s witness [NAME] to read the words.”

[Groom’s witness reads the Ketubah.]

Officiant: “I ask you both to sign the Ketubah as the first ceremonial act of your wedding day celebration.”

[Couple signs the Ketubah.]

Officiant: “Now I ask your parents to sign the Ketubah.”

[Couple’s parents sign the Ketubah.]

Officiant: “And now I sign it as well.”

[Officiant signs the Ketubah.]

The ceremony begins once guests are seated.

Officiant to reception: “This is the day that [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] marry the person they love the most in the world…the one they will laugh with, live for, and love for the rest of their lives. So it is only fitting that those closest to them are here to witness this special day. Your presence at this wedding celebration is a reminder to [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] of how lucky they are to have you in support of their union.”

The chuppah

The chuppah is a canopy structure symbolizing the home the couple will build together following their marriage. Modern couples use the chuppah as an opportunity to customize their wedding and use it as a reflection of their unique taste and style.

Officiant: “The chuppah under which [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] stand is the traditional structure used in a Jewish wedding ceremony. What you see in the setting for this ceremony tells you so much about the path that brings [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] to be married. Today, their families are joined together, and the combined richness of their two heritages will be the foundation for their life together.

As the open sides of a chuppah symbolize hospitality, the chuppah in this ceremony invites you all to feel welcome today, for this is the day of all days that [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] want to share with you.”

After the couple enters the chuppah, the bride/groom circles the bride/groom seven times, symbolizing building a wall of love around the relationship. It also represents the seven days of creation.

Declaration of support

Officiant to the couple: “A marriage is a lifelong adventure. Today’s ceremony, while important, is only the beginning of that journey. Marriage is a challenge that will require [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] to have love and understanding. You must dedicate yourselves to each other, listen to each other, and be honest with each other. You will need laughter and forgiveness, tenderness and empathy.”

Sand ceremony

Officiant to the couple: “We will now begin the sand ceremony. Through it, [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] will symbolize the permanence of the commitment of their marital relationship. They will each pour separate containers of sand into one vessel.

Each of these grains represents a unique aspect of themselves. Their experiences, outlooks, feelings, and the events that shaped them into the person that stands before you. As these grains of sand intermingle in one shared vessel, they symbolize the merging of two individual lives into an inseparable pair.

[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], just as these grains of sand can never again be separated, so too will you be forever joined.”

Officiant to Partner A: "Do you, [PARTNER A], take this [woman, man] to be your lawfully wedded [wife, husband], to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself unto [her, him] for as long as you both shall live? If so, answer 'I do.'"

Officiant to Partner B: "Do you, [PARTNER B], take this [man, woman] to be your lawfully wedded [husband, wife], to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and woe, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself unto [him, her] for as long as you both shall live? If so, answer 'I do.'"

Officiant to Partner A: "[PARTNER A], as a token of your intentions, please place this ring upon [PARTNER B]’s finger and repeat after me:

‘[PARTNER B], I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness.’"

[Partner A repeats the words while placing the ring on Partner B’s finger.]

Officiant to Partner B: "[PARTNER B], as a token of your intentions, please place this ring upon [PARTNER A]’s finger and repeat after me:

‘[PARTNER A], I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness.’"

[Partner B repeats the words while placing the ring on Partner A’s finger.]

Blessing of the hands

Officiant to the couple: "[PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B], please join hands. Look at these hands, for they are of your closest friend. They are strong and full of love. As you join hands today, you make the promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever.

Your future will be built by these hands. As the years pass, these hands will love you and cherish you. The slightest touch from these hands will give you comfort. These are the hands that will hold your children. These are the hands that will keep your family as one. When you have tears of sorrow or tears of joy, they will be wiped away by these hands."

The Seven Blessings

The Seven Blessings are now recited.

• Blessing over the wine as a symbol of joy
• Blessing praising God to whom all creation proclaims praise
• Blessing praising God as creator of humanity
• Blessing praising God who created humanity in the divine image
• Prayer of hope
• Prayer for the happiness of the couple
• Prayer for the individual hope for happiness for the couple combined with prayer for joy in the messianic future

Following the Seven Blessings, the couple shares a cup of wine.

Breaking the glass

The ceremony is concluded by the tradition of the groom (or bride) stomping on glass and shattering it. This signals the audience to cheer, dance, and shout “Mazal tov!”

After the ceremony concludes, the final ritual takes place in the yichud or “tent of seclusion.” This is considered to be one of the most private and intimate parts of the wedding day, where the newlyweds can savor their first moments alone before the celebration continues.

There are many denominations within the Protestant faith, and the standard ceremony for each may vary. Those with a more liberal interpretation of the wedding ceremony might be open to including more nontraditional elements in the wedding script. The script below is adapted from the Book of Common Prayer, and is just one of many possible variations of a Protestant wedding ceremony.

Introductory prayer

The officiant, known as the celebrant, faces the couple and congregation and offers an introduction:

Officiant: “Dearly beloved, we have come together in the presence of God to witness and bless the joining together of this couple in holy matrimony. The bond and covenant of marriage was established by God in creation, and our Lord Jesus Christ adorned this manner of life by His presence and first miracle at the wedding at Cana in Galilee. It signifies to us the mystery of the union between Christ and His church, and holy Scripture commends it to be honored among all people.

The union of marriage is intended by God for their mutual joy, for the help and comfort given each other in prosperity and adversity, and, when it is God’s will, for the procreation of children and their nurture in the knowledge and love of the Lord. Therefore, marriage is not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the purposes for which it was instituted by God.”

The interrogation

Celebrant to the congregation: “Into this union [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B] now come to be joined. If any of you can show just cause why they may not be lawfully wed, speak now, or else forever hold your peace.”

Celebrant to the couple: “I charge you both, here in the presence of God and the witness of this company, that if either of you know any reason why you may not be married lawfully and in accordance with God's word, do now confess it.”

Celebrant to Partner A: “[PARTNER A], will you have this [woman, man] to be your [wife, husband], to live together with [her, him] in the covenant of marriage? Will you love [her, him], comfort [her, him], honor and keep [her, him], in sickness and in health, and, forsaking all others, be faithful unto [her, him] as long as you both shall live?”

Partner A: “I will.”

Celebrant to Partner B: “[PARTNER B], will you have this [man, woman] to be your [husband, wife], to live together with [him/her] in the covenant of marriage? Will you love [him/her], comfort [him/her], honor and keep [him/her], in sickness and in health, and, forsaking all others, be faithful unto [him/her] as long as you both shall live?”

Partner B: “I will.”

Celebrant to the congregation: “Will all of you witnessing these promises do all in your power to uphold these two persons in their marriage?”

Congregation responds: “We will.”

The presentation

The presentation represents the traditional “giving away” of the bride, typically followed by a hymn. Modern Protestants may opt for a poem, romantic reading, or song of their choice in place of a hymn.

Celebrant: “Who gives [PARTNER A] to be married to [PARTNER B]?”

Partner A or B’s father: “[He, she] gives [himself, herself], with the blessing of [his, her] mother and father.”

Some modern Protestants might choose to write their own wedding vows, but the traditional vows most often recited are as follows:

Partner A to Partner B: “In the name of God, I, [NAME], take you, [NAME], to be my [wife, husband], to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do we part. This is my solemn vow.”

Partner B to Partner A: “In the name of God, I, [NAME], take you, [NAME], to be my [husband, wife], to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do we part. This is my solemn vow.”

The blessing and exchange of rings

The celebrant offers a blessing on the rings: “Bless, O Lord, these rings as a symbol of the vows by which this couple have bound themselves to each other, through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

Congregation responds: “Amen.”

Partner A and Partner B place the rings on each other’s fingers and say: “I give you this ring as a symbol of my love, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.”

The celebrant joins the right hands of both partners and says: “Now that [NAME] and [NAME] have given themselves to each other by solemn vows, with the joining of hands and the giving and receiving of rings, I pronounce them [husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife] in the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Those who God has joined together, let no man put asunder.”

Concluding prayers

The celebrant asks the congregation to stand and repeat the Lord’s Prayer:

All: “Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, for thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.”

In traditional Protestant weddings, the celebrant will direct the couple to kneel while further blessings and songs are offered. The celebrant then addresses the kneeling couple and recites another blessing:

Celebrant: “May God bless you and keep you; may the Lord mercifully with his favor look upon you, filling you with all spiritual benediction and grace; that you may faithfully live together in this life, and in the age to come have life everlasting. Amen.”

Celebrant to the congregation: “The peace of the Lord be with you always.”

All respond: “And also with you.”

Finally, the couple stands to face each other while the celebrant offers a final line to end the ceremony:

Celebrant: “[NAME] and [NAME], having witnessed your vows of love to one another, it is my joy to present you to all gathered here as [husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife]. You may now kiss!”

While writing your wedding ceremony script might feel daunting, these tips can help take the pressure off and provide some much-needed guidance on how to bring your ceremony vision to life—whatever that means to you.

1. Talk with your partner

Writing your script is an opportunity to reflect on the significance of your relationship before you enter into marriage. Talking with your partner about your ideas and desires for your wedding ceremony is an important first step—it helps you get aligned on a mutual vision and ensures the ceremony is a reflection of what matters most to you as a couple.

2. Work with your officiant

Your officiant can provide practical advice on how to get started crafting your ceremony script, and some might even have an outline for you to work from. Since your officiant has most likely conducted their fair share of wedding ceremonies, they’re an excellent resource for any questions you might have.

3. Don’t procrastinate

While you certainly don’t need to memorize your wedding ceremony script, don't put it off until the last minute—especially if you plan on writing your own vows . Procrastinating until the week of your wedding can add a ton of pressure to an already hectic time, so do yourself a favor and get started early!

4. Consider the length of your script

While your wedding ceremony script should be whatever you want it to be, being mindful of time and length is something your guests will appreciate. Anything longer than 30 minutes might leave guests checking their watches! Once you’ve written a draft and have the chance to rehearse it, you’ll find that you can pack plenty of meaning and resonance in less than 15 minutes.

Now that you’ve read some ceremony script examples, you can confidently start writing your own! No matter what you decide to include, what matters most is that the words shared are from the heart and represent what your marriage means to you. Here’s an ultra-simple outline to help you start formulating your own wedding script for officiants to use.

• Officiant’s welcome
• Short sermon to the congregation
• Charge to the couple
• Declaration of the intent to marry
• Pronouncement of marriage
• Conclusion and invitation to reception

Find answers to any lingering wedding ceremony script questions below.

How do I personalize my wedding ceremony script?

Start by nailing down the overall format of your script, including the order of the ceremony and the role of the officiant. Then weave in personal elements significant to you and your partner, such as customizing your vows, a special unity ceremony, or a reading that holds meaning. Remember, there’s no rule that says you have to follow a traditional wedding ceremony script.

How do I start a wedding ceremony script?

Most wedding ceremony outlines start with the wedding officiant welcoming guests and thanking them for joining in the wedding day. Religious ceremonies may start with a reading from the Bible or whatever is customary for different faiths. That said, your ceremony script can begin however you like, whether that’s opening with a meaningful quote, poem, or endearing story about you and your partner.

Where can I find wedding ceremony scripts?

The best place to find both religious and non religious wedding ceremony scripts is online. You can find downloadable pre-written scripts by searching for a specific religious denomination or the mood you want your ceremony to take. For extra inspiration, search for wedding ceremony videos on YouTube to get a feel for what different scripts sound like during a real ceremony.

How long should the officiant speak at the wedding?

Your officiant wedding script should get straight to the point while adding personality. Talk to your celebrant about the parts that are most important to you, such as giving a blessing to the couple . However, if the sermon isn’t essential to you, feel free to shorten it. The last thing you want to do is bore your guests, so concise yet interesting is best.

Although there is a bit of protocol surrounding the order of service, there is a lot of freedom within with most scripts. If you’re particularly religious, you may want to chat with your priest, rabbi, or pastor about how to best adapt your ceremony. However, if you’re not planning on a religious ceremony, chat with your partner about expectations and how to go from expected to highly personal.

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Wedding Ceremony Scripts (6 Samples You’ll Want to Borrow)

Every couple has a unique vision for their wedding day, and the ceremony should reflect their individual preferences and style. If you’re in search of inspiration or a starting point for creating a memorable wedding script, you’re in the right place.

In this blog post, we delve into the essentials of a wedding ceremony script. We’ll explore the key elements that make up a ceremony and provide comprehensive examples to inspire you for the big day.

From straightforward, basic wedding scripts to those incorporating personal vows, and even scripts that blend cultural traditions, we’ve got a variety of options. Plus, we’ll share some useful tips and techniques to tailor each script to fit the couple’s needs and preferences.

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Wedding Ceremony Script Tips

Crafting your wedding ceremony script is a beautiful opportunity to express your unique relationship and personal commitments.

Whether you’re guided by a professional officiant, a spiritual leader, or someone close to you, personalizing your script adds a heartfelt touch to your special day. Here’s how to prepare stress-free:

1. Starting Early

Starting early is your key to a stress-free, personalized wedding script. Begin at least three to six months in advance . This isn’t just about ticking a box; it’s about giving yourself the space to be creative and thorough. Here’s how you can kickstart your process:

• Gather inspiration: Talk with your partner about what feels true to both of you. Dive into online forums, wedding blogs, or even novels and poetry for that spark of creativity.
• Create a rough outline: This early draft will help you visualize the flow of your ceremony.

2. Collaboration with Your Officiant

Your officiant isn’t just a facilitator; they can be your co-creator. Whether they’re a seasoned professional or a dear friend, here’s how to make the most of this partnership:

• Share your vision: Communicate openly about what you envision for your ceremony. This includes the tone, length, and any traditions you want to honor or skip.
• Utilize their experience: An experienced officiant can offer templates and examples that might inspire your own scripting.

3. Crafting Meaningful Vows

Wedding vows are the heart of your ceremony. They’re your promise to each other, witnessed by your loved ones. Make them count:

• Be authentic: Speak from the heart. Be true. What commitments are you making? How has your partner enriched your life? Authenticity resonates more than perfect prose.
• Practice makes perfect: Rehearse out loud! It might feel awkward at first, but it’s the best way to smooth out those nerves.

4. Engaging and Involving Guests

You want your guests to feel connected, not just spectators. Here’s how to keep everyone hooked:

• Interactive elements (optional): Consider a ring-warming ceremony, where your rings are passed through the hands of all your guests, imbuing them with well-wishes.
• Short Stories (optional): Share brief anecdotes that illustrate your journey and involve mutual friends or family, making it relatable and engaging.

5. Getting a Second Opinion

Never underestimate the power of a second set of eyes:

• Peers and Family: Someone who knows you well can advise if your script truly reflects you as a couple.
• Professional Review: A professional can polish your script, ensuring clarity and impact.

6. Final Preparations and Day-of Details

The final weeks before your wedding should be focused on dotting the i’s and crossing the t’s:

• Final Run-Through: Conduct a last rehearsal with all parties involved to ensure everyone knows their cues.
• Programs and Guides: Print programs that outline the ceremony for guests. This helps them follow along and enhances their experience.

Wedding Ceremony Script Examples

Now that you’re set to begin crafting your wedding ceremony script, here are some sample scripts to inspire you and get the creative ideas flowing.

Non-religious Wedding Ceremony Script

• Officiant’s Opening Speech

“Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends, we are gathered here today to celebrate a very special love by joining [Name] and [Name] in marriage. This ceremony is a public affirmation of that bond, and as their community, it is our honor and privilege to stand witness to this event.

This couple has already joined their hearts and lives in countless ways, which makes what we do here today not the beginning of a union but a recognition of a bond that already exists.

[Name] and [Name], your journey began long before today. Through shared dreams, challenges, laughter, and tears, you have built a deep, resilient love. You have found joy in each other’s happiness, comfort in each other’s presence, and strength in each other’s love.

Today, as we mark the continuation of your shared life, we also celebrate the love and trust you have cultivated. It is a love based on giving and receiving, as well as having and sharing. And the love that you give and have is shared and received. And through this having and giving and sharing and receiving, we too can share and love and have… and receive.”

• Exchange of Vows/Declaration of Intent

“Before you declare your vows to one another, I want to hear you confirm that it is indeed your intention to be married today.

[Name], do you come here freely and without reservation to give yourself to [Name] in marriage? If so, answer now, ‘I do.’

Now, please face each other and join hands.

[Name], please repeat after me: I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my lawfully wedded wife. To have and to hold, from this day forward, in joy and in sorrow, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as we both shall live.

[Name], please repeat after me: I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my lawfully wedded husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, in joy and in sorrow, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, as long as we both shall live.”

• Exchange of Rings

“The wedding ring is a symbol of unending love and faithfulness, and of the commitment you have just made. It encircles an unbroken circle, without beginning or end, and is a visible sign of the vows you have made.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed. I offer it as a symbol of our love and of the vows we have made this day.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed. I offer it as a symbol of our love and of the vows we have made this day.”

• Pronouncement

“[Name] and [Name], you have expressed your love to one another through the commitment and promises you have just made. It is with these in mind that I pronounce you husband and wife. You have kissed a thousand times, maybe more, but today the feeling is new. No longer simply partners and best friends, you have become husband and wife and can now seal the agreement with a kiss. Today, your kiss is a promise. You may now kiss the bride.”

Traditional Religious Wedding Ceremony Script

• Officiant’s Opening Remarks

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the sight of God, and in the presence of family and friends, to join together [Name] and [Name] in holy matrimony. Marriage is an honorable estate, instituted of God, signifying unto us the mystical union that is betwixt Christ and His Church. It is therefore not to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, discreetly, advisedly, and in the fear of God. Into this holy estate these two persons present come now to be joined.”

• Invocation or Prayer

“Let us pray. Blessed God, who is present with us now, bless this marriage and the couple who shall be united in your name. Grant them the wisdom, guidance, and strength to honor one another and the vows they will make this day. Amen.”

• Scripture Reading

“Let us hear the word of God as written in [Scripture Reference]. ‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud…'”

• Sermon or Homily

“The scripture we just heard describes love in its purest form. [Name] and [Name], as you stand before God and these witnesses, let this be the love you aspire to throughout your married life. A love that is patient, kind, and selfless. A love that endures and believes in all things.”

• Exchange of Vows

“[Name] and [Name], it is now time to share your vows. [Name], please repeat after me: I, [Name], take thee, [Name], to be my wedded [husband/wife], to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God’s holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith.”

• Ring Exchange

“These rings are an outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace, signifying to all the uniting of [Name] and [Name] in holy matrimony. [Name], as you place this ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.”

• Unity Candle/Symbolic Act (Optional)

“[Name] and [Name] will now light the unity candle/symbolic act, representing the two individual lives joining together as one in marriage.”

• Pronouncement of Marriage

“Forasmuch as [Name] and [Name] have consented together in holy wedlock, and have witnessed the same before God and this company, and thereto have given and pledged their faith each to the other, and have declared the same by giving and receiving a ring, and by joining hands; I pronounce that they are husband and wife, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Those whom God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.”

“May God bless you and keep you. May the Lord make His face to shine upon you, and be gracious unto you. May God lift up His countenance upon you, and give you peace, now and forevermore.”

• Closing Remarks

“[Name] and [Name], you are now officially husband and wife. You may now kiss the bride.”

Wedding Ceremony Script With Own Vows

“Good [morning/afternoon/evening], and welcome to this joyous occasion. We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes and blessings to the words that shall unite [Name] and [Name] in marriage.

Today, they will affirm this bond formally and publicly. This ceremony is a symbol of how far they have come together and a symbol of the promise that they will continue to build their lives together and enrich each other in every possible way.”

• Reading or Poem

“A reading or poem can be included here, something that resonates with the couple’s journey or their vision of love and partnership.”

“Who supports this woman/man in their marriage to this man/woman?” (Traditionally, this is where the parent or family member would say, “I do.”)

• Officiant Addresses the Couple

“[Name] and [Name], as you stand here today, I remind you of the serious nature of the relationship you are about to enter. Marriage is the voluntary and full commitment of two individuals to one another. It is made in the deepest sense to the exclusion of all others and is entered into with the desire, hope, and firm intention that it will last for life.”

• Exchange of Personal Vows

“Before you are joined in marriage, I invite you now to declare your personal vows to each other.”

[Name] begins. Example : “In the presence of our family and friends, I [Name], choose you, [Name], to be my partner in life. I vow to cherish and respect you, to care for and protect you, to comfort and encourage you, and stay with you for all eternity. I promise to laugh with you in times of joy, and comfort you in times of sorrow. I will share in your dreams and support you as you strive to achieve your goals. I will listen to you with compassion and understanding, and speak to you with encouragement. Together, let us build a home filled with learning, laughter, and light, shared freely with all who may live there. Let us be partners, friends, and lovers, today and all of the days that follow.”

[Name] responds. Example : “Today, before our closest friends and family, I, [Name], pledge my love to you, [Name]. I promise to stand by your side in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, through the good times and the bad. I vow to love you without reservation, honor and respect you, provide for your needs as best I can, protect you from harm, comfort you in times of distress, and grow with you in mind and spirit. I will always be honest with you, kind, patient, and forgiving. But most of all, I promise to be a true and loyal friend to you. I love you.”

“The wedding ring is a symbol of unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings remind you always of the vows you have taken here today.”

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: “I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness to you.”

“[Name] and [Name], you have expressed your love to one another through the commitment and promises you have just made. It is with these in mind that I pronounce you husband and wife/partners in life. You have kissed a thousand times, maybe more, but today the feeling is new. No longer simply partners and best friends, you have become husband and wife and can now seal the agreement with a kiss. Today, your kiss is a promise. You may now kiss each other.”

“Ladies and gentlemen, it is my honor to present to you for the first time [Name] and [Name], as a married couple. Congratulations!”

Cultural Fusion Wedding Ceremony Script

“Good [morning/afternoon/evening], and welcome to this beautiful and unique celebration of love. Today, we are gathered not only to witness the union of [Name] and [Name] in marriage but also to celebrate the rich cultural heritage each brings into this union. As these two lives are woven together, so too are their traditions, beliefs, and histories. Let us honor these as we come together in the spirit of joy, love, and unity.”

• Acknowledgment of Cultures

“Before we proceed, let us take a moment to acknowledge the cultural backgrounds that [Name] and [Name] bring to this marriage. [Describe briefly the cultural backgrounds, highlighting key aspects that might be incorporated into the ceremony]. In this marriage, these traditions will not be diluted; instead, they will be respected, celebrated, and blended, just as these two lives are today.”

• Cultural Ritual #1 (from Culture A)

“Let us begin with a traditional [Cultural Ritual from Culture A], which symbolizes [explain the significance]. [Perform the ritual].”

“A reading or poem can be included here, something that resonates with the couple’s journey, or reflects the fusion of cultures.”

• Cultural Ritual #2 (from Culture B)

“We now proceed with a [Cultural Ritual from Culture B], a beautiful tradition that represents [explain the significance]. [Perform the ritual].”

“[Name] and [Name], please face each other as you prepare to make your vows. These words are a promise, a commitment to strive, to grow, and to build a life together. [Each person says their vows, which can be a blend of traditional wording and personal promises.]”

“The exchange of rings is a traditional act that symbolizes the unbroken circle of love. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: ‘With this ring, I marry you and join my life with yours.’ [Repeat with the other partner.]”

• Unity Ceremony (Reflecting Cultural Fusion)

“[Name] and [Name] will now perform a unity ceremony. [Choose a unity ceremony that blends elements from both cultures, such as mixing sands from two different places, lighting a unity candle together, or any other ritual that signifies the coming together of two cultures.]”

“With the power of your love and commitment, and the blessings of your families and cultures, I now pronounce you [husband and wife/partners in life]. You may seal your vows with a kiss.”

• Closing Remarks and Introduction

“Ladies and gentlemen, it is my honor to present to you for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name]. Let us celebrate their union and the beautiful fusion of cultures they represent.”

Short Wedding Ceremony Script

“Ladies and gentlemen, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of [Name] and [Name] in marriage. This ceremony will be brief, but its significance is immense: as today, [Name] and [Name] declare their commitment to each other before all of us as witnesses.”

• Declaration of Intent

“[Name] and [Name], please face each other and join hands.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/partner], to live together in marriage, to love, honor, and comfort them in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, for as long as you both shall live? If so, answer ‘I do.’

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/partner], to live together in marriage, to love, honor, and comfort them in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, for as long as you both shall live? If so, answer ‘I do.'”

“[Name] and [Name], please present your rings.

These rings are a symbol of the vows you have just made. They are the outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites your two hearts in love that has no end.

[Name], as you place this ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: ‘With this ring, I thee wed.’

[Name], as you place this ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: ‘With this ring, I thee wed.'”

“By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband and wife/partners in life]. You may now kiss each other.”

“Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to present to you for the first time, [Name] and [Name] as a married couple. Congratulations!”

Modern Wedding Ceremony Script

“Welcome, everyone. We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to witness the union of [Name] and [Name] in marriage. In an age of fleeting connections and constant change, it’s a joy to be part of something as enduring and meaningful as the commitment we’re about to witness.

Today, [Name] and [Name] declare their love and commitment to each other openly and joyously. We are here not only to witness their union but to wish them well on the journey that lies ahead.”

“A modern reading or poem that resonates with the couple’s journey or their vision of love and partnership can be included here.”

• Expression of Intent

“[Name] and [Name], please face each other as you make your intentions clear to one another.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/partner], to share your life openly, standing with them in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, in hardship and in ease, to cherish and love, so long as you both shall live?

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/partner], to share your life openly, standing with them in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, in hardship and in ease, to cherish and love, so long as you both shall live?”

“Now, [Name] and [Name] will share their vows. These are not just words, but a sacred promise to each other.

[Each person reads their personal vows, crafted to reflect their individual personalities and their shared values.]”

“As a symbol of their commitment, [Name] and [Name] will now exchange rings.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: ‘With this ring, I give you my heart. I promise from this day forward, you shall not walk alone. May my heart be your shelter, and my arms be your home.’

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: ‘With this ring, I give you my heart. I promise from this day forward, you shall not walk alone. May my heart be your shelter, and my arms be your home.'”

“[Name] and [Name], you have expressed your love to one another through these vows and the giving of these rings. With the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband and wife/partners in life]. You may seal your vows with a kiss.”

“Ladies and gentlemen, let us all celebrate the [Name] and [Name] union and the journey that lies ahead.”

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Inspiring Short Wedding Speeches: Examples For Your Big Day

When it comes to wedding speeches, delivering a memorable and heartfelt speech is crucial. Short wedding speeches have become increasingly popular, as they capture the essence of the occasion without taking up too much time. Whether you’re the father of the bride, the maid of honor, or the best man, crafting the perfect short wedding speech can be a challenging task. In this article, we will explore what makes a great wedding speech, provide examples of short speeches for different roles, offer tips to deliver a memorable speech, and highlight common mistakes to avoid.

What Makes a Great Wedding Speech?

A great wedding speech should captivate the audience from the start and leave a lasting impression. To achieve this, it should include a captivating opening line that grabs everyone’s attention. Personal anecdotes and heartfelt stories are essential as they create a connection between the speaker and the couple. Incorporating humor and light-hearted moments adds a touch of entertainment to keep the mood joyful. Expressing gratitude towards the guests and well wishes for the couple’s future are also important elements. Lastly, closing the speech on a memorable note ensures that it lingers in the minds of the listeners.

Sample Short Wedding Speeches

Father of the bride’s speech.

As the father of the bride, you play an essential role in welcoming guests and expressing your emotions. Start by acknowledging the joyous gathering and reflecting on your daughter’s journey leading up to this special day. Share your profound love and happiness for her, as well as your appreciation for the groom. You can end the speech by proposing a toast to their future together, filled with love, happiness, and wonderful adventures.

Maid of Honor’s Speech

As the maid of honor, you have a close bond with the bride and are well-equipped to give a heartfelt speech. Begin by introducing yourself and briefly highlighting your relationship with the bride. Share memorable moments and inside jokes that showcase your deep connection. Don’t forget to recognize the groom and express your excitement for their union. Conclude your speech by wishing the couple a lifetime of happiness, love, and beautiful memories.

Best Man’s Speech

Being the best man means you have a special relationship with the groom. Start your speech by establishing your friendship and sharing humorous anecdotes and personal stories that reflect the groom’s character and love for the bride. Emphasize the qualities that make him a perfect partner. Wrap up your speech by raising a toast to the couple’s happiness, creating a warm and celebratory atmosphere.

Tips for Delivering a Memorable Wedding Speech

Preparing and delivering a memorable wedding speech can be nerve-wracking. However, with the right approach, you can confidently deliver a speech that touches hearts. Practice your speech multiple times to ensure you feel comfortable with the flow and content. Speak with confidence and clarity, projecting your voice so that everyone can hear you. Engage the audience by maintaining eye contact and using appropriate gestures. Visual aids can be used sparingly, if relevant to your speech. Keep in mind that keeping the speech concise and focused will keep your audience engaged and interested.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

When giving a wedding speech, there are a few mistakes that are best to avoid. First, avoid rambling or going off-topic. Stay focused on the couple and the purpose of your speech. Be cautious not to offend or embarrass the bride or groom. While inside jokes can add a personal touch, ensure they are inclusive and relatable to the audience. Speak at a moderate pace, avoiding rushing or speaking too slowly. It’s important to pause and let your words sink in. Lastly, don’t forget to raise a toast and express heartfelt wishes for the newlyweds.

In conclusion, short wedding speeches have the power to leave a lasting impact on everyone in attendance. Craft your speech with a captivating opening, personal anecdotes, humor, gratitude, and a memorable closing. Whether you’re the father of the bride, maid of honor, or best man, share your love, support, and well wishes for the couple. Remember to practice, speak with confidence, engage the audience, and keep your speech concise. By avoiding common mistakes, you can deliver a memorable wedding speech that will be cherished for years to come. Wishing you a wonderful journey in creating your perfect wedding speech!

Jessica Rankin

50 Wedding Ceremony Scripts to Inspire Your Own Ceremony

Wedding officiant.

May 28, 2024

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Planning your dream wedding? One of the pivotal elements that sets the tone for your special day is the ceremony script . It’s the heart of your wedding, reflecting your unique love story and setting the atmosphere for the moments you’ll cherish forever. Whether you envision a traditional ceremony steeped in timeless rituals, a modern and creative expression of your love, a unique and personalized script that captures your journey together, a beautifully simple exchange of vows, or a ceremony imbued with religious significance, we’re here to guide you.

Our wedding ceremony scripts encompass a range of themes and tones, from heartfelt and romantic to light-hearted and humorous, ensuring that you find the perfect script that resonates with your vision for your wedding day. Each script is thoughtfully designed to capture the essence of your love story, weaving in meaningful vows, readings, and rituals that celebrate your journey together.

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TL;DR: Key Takeaways

• Your wedding officiant speech should reflect who you are as a couple
• Think about the tone, style, length, and legal stuff when choosing a script
• Traditional scripts are formal and often religious; modern ones are more flexible
• Unique scripts can include themes or cultural elements
• Simple scripts are short and sweet, great for intimate weddings
• Religious scripts follow specific faith traditions
• Bridesmaid for Hire can help personalize your script and reduce stress

Understanding Wedding Ceremony Scripts

First off, what exactly is a wedding ceremony script? It’s basically the playbook for your ceremony. It guides the flow and makes sure all the important stuff gets covered. Scripts can be super different in style, tone, and length. Picking the right one is key for a memorable wedding.

A typical script has a few main parts:

• Welcome/Opening Remarks
• Ring Exchange
• Pronouncement of Marriage
• Closing Remarks

When you’re choosing a script, you want to make it personal. It should sound like you as a couple. But you also have to think about the legal requirements. Each state has its own rules about what needs to be said to make things official.

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Key Criteria for Selecting the Right Script

So how do you actually pick a script? Here are the main things to think about:

• Personalization – make it unique to your love story
• Style and Tone – formal, casual, traditional, modern?
• Length and Structure – not too long, not too short, flows well
• Legal Requirements – make sure it checks all the boxes to be official

Personalization

A cookie-cutter script? No thanks. You want your ceremony to feel like “you.” One way to do that is by adding personal touches – a funny story about how you met, your favorite quote about love, special vows you wrote. It makes it way more meaningful and memorable.

For example, instead of a generic welcome like “Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today…” You could say something like:

“Welcome, family and friends. We’re so glad you could join us on this perfect day to celebrate the even more perfect love between [Name] and [Name]. Their story began 5 years ago with an accidental swipe right…”

See how that feels more personal and engaging? Those little touches make a big difference.

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Style and Tone

The vibe of your script should match the overall vibe of your wedding. Super formal and traditional? Go for classic language and a serious tone. More casual and laid-back? Keep the script light and conversational. It’s all about finding what fits you best.

Here’s an example of how the same line can be said in different styles:

Traditional: “I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my lawfully wedded [husband/wife].” Modern: “[Name], I promise to be your constant friend, your partner in crime, and your forever love.”

You can also mix and match styles for different parts of the script. Maybe keep the welcome traditional, but make the vows more contemporary. It’s your script, so do what feels right.

Length and Structure

No one wants a ceremony that drags on forever. But rushing through it isn’t great either. The sweet spot is usually around 20-30 minutes. That’s enough time to hit all the key points without losing people’s attention.

As for structure, a good script flows logically from one section to the next. Here’s a basic outline:

• Opening Remarks (1-2 minutes)
• Readings (2-5 minutes)
• Personal Stories/Anecdotes (3-5 minutes)
• Vows (2-5 minutes)
• Ring Exchange (1-2 minutes)
• Pronouncement (1 minute)
• Closing Remarks (1-2 minutes)

Of course, you can adjust this based on what you want to include or leave out. But in general, following a clear structure will keep things running smoothly.

Legal Requirements

Amid all the lovey-dovey stuff, don’t forget about the legal side of things! Your officiant script needs to include certain elements to make your marriage official.

The specifics vary by location, but most ceremonies need to have:

• A declaration of intent (“Do you take this person to be your spouse?”)
• A pronouncement (“By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you…”)
• Signatures on the marriage license

Work with your officiant to make sure your script covers all the necessary legal language. You don’t want to accidentally not be married because something was missing!

For example, here’s what a legally-required Declaration of Intent might look like:

Officiant: “[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do you part?” Response: “I do.”

It might not be the most exciting part, but including this type of wording ensures your bases are covered legally.

Traditional Wedding Ceremony Scripts

If you’re a fan of the classics, a traditional wedding script might be the way to go. These follow a pretty standard format and often include religious elements. They’re formal, structured, and focused on the serious commitment of marriage.

Some key features of traditional scripts:

• Formal language (“Dearly beloved,” “thou,” “henceforth”)
• Scripted vows rather than personal ones
• Religious readings and prayers
• Classic unity rituals like lighting candles or sand pouring

While the exact flow can vary, here’s a general outline of a traditional ceremony:

• Processional
• Opening prayer or reading
• Officiant’s address
• Declaration of Intent
• Unity Ceremony
• Closing Prayer or Blessing
• Recessional

If you want to stick with tradition but still make it feel like “you,” consider adding one or two personal touches – a unique reading, special music, or a meaningful ritual.

Classic Religious Ceremony

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the sight of God…” Sound familiar? This is the opening line of many classic religious ceremonies. If you’re envisioning a church wedding with prayers, hymns, and Bible verses, this type of script is for you.

Here’s a sample excerpt:

“[Name] and [Name], the covenant of marriage is one that can be entered into only by persons who are both legally and spiritually free to offer themselves to each other. In the presence of God and these witnesses, I ask you now, if you know any reason why you may not be lawfully joined together in matrimony, to declare it at this time…”

Key elements often included in religious ceremonies:

• Prayers and blessings
• Scriptural readings
• Religious hymns or music
• Homily or sermon
• Traditional vows
• Communion or other sacraments

Of course, the specifics will vary based on your faith tradition. Work with your officiant to craft a ceremony that aligns with your beliefs and incorporates the key rituals.

Anglican Wedding Ceremony

For an Anglican ceremony, the script typically follows the Book of Common Prayer . It’s formal, traditional, and focused on the religious aspects of marriage.

Here’s an excerpt:

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered together here in the sight of God, and in the face of this congregation, to join together this Man and this Woman in holy Matrimony; which is an honourable estate, instituted of God in the time of man’s innocency, signifying unto us the mystical union that is betwixt Christ and his Church…”

Some key components of an Anglican ceremony:

• Traditional wording and structure from the Book of Common Prayer
• Prayers and responsive readings
• Scripture lessons
• “I will” rather than “I do” vows
• Ring blessing
• Nuptial blessing

This type of ceremony is best suited for couples who want a very traditional, religious service. While you can personalize it a bit, the core elements will remain the same to adhere to Anglican traditions.

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Modern Wedding Ceremony Scripts

Not into the whole “thee” and “thou” thing? No worries. Modern wedding scripts are all about being personal, casual, and current. They focus on your unique love story and allow way more room for customization.

Some features of modern scripts:

• Conversational, relaxed language
• Personalized vows and readings
• Mix of romantic and light-hearted elements
• Unique unity rituals
• Inclusion of personal anecdotes

A basic modern ceremony outline might look like:

• Personal Stories/Anecdotes
• Optional: Readings
• Personal Vows
• Unity Ritual
• First Kiss/Introduction of Couple

The beauty of a modern script is that you can really make it your own. Add in your favorite poems, include a nod to your geeky interests, or share the funny story of your first date. The sky’s the limit.

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Contemporary Romantic Ceremony

“Today, we gather to celebrate the incredible love between [Name] and [Name] – a love that has only grown stronger over [#] years together.” This is just one example of how a modern romantic script might start. The focus is on the couple’s unique relationship.

Here’s another excerpt:

“[Name], you have filled [Name]’s world with love and laughter. Your kindness, compassion, and unwavering support have been a constant from the very beginning. You two complement each other beautifully and everyone here can attest to the light and joy you bring to one another…”

Common elements in contemporary romantic ceremonies:

• Personal anecdotes and stories
• Emphasis on friendship, partnership, and soulmates
• Romantic readings or songs
• Personalized vows focused on promises
• “I do” statements beyond the legal requirements
• Unique unity rituals like handfasting or love letter boxes

With this type of script, you can really lean into the lovey-dovey stuff and make it super romantic. Incorporate some tear-jerking moments balanced with a bit of humor for a heartfelt, engaging ceremony.

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Minimalist Ceremony

Prefer to keep things short and sweet? A minimalist script cuts out the fluff and focuses on the essentials. Here’s how one might start:

“[Name] and [Name], today you stand here ready to commit your lives to one another. Your love has brought you to this moment and will continue to be the foundation on which you build your marriage…”

A minimalist script usually includes:

• Brief welcome and introduction
• Short reading or quote
• Simple vows (repeat after me or “I do”)
• Ring exchange
• Pronouncement of marriage
• Kiss and closing remarks

The whole ceremony often clocks in at 10-15 minutes tops. It’s perfect if you want to keep the focus on the core commitment without a lot of extras. You can still add a personal touch or two, but overall it’s straightforward and to the point.

Contemporary Family-Inclusive Ceremony

Getting married isn’t just about the two of you – it’s about joining your families too. A family-inclusive script recognizes and celebrates that. It makes a point to honor your nearest and dearest.

Here’s an example of how you might incorporate family:

“[Name] and [Name], as you join your lives together, we also celebrate the merging of your families. Your parents, siblings, and children have been integral parts of your journeys. As [Parent] and [Parent] bless this union with the lighting of a candle, know that your marriage is supported and enriched by their love…”

Some family-inclusive ideas:

• Recognizing parents/stepparents
• Involving siblings in the wedding party
• Unity rituals with children (sand pouring, candle lighting)
• Family vows or promises
• Special readings or music performed by family members

This type of ceremony is great if you have children from previous relationships or just want to really emphasize the joining of two families. It shows that your marriage is about more than just the two of you.

Unique Wedding Ceremony Scripts

Want your ceremony to stand out from the rest? A unique script is the way to go. These often incorporate out-of-the-box elements, themes, or cultural traditions. They’re perfect if you want something quirky, memorable, and totally “you.”

Some ideas for unique ceremonies:

• Themed around your hobbies or interests (travel, books, movies)
• Incorporating cultural or religious traditions outside the “norm”
• Interactive elements that involve your guests
• Unique venue like a museum, zoo, or mountaintop
• Surprise dance, song, or skit

Really, the possibilities are endless. The key is to get creative and think outside the traditional wedding script box. If it fits your personalities and relationship, go for it!

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Themed Ceremony

Are you both huge Harry Potter fans? Or maybe you bonded over your shared love of hiking and the outdoors. A themed ceremony takes your unique interests and weaves them into the script.

Here’s an example for a travel-themed ceremony:

“[Name] and [Name], your love has taken you on countless adventures around the globe – from the beaches of Bali to the mountains of Peru. And now, you embark on your greatest journey yet: marriage. As you continue to explore the world hand in hand, let your love be your guiding compass…”

Some other theme ideas:

• Fairy tale or storybook
• Sci-fi or fantasy (Star Wars, Lord of the Rings)
• Decades (’20s, ’50s, ’80s)
• Seasonal (winter wonderland, spring garden)
• Specific location or culture (Paris, Japan)

Incorporating a theme is a fun way to personalize your ceremony and share your passions with your guests. Just make sure it still feels like a wedding and not a costume party. Aim for a balance of theme elements and heartfelt wedding moments.

Adventure-Themed Ceremony

For the thrill-seeking couple, an adventure-themed ceremony is the perfect fit. It’s all about celebrating your daring spirit and love of excitement.

An example opening:

“[Name] and [Name], life with you is never boring. From skydiving on your third date to getting lost in the jungles of Costa Rica, you two have never shied away from an adventure. Today, you brave perhaps the greatest adventure of all: committing your lives to one another…”

Some adventure-themed ideas:

• Exchanging vows while rock climbing, snorkeling, or on a hot air balloon
• Arriving to the ceremony by motorcycle, helicopter, or zip line
• Decorating with maps, compasses, and travel memorabilia
• Incorporating a knot-tying ritual to symbolize your bond
• Readings or quotes about exploration and taking risks

If your shared sense of adventure is a cornerstone of your relationship, showcasing that in your ceremony can be incredibly meaningful and authentic. Your script becomes a testament to the exciting life you’ve already shared and the future adventures you’ll tackle together.

Cultural Fusion Ceremony

Blending cultural backgrounds? A fusion ceremony honors both of your heritages in a beautiful display of unity.

Here’s an example for an Indian-Western fusion:

“Today, we gather to celebrate the joining of two hearts, two families, and two rich cultural traditions. As [Name] and [Name] exchange vows and rings, they also take part in the vibrant Hindu rituals of the Saptapadi and Mangalpheras, symbolizing the seven steps they will take together and the eternal bond they share…”

Ideas for cultural fusion:

• Incorporating traditional clothing, music, or dance
• Performing rituals from each culture
• Readings or blessings in multiple languages
• Serving signature dishes from each culture at the reception
• Honoring ancestors or heritage in the ceremony script

A fusion ceremony is a wonderful way to pay tribute to your backgrounds while also showcasing the beautiful cultural blend you’ve created together. It’s a chance to share your heritage with your partner and guests in a deeply personal way.

Simple Wedding Ceremony Scripts

Sometimes, less is more. A simple wedding ceremony script gets straight to the heart of what matters: your love and commitment. These scripts work well for small, intimate ceremonies or couples who prefer to keep things fuss-free.

Characteristics of simple scripts:

• Short and sweet (usually 10-15 minutes)
• Limited readings and extras
• Basic vows (repeat after officiant or “I do”)
• Minimal decor and fuss
• Often fewer than 50 guests

Just because it’s simple doesn’t mean it can’t be meaningful, though. The focus is on stripping away the “fluff” and zeroing in on what really matters. Your words to each other become the centerpiece.

A sample simple ceremony outline:

• Brief welcome/introduction
• Declaration of intent
• Short reading or personal remarks
• Exchange of vows
• Exchange of rings

For couples who want to keep the focus on their union without a lot of fanfare, a simple script can be incredibly poignant and personal. It’s a streamlined way to commit your lives to each other.

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Elopement Script

Running off to tie the knot, just the two of you? First off, congrats! Elopements have soared in popularity for couples who want an intimate, often spur-of-the-moment ceremony. And the script can reflect that spontaneous spirit.

An elopement intro might sound like:

“[Name] and [Name], when you woke up this morning, you probably didn’t expect to end the day as husband and wife! But here you are, in this breathtaking spot, ready to declare your love and commitment to each other. There’s something so magical about the raw, unplanned moments in life, and this is certainly one of them…”

Elopement scripts often include:

• Emphasis on the intimate, personal nature of the ceremony
• References to the location and its meaning
• Short and sweet vows (either planned or spontaneous)
• Minimal “extras” – readings, rituals, etc.
• Focus on the couple’s unique love story

Since it’s usually just the couple, officiant, and maybe a handful of guests, an elopement script can be incredibly tailored and personal. It’s a chance to really zero in on what matters most to you.

Courthouse Ceremony Script

Courthouse weddings are fuss-free, affordable, and to-the-point. And the script reflects that straightforward approach. Here’s a sample:

“We are gathered here today in the presence of these witnesses to join [Name] and [Name] in matrimony. This contract is not to be entered into lightly, but thoughtfully and seriously, with a deep realization of its obligations and responsibilities. [Name] and [Name], do you take one another as spouses?”

Courthouse scripts usually include:

• Basic legal language and requirements
• Simple vows (repeat after officiant or “I do”)
• Declaration of intent and pronouncement
• Notary or witness signatures

While it may not be a flowery affair, there’s something beautiful about the simplicity of a courthouse ceremony. It cuts through the noise and focuses on the legal commitment you’re making to each other. And you can always write your own vows or share personal words to make it more “you.”

Backyard Wedding Ceremony

Saying “I do” in your own backyard (or a loved one’s) has become increasingly popular for its intimacy and sentimentality. A backyard ceremony script plays up the personal, laid-back vibe.

Here’s an example:

“Welcome, everyone, to the backyard of [Name] and [Name]’s first home together. This is the place where they’ve shared countless laughs, tears, and Netflix marathons. The place where they’ve grown together and built a beautiful life. So it only makes sense that this is the place where they’d commit to forever with each other, surrounded by their nearest and dearest…”

A backyard script often incorporates:

• References to the special location and its meaning
• Casual, conversational language
• Nods to the couple’s hobbies, pets, or quirks
• Short and sweet vows or readings
• Laid-back elements like acoustic music or picnic fare

Getting married at home gives you the freedom to really customize your ceremony and make it intimate. Your script can reflect all the little things that make your relationship unique. Plus, it creates an incredibly special memory in a place that already means so much.

Religious Wedding Ceremony Scripts

For couples of faith, a religious wedding ceremony puts God at the center. These scripts heavily incorporate the specific rituals, readings, and language of a particular tradition. It’s a way to honor your beliefs and create a ceremony that feels sacred.

Some common religious elements:

• Opening prayer or blessing
• Vows (often traditional wording)
• Ring blessing and exchange
• Unity rituals (candle, cord, coins)
• Closing prayer or benediction

The exact structure and wording will vary based on the specific faith tradition. It’s important to work with your officiant to ensure the ceremony adheres to the necessary guidelines while still feeling personal to you.

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Christian Ceremony

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the presence of God to witness the joining of this man and this woman in Holy Matrimony.” This traditional opening line sets the tone for a ceremony grounded in Christian beliefs about marriage.

A sample Christian ceremony might include:

• Processional to hymns like “Amazing Grace” or “Be Thou My Vision”
• Scripture passages like 1 Corinthians 13 or Colossians 3:12-17
• Homily on the meaning of Christian marriage
• Vows and ring exchange (often from the Book of Common Prayer)
• Lighting of a unity candle
• Communion or a blessing
• Recessional to joyful hymns like “Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee” or “Ode to Joy”

While the core elements remain the same, there is some room for personalization within a Christian ceremony. You might choose scripture that reflects your relationship, write your own prayers, or incorporate cultural traditions. The focus is on keeping God at the center while still making it meaningful to you.

Jewish Ceremony

A Jewish wedding is steeped in rich traditions and rituals. The ceremony typically takes place under a chuppah (wedding canopy) and includes seven blessings, the sharing of wine, and the breaking of the glass. Here’s a sample excerpt:

“Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Ruler of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine. We praise you, Adonai, for creating everything for your glory. We praise You for creating man and woman in your image, fashioning us for each other in love…”

Key elements of a Jewish ceremony:

• Ketubah (marriage contract) signing
• Processional to “The Walk to the Chuppah”
• Circling (bride circles groom 7 times)
• Kiddushin (betrothal) blessings over wine
• Reading of the Ketubah
• Sheva Brachot (seven marriage blessings)
• Breaking of the glass
• Yichud (couple’s seclusion)

A Jewish wedding is a beautiful blend of solemnity and joy, tradition and personal touches. It’s a script that connects you to generations of faith and love.

Hindu Wedding Ceremony

Bright colors, beautiful garlands, and the scent of incense – a Hindu wedding ceremony is a feast for the senses. It’s also a deeply spiritual affair, with rituals that unite not just the couple but their families as well.

A sample opening:

“Om Shri Ganeshaya Namah. Today we invoke Lord Ganesha, the remover of obstacles, as we gather to celebrate the sacred union of [Bride] and [Groom]. In the presence of Agni, the holy fire, and their loved ones, they will take the seven steps of commitment and embark on their journey as husband and wife…”

Hindu ceremonies often include:

• Baraat (groom’s procession)
• Milni (meeting of the families)
• Kanya Daan (giving away of the bride)
• Gathbandhan (tying of the knot)
• Mangal Pheras (circling the sacred fire)
• Saptapadi (seven steps/vows)
• Sindoor (red powder) ritual
• Aashirwaad (final blessings)

Hindu weddings are rich in symbolism and meaning. Each ritual represents a different aspect of love, commitment, and family. The script weaves together ancient traditions with personal promises, creating a ceremony that feels both timeless and intimately unique.

Applying Key Considerations to Wedding Ceremony Scripts

Whew, that was a lot of different scripts and ideas! But how do you actually decide which one is right for you? It comes down to considering a few key factors: your personal style, beliefs, cultural background, and overall vision for the day.

Let’s break it down:

• Personalization: How much of “you” do you want in the script? Are you looking for something that reflects your unique love story, shared interests, and quirks? Or do you prefer more traditional language?
• Beliefs: Is religion a big part of your life? If so, you’ll want a script that honors those beliefs and incorporates the key rituals of your faith. If you’re not religious, you might opt for a more secular script or one that focuses on your personal values.
• Cultural Background: Do you come from different cultural backgrounds? If honoring both of your heritages in the ceremony is important to you, consider a fusion script that represents each one.
• Tone: Do you envision a formal, elegant affair? Or a relaxed, intimate gathering? Your script should match the overall vibe you’re going for.
• Length: How long do you want the ceremony to be? If you’re hoping to keep it short and sweet, opt for a simple script without a lot of extras. If you want a more robust ceremony, you can include more readings, rituals, and personal touches.

The key is to choose elements that feel authentic to you and your relationship. Don’t include something just because it’s traditional or expected. This is your day, so make it your own!

30 Wedding Ceremony Examples to Use

Your wedding ceremony is the cornerstone of your special day, a moment that encapsulates the essence of your love story and marks the beginning of your journey together as a married couple. One of the key elements that can make your ceremony truly memorable is the officiant and the script they use. Whether you’re planning a traditional wedding steeped in time-honored customs or a modern celebration that reflects your unique personalities, finding the right officiant script is crucial. In this blog post, we’ve curated 15 exquisite wedding officiant examples that cover a spectrum of styles, from classic and religious to contemporary and personalized. These examples are not just templates; they’re inspirations to help you craft a ceremony that resonates with your love and creates an unforgettable experience for you, your partner, and your guests. Join us as we explore these beautiful wedding ceremony scripts and discover the perfect one for your special day.

1. Traditional Christian Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the presence of God to witness and celebrate the joining of [Name] and [Name] in holy matrimony. The Bible teaches us that love is patient, love is kind, and love never fails. [Name] and [Name], your love story is a testament to these truths.

Let us pray: Dear Heavenly Father, we ask for your blessings upon this couple as they begin their journey as husband and wife. Help them to always put you first in their marriage and to love each other sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church. May their home be filled with laughter, joy, and an ever-deepening bond. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife]? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish, and protect [him/her], forsaking all others, and holding only unto [him/her] forevermore?

The rings please: [Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

[Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

Let us pray once more: Gracious God, bless these rings as symbols of [Name] and [Name]’s unending love and commitment. May they always be reminded of the vows they have made here today. In Christ’s name, Amen.

[Name] and [Name], by the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband/wife]. What God has joined together, let no man separate. [Name], you may kiss your bride!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my privilege to introduce to you for the very first time, Mr. and Mrs. [Last Name]!

2. Modern Romantic Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we have gathered here today to celebrate the love story of [Name] and [Name]. Though their paths first crossed [X] years ago, it feels as though they were always meant to find each other.

[Name], from the moment you saw [Name]’s smile, you knew your world would never be the same. You fell in love with [his/her/their] kindness, quick wit, and unwavering support. You’ve built a beautiful life together filled with [insert personal details – travel, fur babies, etc.] and so much laughter.

[Name], you admire [Name]’s [insert qualities]. [He/She/They] make you feel cherished, challenged, and endlessly loved. You can’t imagine spending a single day without [him/her/them] by your side.

And so, you stand here today, ready to make it official in front of your nearest and dearest. [Name], please repeat after me:

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my [husband/wife/partner], my constant friend, my faithful partner, and my love from this day forward. I promise to be your biggest fan and partner in crime. I will love you unconditionally through the difficult and the easy. I will always strive to make you laugh, to cherish our differences, and to love you a little more each and every day. I give you my hand, my heart, and my love, from this day forward, for as long as we both shall live.

[Name], please repeat after me: [Same vows]

May I have the rings? [Name] and [Name], let these rings serve as a reminder of your eternal love and the promises you’ve made today.

[Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: [Name], I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and commitment. With this ring, I thee wed.

[Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: [Same ring exchange]

By the power of your love and commitment, and the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband/wife/married]! You may kiss the [bride/groom/each other]!

Everybody, I present to you the newly married couple! Please join me in congratulating the happy couple!

3. Lighthearted Movie-Themed Wedding Ceremony

Mawwiage. Mawwiage is what bwings us togethew today. Just kidding, I promise not to do the whole speech from The Princess Bride!

[Name] and [Name], your love story is like something straight out of a rom-com. From your meet-cute at [insert story] to your epic proposal involving [insert details], it’s clear that your relationship is filled with laughter, adventure, and a whole lot of heart.

Your shared love of movies has been a constant thread throughout your time together. Whether it’s marathoning the Marvel Cinematic Universe or quoting every line from The Office, you’ve built a bond around the stories that move you. And today, you’re writing the next chapter in your own epic love story.

So, in the words of every great movie romance, it’s time to make it official. [Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself solely unto [her/him] for as long as you both shall live? If so, say “I do.”

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife], to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, for richer or poorer, keeping yourself solely unto [her/him] for as long as you both shall live? If so, say “I do.”

Now, I could ask if anyone objects to this union, but in the words of The Notebook, “it’s not gonna be easy. It’s gonna be really hard. We’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.” [Name] and [Name], do you promise to choose each other every day, even when it’s hard? If so, say “we do.”

Excellent, now for the rings! [Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: With this ring, I seal my promise to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow.

By the power of your love, the bonds of marriage, and the magic of movies, I now pronounce you [husband/wife/life partners]! You may kiss the [bride/groom/love of your life]!

Ladies and gentlemen, this is the moment you’ve all been waiting for. I present to you, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! Now, let’s get this party started – that’s a wrap!

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4. Simple Elopement Wedding Ceremony

[Name] and [Name], today you stand here, in this beautiful place, ready to make a lifelong commitment to one another. Though it may not be the big wedding you once imagined, this intimate moment is a true reflection of what matters most – your unwavering love and dedication to each other.

You’ve chosen to forego the fanfare and focus on what truly matters: becoming husband and wife. So let’s get right to it.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife]? Do you promise to love, respect, and care for [him/her/them] through all of life’s adventures, challenges, and joys? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, please join hands and look into each other’s eyes. [Name], repeat after me:

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my [husband/wife], my partner in life, and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

[Name], repeat after me: [Same vows]

Do we have the rings? [Name], place the ring on [Name]’s finger and repeat after me: I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and commitment to you.

By the power of your love and commitment, and the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband/wife/married]! You may seal your promise with a kiss!

[Name] and [Name], as you begin this new chapter, remember that love is not just a feeling – it’s a choice. Choose each other every day, in the big moments and in the small. And never forget the beautiful simplicity of this moment, where you chose forever with the love of your life.

Congratulations, you’re officially married!

5. Jewish Wedding Ceremony

Baruch atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al ha’arayot, v’asher bachar banu mikol ha’amim, v’kidshanu b’mitzvotav. Baruch atah, Adonai, m’kadesh amo Yisrael al y’dei chuppah v’kiddushin.

Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Ruler of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us regarding forbidden relationships, who forbad betrothed women to us, and who sanctified us with His commandments. Blessed are You Adonai, who sanctifies His people Israel through Chuppah and Kiddushin.

We are gathered here today to celebrate the love and commitment of [Name] and [Name]. In the presence of family and friends, they stand beneath the chuppah, a symbol of their new home and life together.

[Name] and [Name], the vows you make today are sacred. You are entering into the holy covenant of marriage, promising to build a life together based on love, trust, and mutual respect.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me:

Behold, you are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me: [Same ring exchange]

Now, let us read and sign the Ketubah, the marriage contract that outlines your promises to each other.

[Read Ketubah and have couple sign]

May we have a glass of wine for the Seven Blessings?

[Recite the Seven Blessings over wine]

As [Name] breaks the glass, we remember that even in times of great joy, we must recognize the fragility of life. The breaking of the glass also symbolizes the irrevocable change in your lives as you enter this new chapter together. Mazel Tov!

[Break glass]

By the power vested in me by the State of [State] and the authority of the Rabbinical Assembly of the Jewish Theological Seminary, I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]. You may kiss the [bride/groom/each other]!

Congratulations [Name] and [Name]! May your love be as endless as the circle of your rings. Mazel Tov!

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6. Hindu Wedding Ceremony

Om Shri Ganeshaya Namah. Today, in the presence of Lord Ganesha, the remover of obstacles, we gather to celebrate the sacred union of [Name] and [Name].

[Name] and [Name], today you take the seven steps together, each one a promise to love, honor, and support each other on this beautiful journey of marriage.

Step One: Let us take the first step to provide for our household a nourishing and pure diet, avoiding those foods injurious to healthy living.

Step Two: Let us take the second step to develop physical, mental, and spiritual powers.

Step Three: Let us take the third step to increase our wealth by righteous means and proper use.

Step Four: Let us take the fourth step to acquire knowledge, happiness, and harmony by mutual love and trust.

Step Five: Let us take the fifth step so that we are blessed with strong, virtuous, and heroic children.

Step Six: Let us take the sixth step for self-restraint and longevity.

Step Seven: Finally, let us take the seventh step and be true companions and remain lifelong partners by this wedlock.

Now, let us perform the Mangal Pheras, circling the sacred fire four times as a symbol of your eternal love and commitment.

[Couple circles the fire]

As the knot is tied, so are your lives now bound together. May this sacred thread always remind you of the love and commitment you share.

[Tie the mangalsutra]

By the blessings of Lord Ganesha, your families, and the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband/wife/married]. May your love be as eternal as the Gods.

Om Shanti Shanti Shanti.

Please join me in congratulating the newly married couple! Badhai Ho!

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7. Interfaith Wedding Ceremony

Welcome, family and friends. Today, we gather to celebrate the love and commitment of [Name] and [Name], two souls from different faith backgrounds who have found a deep connection in each other.

[Name] and [Name], your love story is a testament to the power of unity and respect. You have chosen to blend your lives, your cultures, and your beliefs into a beautiful mosaic. Today, we honor both of your faith traditions as you enter into this sacred covenant of marriage.

Let us begin with a reading from [Faith Tradition 1 Religious Text]:

And now, a reading from [Faith Tradition 2 Religious Text]:

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife]? Do you promise to honor [his/her/their] beliefs, to support [him/her/them] in [his/her/their] spiritual journey, and to love [him/her/them] with all your heart? If so, please say “I do.”

[Name] and [Name], you have chosen to exchange rings as a symbol of your eternal love and commitment. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me:

With this ring, I pledge my love and commitment to you. I honor your faith, your culture, and your journey. I promise to walk beside you as your [husband/wife/partner] from this day forward.

As we light the Unity Candle, we symbolize the joining of your two faiths, your two families, and your two hearts. Just as these two flames merge into one, so shall your lives be forever intertwined.

[Light Unity Candle]

By the power of your love, the support of your families, and the blessings of [Faith Tradition 1 Higher Power] and [Faith Tradition 2 Higher Power], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/married]. You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! May your love be a shining example of unity, respect, and devotion. Congratulations!

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8. Non-Religious Wedding Ceremony

Friends and loved ones, we have come together today to celebrate the love and commitment of [Name] and [Name]. This ceremony is a reflection of their shared values, their deep bond, and their promise to walk through life hand in hand.

[Name] and [Name], your relationship has been built on a foundation of trust, respect, and unwavering support. You’ve weathered challenges together, celebrated triumphs, and grown stronger with each passing day. Today, you choose to solidify that bond and make a lifelong promise to nurture and cherish your love.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife]? Do you promise to be [his/her/their] constant friend, faithful partner, and love [him/her/them] without reservation? If so, please say “I do.”

[Name] and [Name], you have written your own vows as a testament to your unique love story. [Name], please share your vows with [Name].

[Name’s Vows]

[Name], please share your vows with [Name].

May I please have the rings? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the promises you’ve made today. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and commitment. Let it be a reminder that I am always by your side and that I will always be a faithful partner to you.

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: [Same ring exchange]

By the power of your love and commitment, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may kiss the [bride/groom/each other]!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to introduce to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name] as a newly married couple! Please join me in celebrating their union!

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9. Same-Sex Wedding Ceremony

Dear friends and family, we have gathered here today to witness and celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. This ceremony is a testament to the power of love, which knows no bounds of gender, race, or creed.

[Name] and [Name], your journey together has been marked by courage, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to each other. In a world that has not always been kind or accepting, you have found solace and strength in your love. Today, you stand before us, ready to make a lifelong promise to cherish and support one another.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to love [him/her/them] fiercely, to be [his/her/their] rock in times of struggle, and to celebrate with [him/her/them] in times of joy? If so, please say “I do.”

[Name] and [Name], you have chosen to write your own vows. [Name], please share your promises with [Name].

[Name], please share your promises with [Name].

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your unending love and commitment. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

I give you this ring as a symbol of my love, my faith in our strength together, and my covenant to learn and grow with you.

By the power of your love, your commitment to equality, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you legally married! You may seal your union with a kiss!

It is my great honor to introduce, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! Please join me in celebrating their love and commitment. Love is love!

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10. Multicultural Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, today we gather to celebrate the love and union of [Name] and [Name], two souls who have found each other across cultures, languages, and traditions. This ceremony is a beautiful blend of their unique heritages, a testament to the power of love to bring people together.

[Name] and [Name], your love story is one of bridging divides, of cherishing differences, and of creating a shared path forward. Today, as you join your lives in marriage, we honor the traditions that have shaped you and the love that has brought you together.

Let us begin with a traditional blessing from [Culture 1]:

[Blessing in original language]

[Translation of blessing]

And now, a blessing from [Culture 2]:

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to honor [his/her/their] culture, to cherish your differences, and to love [him/her/them] without reservation? If so, please say [“I do” or equivalent in Culture 1 language].

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to honor [his/her/their] culture, to cherish your differences, and to love [him/her/them] without reservation? If so, please say [“I do” or equivalent in Culture 2 language].

[Name] and [Name], you have chosen to exchange vows in both [Language 1] and [Language 2]. [Name], please share your vows with [Name].

[Name’s Vows in Language 1]

[Name’s Vows in Language 2]

[Perform Cultural Ritual 1]

[Explain significance of Cultural Ritual 1]

[Perform Cultural Ritual 2]

[Explain significance of Cultural Ritual 2]

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the intertwining of your cultures. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

[Ring Exchange in Language 1]

[Ring Exchange in Language 2]

[Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me: [Same ring exchange in both languages]

By the power of your love, the blessing of your families, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married] in both [Culture 1] and [Culture 2] traditions! You may seal your union with a kiss!

It is my great honor to introduce, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! Please join me in celebrating their multicultural love story!

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11. Second Marriage Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we gather here today to celebrate the love of [Name] and [Name] and to bear witness to the joining of their lives in marriage. This is not the first time either of them has stood before loved ones and made a lifelong commitment. But today, they stand before us with the wisdom of experience, the joy of second chances, and the certainty that they have found their perfect match.

[Name] and [Name], your journey to this moment has not been without its challenges. You have both known love and loss, joy and sorrow. But through it all, you have grown, you have learned, and you have opened your hearts to the possibility of a love even greater than you’ve known before. Today, you stand hand in hand, ready to begin this new chapter together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to be [his/her/their] partner in all things, to learn from your past experiences, and to cherish and love [him/her/them] without reservation? If so, please say “I do.”

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your enduring love and the new promises you make today. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I offer you my love, my support, and my commitment to our new life together. I promise to learn from our pasts, to be open and honest with you, and to love and cherish you always.

By the power of your love, the wisdom of your experiences, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your new beginnings with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to introduce to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], as they begin their new life together. Congratulations to the happy couple!

12. Vow Renewal WeddingCeremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the enduring love and commitment of [Name] and [Name]. [Number] years ago, they stood before family and friends and pledged their lives to each other. Today, they stand before us again, to reaffirm those vows and to celebrate the joys, the challenges, and the growth they have experienced together.

[Name] and [Name], your marriage has been a testament to the power of love, patience, and partnership. You have weathered storms together, celebrated triumphs, and built a life filled with [mention specific details – children, adventures, etc.]. Today, you choose to reaffirm your commitment to each other, not out of obligation, but out of a deep, abiding love and respect for the life you’ve created together.

[Name], when you first took [Name]’s hands [Number] years ago, you promised to love, honor, and cherish [him/her/them]. Do you now reaffirm your commitment to those vows, promising to continue to be [his/her/their] steadfast partner, best friend, and greatest supporter? If so, please say “I do.”

[Name] and [Name], today you have chosen to reaffirm your vows in the presence of those who have been a part of your love story. [Name], please share your recommitment vows with [Name].

[Name], please share your recommitment vows with [Name].

As a symbol of your recommitment, you have chosen to exchange new rings. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I renew my commitment to you, to our marriage, and to the life we’ve built together. I promise to continue to love you, to grow with you, and to cherish our bond always.

By the power of your enduring love, the strength of your commitment, and the joy of your shared life, I now pronounce your vows renewed! You may seal your recommitment with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in celebrating [Name] and [Name] [Last Name] and the beautiful life they’ve created together. Here’s to many more years of love and happiness!

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13. Military Wedding Ceremony

Friends, family, and fellow service members, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of [Name] and [Name] in marriage. Today, they stand before us not only as a couple in love, but as two brave individuals who have dedicated their lives to serving our country.

[Name] and [Name], your love story is one marked by courage, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment. You have faced the challenges of military life together – the long distances, the uncertainties, and the constant need for resilience. And through it all, your love has only grown stronger. Today, you come together to make a lifelong promise, to be each other’s anchor and safe haven, no matter where duty may call.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to love and cherish [him/her/them], to be [his/her/their] rock in times of deployment, and to honor and support [his/her/their] service to our nation? If so, please say “I do.”

[If applicable: Military Chaplain’s Blessing or Prayer]

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the sacred bond you share, both as a couple and as members of our armed forces. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I offer you my love, my support, and my commitment to our life together. I promise to be your partner in all things, to honor your service, and to love you fiercely, no matter the distance between us.

[If applicable: Military Ritual, such as Saber Arch or Flag Folding Ceremony]

By the power of your love, the strength of your commitment to each other and to our nation, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you, for the first time as a married couple, [Rank] and [Rank] [Last Name]! Please join me in saluting their love and their service. To the happy couple – may your love be as steadfast as your dedication to duty. Congratulations!

14. Destination Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, welcome to [Destination]! We have gathered here from near and far to celebrate the love and commitment of [Name] and [Name] in this beautiful corner of the world.

[Name] and [Name], your love story has been a journey in every sense of the word. You’ve explored the world together, discovered new places and new parts of yourselves, and through it all, your love has been your constant companion. Today, in this magical setting, you choose to make your greatest journey yet – the journey of marriage.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to be [his/her/their] travel companion through life, to explore and grow together, and to love [him/her/them] without reservation, in every time zone and latitude? If so, please say “I do.”

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the adventures you’ll share together. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I promise to be your partner in all of life’s adventures. I will love you, support you, and explore the world with you, hand in hand, heart to heart.

[If applicable: Local Cultural Ritual or Unity Ceremony]

By the power of your love, the spirit of adventure that brought you here, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your commitment with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to introduce to you, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! Please join me in celebrating their love and the start of their greatest adventure yet. To the happy couple – may your journey together be filled with love, laughter, and countless stamps in your passports. Congratulations!

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15. Surprise Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, thank you for gathering here today for what you thought was [Cover Story Event]. But, as you may have guessed by now, we’ve brought you here under slightly false pretenses. Today, we are here to bear witness to the surprise wedding of [Name] and [Name]!

[Name] and [Name], your love story has been filled with unexpected twists, beautiful surprises, and a deep, unshakable bond. So it seems only fitting that you would choose to surprise your loved ones with this celebration of your commitment. Today, surrounded by the people who mean the most to you, you choose to make your love official and embark on the adventure of marriage.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse]? Do you promise to be [his/her/their] partner in all of life’s surprises, to love [him/her/them] without reservation, and to build a life filled with laughter and love? If so, please say “I do.”

May I have the rings, please? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the beautiful surprises life has in store for you. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I promise to be your partner in all things, to love you through life’s plot twists, and to never stop surprising you. I give you my heart, my love, and my commitment, today and always.

By the power of your love, the element of surprise that brought us here today, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you, for the very first time as a married couple and the reason behind today’s wonderful surprise, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! Please join me in celebrating their love and the start of their married life together. Here’s to a lifetime of love and surprises!

16. Handfasting Wedding Ceremony

Friends and loved ones, today we gather to celebrate the union of [Name] and [Name] in the ancient tradition of handfasting. This ritual, dating back to Celtic times, symbolizes the binding of two lives, two hearts, and two spirits into one.

[Name] and [Name], your love has been a journey of growth, learning, and endless support. Today, you choose to make a commitment to continue that journey together, hand in hand and heart to heart.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your partner in life, to love and support [him/her/them] through all of life’s joys and challenges? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please join hands.

[Wrap cord or ribbon around their joined hands]

As this cord is wrapped around your hands, so too are your lives bound together. This knot symbolizes the love, trust, and commitment you share, and the unbreakable bond you have formed.

[Name] and [Name], as your hands are bound together, please repeat after me:

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my partner in life and love. I promise to walk with you, to support you, and to love you through all of our days. With this cord, I bind my life to yours, now and always.

[Remove cord]

By the ancient tradition of handfasting, the love you share, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], now bound together in love and life. Congratulations to the happy couple!

17. Unity Candle Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to witness the joining of [Name] and [Name] in marriage. Today, they will light a unity candle, symbolizing the joining of their individual lives into one shared flame.

[Name] and [Name], your love has been a light in each other’s lives, guiding you through darkness and illuminating your path forward. Today, you choose to combine your lights, to create a shared glow that will warm and guide you through all of your days together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] in the light of good times and the darkness of challenges? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your individual candles and together light the center unity candle.

[Couple lights unity candle]

As the two flames merge into one, so too do your lives become intertwined. This single flame represents your shared love, your shared life, and your shared future.

By the light of your love, the warmth of your commitment, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to present to you, for the first time as a married couple, [Name] and [Name] [Last Name]! May your love always burn bright. Congratulations!

18. Sand Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, today we gather to witness the union of [Name] and [Name] in marriage. Just as grains of sand come together to form a beautiful beach, so too do [Name] and [Name]’s individual lives merge to create a shared masterpiece.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like the sand – countless tiny moments and memories that, when combined, create a lifetime of beauty. Today, you choose to blend your sands, your lives, and your hearts into one inseparable unit.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] through all of life’s shifting tides? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your individual vials of sand and together pour them into the central vase.

[Couple pours sand]

As these grains of sand blend together, so too do your lives become intertwined. Each grain remains distinct, but together they create a new and beautiful whole, just as your love does not diminish your individuality, but rather enhances it.

May I please have the rings? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the unbreakable bond you share. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I promise to love and cherish you through all of life’s shifting sands. I am yours, and you are mine, from this day forward.

By the blending of your sands, the strength of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great joy to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love is as endless and timeless as the sands of the earth. Congratulations!

19. Tree Planting Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will plant a tree together, symbolizing the roots they are establishing and the growth and strength of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a young sapling – tender, yet strong, full of potential and promise. As you nurture this tree, so too will you nurture your marriage, providing it with the love, care, and dedication it needs to flourish.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and support [him/her/them] as you grow together through all of life’s seasons? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please come forward to plant your tree together.

[Couple plants tree]

As the roots of this tree grow deep and its branches reach high, so too will your love grow stronger and reach new heights with each passing year. This tree will stand as a symbol of your enduring commitment to each other and to your shared life.

By the planting of this tree, the depth of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will grow and flourish like the tree they have planted today. Congratulations to the happy couple!

20. Rose Wedding Ceremony

Friends and loved ones, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will exchange roses, symbolizing the beauty, passion, and enduring nature of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a rose – beautiful, vibrant, and resilient. Just as a rose weathers storms and still blooms, so too has your love weathered challenges and only grown stronger.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] through all of life’s thorns and blooms? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please exchange your roses.

[Couple exchanges roses]

These roses represent your love – delicate yet strong, passionate yet enduring. As you hold these roses, remember the beauty of your love and the commitment you make to each other today.

May I please have the rings? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the unending circle of your commitment. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I promise to love you, to cherish you, and to always see the beauty in our love. I am yours, in thorns and in blooms, from this day forward.

By the exchange of these roses, the beauty of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always bloom bright. Congratulations to the happy couple!

21. Wine Box Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will create a wine box time capsule, symbolizing their commitment to nurturing and savoring their love over the years to come.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a fine wine – it grows richer and more complex with age. As you seal this box today, you make a promise to each other to always cherish and cultivate your love, in good times and in bad.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and support [him/her/them] through all of life’s vintages? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please place your love letters into the box, along with the bottle of wine.

[Couple places items in box]

This box contains your promises to each other and a bottle of wine to savor on your [1st/5th/10th] anniversary. As you seal this box, you seal your commitment to letting your love age gracefully, and to always taking time to savor and appreciate each other.

With this ring, I promise to love you, to grow with you, and to always savor the richness of our love. I am yours, in every season and every vintage, from this day forward.

By the sealing of this box, the richness of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will only grow richer with time. Congratulations to the happy couple!

22. Jumping the Broom Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will jump the broom together, symbolizing the sweeping away of the old and the beginning of a new life together.

[Name] and [Name], your love has given you the strength to overcome obstacles and the courage to start anew. As you jump this broom today, you leave behind your old lives as individuals and begin your new life as a married couple.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] as you embark on this new journey together? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please approach the broom.

[Couple approaches broom]

This broom represents a new beginning, a sweeping away of the past and a clean start for your marriage. As you jump this broom, you demonstrate your commitment to facing life’s challenges together, hand in hand.

With this ring, I promise to love you, to support you, and to start each new day with you by my side. I am yours, in every leap of faith and every new beginning, from this day forward.

Now, [Name] and [Name], please join hands and on the count of three, jump the broom together into your new life as a married couple. One, two, three, jump!

[Couple jumps broom]

By the jumping of this broom, the strength of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your new beginning with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], who have jumped into this new chapter hand in hand. Congratulations to the happy couple!

23. Knot Tying Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will tie a fisherman’s knot, symbolizing the strength and resilience of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love has weathered many storms and always emerged stronger. Just like a fisherman’s knot, which tightens under strain, your bond grows stronger in the face of challenges.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and hold fast to [him/her/them] through all of life’s currents? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take the ends of the rope.

[Couple takes rope]

As you tie this knot, you symbolize the unbreakable bond you share. Just as this knot grows stronger under pressure, so too will your love grow stronger in the face of adversity.

[Couple ties knot]

By the tying of this knot, the strength of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your bond with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love is as strong and enduring as the knot they have tied today. Congratulations to the happy couple!

24. Love Lock Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will lock their love in an unbreakable bond, symbolized by a love lock.

[Name] and [Name], your love is a lock that cannot be broken, a bond that grows stronger with each passing day. As you lock this padlock today, you make a promise to always cherish and protect the love you share.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] through all of life’s twists and turns? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your love lock and key.

[Couple takes lock and key]

As you lock this padlock, you symbolize the unbreakable nature of your love. And as you throw away the key, you demonstrate your commitment to forever cherish and protect your bond.

[Couple locks padlock and throws away key]

With this ring, I promise to love you, to cherish you, and to always hold fast to the unbreakable bond we share. I am yours, locked in love, from this day forward.

By the locking of this love lock, the strength of your bond, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your love with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love is locked in an unbreakable bond. Congratulations to the happy couple!

25. Butterfly Release Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will release butterflies, symbolizing the beauty and freedom of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a butterfly – beautiful, delicate, and always in flight. As you release these butterflies today, you celebrate the freedom you’ve found in each other and the beauty of the journey you’re embarking on together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to love and cherish [him/her/them] as you soar through life together? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your butterfly boxes.

[Couple takes butterfly boxes]

As you release these butterflies, you symbolize the release of your old lives and the beginning of your new journey together. Just as these butterflies will soar, so too will your love carry you to new heights.

[Couple releases butterflies]

May I please have the rings? [Name] and [Name], these rings are a symbol of your eternal love and the endless circle of your commitment. [Name], as you place the ring on [Name]’s finger, please repeat after me:

With this ring, I promise to love you, to support you, and to always fly by your side. I am yours, in beauty and in flight, from this day forward.

By the release of these butterflies, the beauty of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always soar. Congratulations to the happy couple!

26. Bread, Salt, and Wine Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will share bread, salt, and wine, symbolizing the essential elements of a happy life together.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like these elements – nourishing, enduring, and full of joy. As you share these items today, you make a promise to always provide for each other, to weather life’s challenges, and to celebrate its sweetness together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to provide for [him/her/them], to stand by [him/her/them] in times of struggle, and to share in [his/her/their] joy? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take the bread.

[Couple takes bread]

This bread represents the staple of life. As you share it, you promise to nourish and support each other through all of life’s journeys.

[Couple shares bread]

Now, please take the salt.

[Couple takes salt]

This salt represents the struggles of life. As you share it, you promise to stand by each other and to overcome life’s challenges together.

[Couple shares salt]

Finally, please take the wine.

[Couple takes wine]

This wine represents the sweetness of life. As you share it, you promise to celebrate life’s joys and to always find happiness in each other.

[Couple shares wine]

With this ring, I promise to nourish you, to stand by you, and to always celebrate with you. I am yours, in essential and enduring love, from this day forward.

By the sharing of bread, salt, and wine, the essential elements of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will nourish, endure, and always find joy. Congratulations to the happy couple!

27. Musical Instrument Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will play a melody together, symbolizing the harmony and beauty of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a beautiful song – each of you a unique instrument, but together creating a perfect harmony. As you play this melody today, you celebrate the music of your love and the beautiful life you’ll create together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to make beautiful music with [him/her/them] through all of life’s highs and lows? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your instruments.

[Couple takes instruments]

As you play this melody, you symbolize the harmony of your love. Just as each note is beautiful on its own, but even more lovely together, so too are you two individuals who create something even more beautiful as one.

[Couple plays melody]

With this ring, I promise to always make music with you, to listen to the song of your heart, and to harmonize my life with yours. I am yours, in melody and in love, from this day forward.

By the playing of this melody, the harmony of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always be a beautiful song. Congratulations to the happy couple!

28. Sundial Wedding Ceremony

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will create a sundial together, symbolizing the timelessness of their love and their commitment to cherishing each moment together.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like the sun – constant, radiant, and life-giving. As you create this sundial today, you make a promise to always cherish the time you have together and to let your love be the guiding light of your lives.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to cherish every moment with [him/her/them] and to let your love shine through all of life’s seasons? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please approach the sundial.

[Couple approaches sundial]

As you place the gnomon in the center of the dial, you symbolize the way your love will always be the center of your lives. And as you inscribe your initials and the date, you mark this moment as the beginning of your eternal love story.

[Couple assembles sundial]

With this ring, I promise to cherish every moment with you, to let our love be the sun that guides our lives, and to love you through all of time. I am yours, in each second and each season, from this day forward.

By the creation of this sundial, the timelessness of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always shine bright. Congratulations to the happy couple!

29. Painting Wedding Ceremony

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will create a painting together, symbolizing the beauty they create together and the masterpiece of a life they’ll paint as one.

[Name] and [Name], your love is a work of art – each of you a unique color, but together creating a masterpiece. As you paint this canvas today, you celebrate the beauty of your union and the vibrant life you’ll create side by side.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to paint the canvas of life with [him/her/them] in vibrant color and bold strokes? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please approach the easel.

[Couple approaches easel]

As you blend your colors on this canvas, you symbolize the way your lives will now be forever intertwined. Just as your brushstrokes come together to create something beautiful, so too will your love create a masterpiece of a life together.

[Couple paints on canvas]

With this ring, I promise to always create beauty with you, to paint our lives in love and joy, and to cherish the masterpiece we make together. I am yours, in every color and every stroke, from this day forward.

By the creation of this painting, the artistry of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great pleasure to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always be a work of art. Congratulations to the happy couple!

30. Quilt Ceremony

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness the marriage of [Name] and [Name]. Today, they will stitch a quilt square together, symbolizing the warmth, comfort, and security of their love.

[Name] and [Name], your love is like a quilt – each memory and moment a unique square, but all stitched together into a beautiful tapestry. As you sew this square today, you celebrate the comfort you find in each other and the beautiful life you’ll piece together.

[Name], do you take [Name] to be your lawfully wedded [husband/wife/spouse], to stitch your lives together in love and to always find warmth and comfort in [his/her/their] embrace? If so, please say “I do.”

Now, [Name] and [Name], please take your needle and thread.

[Couple takes needle and thread]

As you stitch this square, you symbolize the way your lives will now be forever intertwined. Just as each stitch holds the fabric together, so too will your love hold you together through all of life’s ups and downs.

[Couple stitches quilt square]

With this ring, I promise to always stitch my life with yours, to find comfort in your love, and to piece together a beautiful life with you. I am yours, in every thread and every square, from this day forward.

By the stitching of this quilt square, the warmth of your love, and the power vested in me by the State of [State], I now pronounce you [husband/wife/legally married]! You may seal your union with a kiss!

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great honor to present to you [Name] and [Name] [Last Name], whose love will always be a comfort and a joy. Congratulations to the happy couple!

20 Additional Wedding Ceremony Scripts and Examples

Welcome to a world of love, laughter, and endless possibilities as we embark on a journey through 20 exquisite wedding officiant ceremony scripts. Each script is a testament to the diverse beauty of love, offering a glimpse into different styles, themes, and personalized touches that make every union truly unique. Whether you’re envisioning a traditional ceremony steeped in timeless rituals, a modern celebration infused with creativity, or a themed extravaganza that reflects your passions and interests, you’ll find inspiration and guidance in these meticulously crafted scripts.

From romantic and heartfelt exchanges to whimsical and themed expressions, these ceremony scripts are designed to resonate with couples of all backgrounds, beliefs, and visions for their special day. Whether you’re planning a grand affair or an intimate gathering, whether your love story is a classic tale or a modern adventure, these scripts offer a canvas upon which to paint the masterpiece of your wedding ceremony.

Join us as we explore the artistry, symbolism, and joy woven into each ceremony script, celebrating the boundless love that unites souls and creates lifelong memories. Whether you’re a couple planning your dream wedding or an officiant seeking inspiration, let these scripts be your guide to crafting a ceremony that reflects your love story in all its beauty and splendor. Let the journey begin!

1. Traditional Religious Ceremony Script

Opening Words:

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today in the presence of family and friends to celebrate the union of [Couple’s Names] in marriage.

Scripted Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you take each other to be your lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do you part?

Exchange of Rings:

May these rings be a symbol of the unbroken circle of love, and may your love for each other be as never-ending as the circle they form.

Unity Ritual:

As a symbol of your unity, [Couple’s Names] will now light a unity candle together, representing the merging of your lives into one.

Closing Blessing:

May your love be a source of strength and joy, guiding you through life’s journey together. By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss the bride!

2. Modern Non-Religious Ceremony Script

Welcome, everyone, to this joyous occasion celebrating the love between [Couple’s Names].

Personalized Vows:

[Couple’s Names], today you declare your commitment to each other. [Insert personalized vows here].

Ring Exchange:

These rings symbolize the promises you have made today, representing your enduring love and commitment.

Sand Ceremony:

As a symbol of your unity, [Couple’s Names] will now combine different colored sands, creating a beautiful blend that represents the coming together of your lives.

Closing Words:

May your journey together be filled with love, laughter, and shared dreams. By the authority vested in me, I now pronounce you partners for life. You may seal your vows with a kiss.

3. Unique Themed Ceremony Script (Example: Harry Potter Themed Wedding)

Friends and family, we gather today in the spirit of magic and love to unite [Couple’s Names] in marriage.

Themed Vows:

[Couple’s Names], in the presence of the Hogwarts castle and the magic of this day, do you solemnly swear to be each other’s partner in mischief and in love, always?

Exchange of Magical Rings:

With these rings, you pledge your eternal bond, as strong as the magic that binds the wizarding world.

Wizarding Unity Ritual:

[Optional: Incorporate a wand ceremony or potion mixing to symbolize unity].

Closing Enchantment:

By the magic of love, I now pronounce you officially wed. You may seal your vows with a magical kiss.

4. LGBTQ+ Inclusive Ceremony Script

Today, we celebrate love without boundaries as [Couple’s Names] join their lives together in marriage.

Inclusive Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to honor and cherish each other, celebrating your unique identities and supporting each other’s growth and happiness?

Exchange of Equality Rings:

These rings symbolize the equality and respect you share, acknowledging the strength of your love in a world of diversity.

Unity Celebration:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange roses as a symbol of their commitment to nurturing and supporting each other’s flourishing lives.

Closing Affirmation:

With the authority granted to me and the love witnessed here, I now pronounce you partners in love and life. You may seal your vows with a loving embrace.

5. Intercultural Fusion Ceremony Script

Today, we come together to honor the merging of two cultures and celebrate the union of [Couple’s Names].

Multicultural Vows:

[Couple’s Names], will you embrace each other’s cultural traditions, weaving them into the fabric of your shared life with respect and appreciation?

Exchange of Heritage Rings:

These rings represent the blend of your heritages, symbolizing the richness and diversity that enrich your love.

Cultural Unity Gesture:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange traditional items from their respective cultures, symbolizing the unity of their backgrounds.

May your marriage be a tapestry of traditions, love, and understanding. With the blessings of all present, I now pronounce you united in marriage. You may honor this union with a kiss.

6. Eco-Friendly Nature-Inspired Ceremony Script

Amidst the beauty of nature, we gather to celebrate the union of [Couple’s Names] and honor the Earth we share.

Nature-Inspired Vows:

[Couple’s Names], like the seasons that change and renew, do you promise to nurture each other’s growth and protect the natural world that sustains us?

Exchange of Sustainable Rings:

These rings are crafted from sustainable materials, symbolizing your commitment to caring for each other and our planet.

Tree Planting Unity Ritual:

As a symbol of your growing love, [Couple’s Names] will plant a tree together, symbolizing the roots and branches of your shared life.

Closing Eco-Blessing:

May your love be as enduring as the earth beneath us and as vibrant as the life it sustains. By the power vested in me and the harmony of nature, I now pronounce you partners for life. You may seal your vows with a green kiss.

7. Adventure-Loving Ceremony Script

Today marks the beginning of a grand adventure as [Couple’s Names] embark on the journey of marriage together.

Adventure Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to navigate life’s twists and turns with courage and joy, embracing each new experience as an opportunity for growth and discovery?

Exchange of Adventure Rings:

These rings symbolize the compass that guides your adventures, reminding you to always find your way back to each other.

Travel-Themed Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange tokens from their favorite adventures, symbolizing the shared memories and future journeys they will embark on together.

Closing Expedition:

With the spirit of adventure as your guide, I now pronounce you partners in exploration and love. You may seal your vows with an adventurous kiss.

8. Literary-Inspired Ceremony Script (Example: Shakespearean Wedding)

Hear ye, hear ye! We gather in the realm of love to join [Couple’s Names] in holy matrimony.

Shakespearean Vows:

[Couple’s Names], wilt thou takest each other as thy lawful spouse, promising to love, honor, and cherish until the stars grow dim and the world doth end?

Exchange of Quill and Ink Rings:

These rings symbolize the eternal words of love you pen together, creating a tale of devotion and passion.

Literary Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange favorite passages from literature, binding your hearts in the words that inspire you.

Closing Sonnet:

By the bard’s wisdom and the power of love, I now pronounce you wedded partners. You may seal your vows with a poetic kiss.

9. Music-Lovers’ Ceremony Script

Let the melody of love fill the air as we gather to unite [Couple’s Names] in harmony and matrimony.

Musical Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to dance through life together, finding harmony in your differences and joy in your shared passions?

Exchange of Musical Rings:

These rings are tuned to the rhythm of your love song, playing the melody of your forever bond.

Song Dedication Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange

their favorite song lyrics or dedicate a song to each other, symbolizing the soundtrack of their love story.

Closing Crescendo:

With the music of your hearts as our guide, I now pronounce you harmoniously married. You may seal your vows with a melodious kiss.

10. Artistic Expression Ceremony Script

Today, amidst the canvas of love, we gather to witness the masterpiece that is the union of [Couple’s Names].

Artistic Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to paint your lives together with colors of passion, creativity, and endless inspiration?

Exchange of Artistic Rings:

These rings are the brushstrokes of your love story, creating a masterpiece that evolves with each stroke of life.

Artistic Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now create a collaborative artwork together, symbolizing the beauty of their partnership and shared vision.

Closing Gallery:

By the artistry of love, I now pronounce you creatively wedded. You may seal your vows with an artistic kiss.

11. Tech-Savvy Ceremony Script

Welcome, tech enthusiasts and love pioneers, as we gather to unite [Couple’s Names] in the digital realm of marriage.

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to upgrade each other’s lives with love, support, and shared Wi-Fi passwords?

Exchange of Virtual Rings:

These digital rings symbolize your connection in the cloud, with unlimited data on love and understanding.

Virtual Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now share a digital memory or create a time capsule to commemorate this virtual milestone.

Closing Upload:

By the power of pixels and the bandwidth of love, I now pronounce you digitally hitched. You may seal your vows with an emoji-filled kiss.

12. Culinary-Inspired Ceremony Script

Join us as we savor the union of [Couple’s Names], blending flavors of love, laughter, and lifelong companionship.

Culinary Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to spice up each other’s lives, creating a recipe for happiness and delicious adventures?

Exchange of Culinary Rings:

These rings are the ingredients of your love story, combining sweetness, spice, and everything nice.

Foodie Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now share a bite of their favorite dish or create a culinary masterpiece together, symbolizing their shared taste for life’s delights.

Closing Toast:

By the flavors of love and the joy of shared meals, I now pronounce you culinary partners. You may seal your vows with a flavorful kiss.

13. Historical-Inspired Ceremony Script (Example: Renaissance Wedding)

We gather in the spirit of the Renaissance to celebrate the timeless love of [Couple’s Names].

Renaissance Vows:

[Couple’s Names], doth thou vow to cherish and honor thy betrothed, in this life and all the lives to come, as nobles of love’s eternal kingdom?

Exchange of Regal Rings:

These rings are the jewels of your bond, signifying the nobility and grandeur of your commitment.

Historical Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange tokens of Renaissance art or literature, symbolizing the richness of their shared heritage.

Closing Elegance:

By the grace of history and the majesty of love, I now pronounce you wedded lords and ladies. You may seal your vows with a noble kiss.

14. Whimsical Fairytale Ceremony Script

Once upon a time, in a land filled with love and enchantment, [Couple’s Names] embarked on a fairytale journey of marriage.

Fairytale Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to write your own happily ever after, with courage, kindness, and a touch of magic?

Exchange of Enchanted Rings:

These rings are the keys to your fairytale kingdom, unlocking a lifetime of love, adventure, and dreams come true.

Magical Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange fairy tale tokens or perform a magical gesture, symbolizing their enchanted union.

By the magic of love and the dreams of fairy tales, I now pronounce you happily ever after. You may seal your vows with a magical kiss.

15. Celestial-Inspired Ceremony Script

Under the vast expanse of the stars, we gather to unite [Couple’s Names] in the celestial bond of marriage.

Celestial Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to explore the galaxies of life together, finding wonder, awe, and infinite love in the cosmic dance of existence?

Exchange of Stellar Rings:

These rings are the constellations of your love story, guiding you through the cosmos of marriage with grace and brilliance.

Starry Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now release sky lanterns or stargaze together, symbolizing their cosmic connection and shared dreams.

Closing Cosmic Blessing:

By the constellations above and the love within, I now pronounce you united in the universe of marriage. You may seal your vows with a celestial kiss.

16. Sports-Lovers’ Ceremony Script

As fans gather in stadiums, so do we gather here to celebrate the winning team of love, [Couple’s Names].

Sports Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to be each other’s MVPs, supporting, cheering, and celebrating victories and challenges as a team?

Exchange of Championship Rings:

These rings are the trophies of your love game, symbolizing the championship of your union.

Sports Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange jerseys or perform a sports-themed gesture, symbolizing their teamwork and shared goals.

Closing Victory Celebration:

By the spirit of sportsmanship and the power of love, I now pronounce you champions of marriage. You may seal your vows with a winning kiss.

17. Travel-Inspired Ceremony Script

Bon voyage to a lifetime of adventures as we unite [Couple’s Names] in the journey of marriage.

Travel Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to be each other’s favorite travel companions, exploring the world with curiosity, courage, and companionship?

Exchange of Wanderlust Rings:

These rings are the compasses of your wanderlust, guiding you on paths of discovery, wonder, and shared experiences.

Global Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange travel mementos or create a travel bucket list together, symbolizing their shared passion for exploration.

Closing Destination:

By the adventures ahead and the love that knows no borders, I now pronounce you travelers in love. You may seal your vows with an adventurous kiss.

18. Film-Inspired Ceremony Script (Example: Hollywood Glam Wedding)

Lights, camera, action! Welcome to the blockbuster love story of [Couple’s Names], where romance takes the center stage.

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to be each other’s leading roles, writing a script of love, laughter, and cinematic magic?

Exchange of Star-Studded Rings:

These rings are the stars of your love story, shining bright in the Hollywood sky of marriage.

Cinematic Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange movie tickets or perform a film-inspired gesture, symbolizing their love story’s silver screen magic.

Closing Curtain Call:

By the magic of cinema and the power of love, I now pronounce you stars of marriage. You may seal your vows with a blockbuster kiss

19. Wellness-Centered Ceremony Script

In the spirit of health, happiness, and holistic well-being, we gather to unite [Couple’s Names] in the journey of marriage.

Wellness Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to support each other’s physical, mental, and emotional well-being, prioritizing a life of balance, joy, and vitality?

Exchange of Wellness Rings:

These rings are the symbols of your commitment to health and happiness, reminding you to nurture yourselves and each other.

Holistic Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange wellness tokens or perform a wellness-inspired gesture, symbolizing their dedication to holistic living.

Closing Wellness Blessing:

By the harmony of mind, body, and soul, I now pronounce you partners in wellness. You may seal your vows with a rejuvenating kiss.

20. Timeless Classic Ceremony Script

In the timeless embrace of love, we gather to unite [Couple’s Names] in the eternal bond of marriage.

Classic Vows:

[Couple’s Names], do you promise to honor, cherish, and love each other, through the ages and for all eternity?

Exchange of Eternal Rings:

These rings are the symbols of your everlasting commitment, transcending time and space in the dance of love.

Timeless Unity Ritual:

[Couple’s Names] will now exchange timeless tokens or perform a classic gesture, symbolizing their timeless love.

Closing Eternal Blessing:

By the timeless love that unites us all, I now pronounce you partners in eternity. You may seal your vows with a timeless kiss.

Each of these ceremony scripts is designed to capture the essence of love in its unique form, whether through traditional rituals, personalized expressions, or themed elements that reflect the couple’s interests and values. Feel free to customize and adapt these scripts to suit your preferences and create a ceremony that resonates with your love story.

Quick Recap on Wedding Ceremony Scripts

We’ve covered a lot of ground in this guide to wedding ceremony scripts! Let’s recap the key points:

• Your officiant script sets the tone for your ceremony and should reflect your unique relationship
• There are several key factors to consider when choosing a script: personalization, beliefs, cultural background, tone, and length
• Traditional scripts are formal and often religious, while modern scripts are more flexible and tailored to the couple
• Unique scripts can incorporate themes, cultural traditions, or out-of-the-box ideas to make your ceremony stand out
• Simple scripts keep the focus on your love and commitment without a lot of frills
• Religious scripts honor your faith and include sacred rituals and blessings
• No matter what style you choose, make sure your script includes the necessary legal elements

Remember, your ceremony is a celebration of your love story. So choose a script that feels authentic to who you are as a couple. Whether that means traditional vows and a reading from Corinthians or handwritten promises and a unity milkshake – go with what speaks to your heart.

Final Thoughts

Your wedding ceremony is more than just a formality – it’s a sacred moment of love, commitment, and unity. And your officiant script is the roadmap that guides you through that moment.

So take your time choosing the perfect words to honor your relationship. Consider your shared values, beliefs, and quirks. Infuse your script with personal anecdotes, meaningful rituals, and heartfelt promises. And don’t be afraid to think outside the box!

At the end of the day, the most powerful script is the one that feels like “you.” So trust your instincts, work with a skilled officiant, and let your love story shine through. And if you need a little extra help along the way, Bridesmaid for Hire is always here to lend a hand.

No matter what you choose, know that your ceremony will be a beautiful reflection of the love you share. So take a deep breath, relax, and savor every moment. This is the beginning of your happily ever after.

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Wedding Ceremony Script

At  WeddingOfficiants.com  – The Wedding Officiant Directory , we’ve been working with engaged couples and professional wedding officiants for more than 15 years, and our site has become a top resource on the web for officiants to grow their businesses. We’ve curated a collection of the best wedding ceremony scripts submitted by our officiant members, and offer them here as a resource to anyone in need of a script for a wedding ceremony.

Below, you’ll find advice on creating your own custom wedding ceremony script, wedding ceremony samples, and links to both a religious wedding ceremony and a non-religious ceremony. The basics of writing a ceremony script start with an outline – the wedding ceremony template. Once you’ve decided on the structure of the ceremony, you can select individual wedding readings, wedding vows, and other ceremony elements to include in your script. Of course, you could also just copy a sample wedding ceremony script below and use it without any further customization.

The wedding scripts below have been created by experienced, professional wedding officiants. If you are already an officiant, we would love to have you join us as a member of our wedding officiant directory – you can view our membership packages here. If you are a new officiant, or if you’ve been tapped by a friend of family member to perform a wedding ceremony, there’s a chance you may really enjoy performing your first wedding and want to do it more often. If so, take a look at our  Officiant Resources  page, with advice on  how to get ordained ,  how to become a wedding officiant , and much more.

Writing a Wedding Ceremony Script

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Creating a wedding ceremony script from scratch can be a daunting task if you haven’t done it before, it’s not as simple as writing a collection of words and poetry. A marriage ceremony is a time-honored ritual which requires a bit of structure to feel sufficiently “ceremonial” for the couple and their guests. That’s not to say that there are firm rules when deciding how to write a wedding ceremony script – there are no “official” rules to speak of – but a lack of structure or organization can leave attendees feeling confused and actually detract from the overall feeling of the ceremony.

We highly recommend sending the couple a copy of your wedding ceremony script once you’ve finished it so they can see exactly what you plan to say – that way, if there are any changes they feel are necessary, you can make them before the big day. Surprises may be fun on most days, but surprising a couple with the content of their wedding ceremony will probably not go over very well.

Wedding Ceremony Script Ideas

Keep in mind that there are many different religious and cultural wedding traditions as well, but we’ve kept this list to the most common ideas for wedding ceremonies of all types.

Traditional Wedding Ceremony Elements:

• Processional:  The “wedding procession” is simply a fancy way of referring to the beginning of the ceremony when everyone walks in.  This includes parents, wedding party, the officiant, and the couple, and is typically accompanied by music.
• Opening Words / Welcome:  This is typically the first thing that is said at the beginning of the wedding ceremony. The opening words will often include some sort of welcome to the guests and a few remarks about the covenant of marriage.
• Charge to Couple:  This is a short passage about the covenant of marriage and the importance of the occasion, and also usually includes a bit of practical marriage advice from the officiant. It doesn’t need to be terribly long, one to three short paragraphs is more than enough.
• Wedding Readings:  It’s traditional to include one or more  wedding readings  during the ceremony, which are typically scripture or poetry. Ceremony readings can also be anything that is meaningful to the couple, and will typically reflect something about their love and their relationship.
• Pledge / Declaration of Intent:  This part of the ceremony is when the couple will face one another, and affirm their intentions to be united in marriage. The officiant leads each of them through a series of statements or questions, which are answered with “I Do” or “I Will”.
• Blessing of the Rings:  The ring blessing is a short statement or prayer by the officiant to bless or charge the couple’s wedding rings prior to the ring exchange. It can take the form of a few sentences, or a “ring warming” where the rings are passed to all the guests for their well-wishes.
• Exchange of Vows:  Sometimes done simultaneously with the exchange of rings, the wedding vows can either be led by the officiant as a series of phrases repeated by the couple, or something completely unique written by each of them to one another.
• Exchange of Rings:  The ring exchange during the ceremony is typically led by the officiant, with each member of the wedding couple repeating a series of short phrases while placing a wedding ring on their partner’s finger.
• Pronouncement and Kiss:  Upon the exchange of vows and rings, the officiant will pronounce the couple as being officially married, and invite them to kiss. Typically followed by applause by the wedding guests, this may be the end of the ceremony if there are no closing words by the officiant.
• Closing Words:  Traditionally, the officiant will offer some words to officially close the wedding ceremony, blessing the couple or offering encouragement for their journey as a married couple. This typically marks the official end of the wedding ceremony.
• Recessional:  The recessional is the part of the ceremony where the couple and their attendants exit the ceremony, beginning with the couple and proceeding in the reverse order as the processional when everyone entered. The last person to exit before the guests is typically the officiant.

Unique Wedding Ceremony Ideas:

• Honoring the Parents:  Usually performed at the beginning of the ceremony, the officiant takes a few moments to acknowlege the role the couple’s parents have played in raising them and bringing them up to this moment when they will be married.
• Moment of Silence:  Also normally toward the beginning of the ceremony, taking a moment of silence to remember those friends and family who have passed away or could not attend the wedding ceremony for one reason or another.
• Handfasting Ceremony:  An ancient Pagan and Celtic tradition, handfasting invlolves tying the hands of the couple together with a ribbon, rope, or braided cord to symbolize the unity between them and the connection they share.
• Unity Candle Ceremony:  This candle lighting ceremony can be performed at any time during the wedding ceremony, and can be done in a number of ways. The popular version involves the couple lighting a single candle with two smaller candles to symbolize their new life together.
• Wine Box Ceremony:  A newer tradition, the couple write love letters to one another and seal them in a wine box with a bottle of wine, opening the box on their first or fifth wedding anniversary to read one another’s letters and share the bottle of wine to celebrate their marriage.
• Blended Family Ceremony:  For couples with children who wish to incorporate their kids into their wedding ceremony as well, this ceremony includes the children of the couple in saying vows to one another affirming their commitment and promises as a family.
• Rose Ceremony:  There are two versions of this ceremony, one involving the couple presenting one another with a single rose to communicate their love and commitment, and the other with the couple presenting a rose to their mothers as a way of thanking them for their love and support.
• Ring Warming Ceremony:  Typically done at the beginning of the ceremony prior to the vows, the officiant passes the couple’s wedding rings around throughout the wedding guests and asks each person to infuse the rings with their blessings and well-wishes for the couple’s marriage.
• Jumping the Broom:  A tradition which found it’s way to the states as a part of African-American weddings, the couple has a broom placed in front of them and jumps over it as they exit the ceremony, popularized in the novel and miniseries,  Roots  by Alex Haley.
• Sand Ceremony:  Similar in intent and execution to the Unity Candle Ceremony, the couple instead pours two separate containers of colored sand into a single vessel to symbolize their union. A great alternative for a windy wedding day!
• Breaking the Glass:  A Jewish wedding tradition, the couple stomps on a glass to shatter it at the end of the wedding as their guests shout “Mazel Tov!” to congratulate them.

Wedding Ceremony Template

When creating a wedding ceremony script, it can be helpful to start with a general template to help you structure the ceremony, adding in the specific wording once you’ve designed the overall flow and order of the individual elements. While it can be tempting to include a lot of different elements and traditions (or let the couple pick as many as they’d like), keep in mind that the overall length of the ceremony will depend on how much you try to squeeze into it. Most non-religious wedding ceremonies should be about 20 minutes in length from the processional to the recessional – certainly not more than 40 minutes. Wedding guests get restless and stop paying attention after about 20 minutes, so the longer the ceremony lasts, the more bored and distracted the guests will be.

Generally speaking, most weddings will follow a standard order, with variations based on the couple’s needs or the amount and type of elements and traditions that are included. The basic wedding ceremony template for most weddings is:

• Processional
• Gathering Words
• Declaration of Intent
• Charge to Couple
• Exchange of Vows
• Exchange of Rings
• Pronouncement and Kiss
• Recessional

You can certainly make the ceremony more complex than this, but this template is the bare-bones structure of a standard wedding ceremony script. Start with this order and add any additional elements, readings, songs, and traditions where it makes the most sense. In general, you’ll want to place most of those additional elements toward the beginning of the ceremony, because the guests will expect that the exchange of vows will be one of the last items in the wedding ceremony order.

Wedding Ceremony Samples

To help you create your wedding ceremony script, we’ve included several wedding ceremony samples below – a Wedding Officiant Script and a Marriage Ceremony Script. We’ve chosen to only include generic sample wedding ceremonies here, so if you are interested in looking at samples for a non-religious wedding ceremony, a Christian wedding ceremony, an interfaith wedding ceremony, or a non-denominational wedding ceremony you’ll need to visit those specific pages to see the included sample scripts. These are examples of a standard wedding script following the template mentioned above, and should give you a solid head start.

Because the ceremony samples below are very basic and do not include any additional elements such as  wedding readings , a ceremony based solely on these scripts will be 10-15 minutes in length. We highly recommend keeping the total length of the wedding ceremony to around 20 minutes, so be selective with the number of additional elements you include. Please feel free to use these wedding ceremony samples for your own private or professional use, but bear in mind that they are copyrighted works so please do not publish them anywhere online.

Wedding Officiant Script

2. Seating of the Mothers

3. Officiant, Grooom, and Groomsmen Enter

4. Bridesmaids Enter

5. Flower Girl and Ring Bearer Enter

6. Bride Enters, Escorted by Her Father

Welcome to all who have gathered here this day to share in this marriage ceremony of [Name] and [Name].

These words, spoken today between [Name] and [Name] are indeed important and sacred, but they are not what joins these two together, nor is this marriage ceremony. We are not here to witness the beginning of their relationship, but to acknowledge and celebrate a lasting bond that already exists between them. [Name] and [Name] have already joined their hearts together and chosen to walk together on life’s journey, and we have come to bear witness to a sybolic union and a public affirmation of the love they share.

8. Gathering Words

Those of us in attendace today are present to witness a statement of lasting love and commitment between [Name] and [Name]. The ceremonial union of two people in marriage, in its primordial form, is as ancient as our very humanity and yet is still as fresh as each day’s sunrise. The commitment of love between [Name] and [Name] speaks of their shared experience together and their dreams for the future, of the importance of each of them as individuals as well as the special bond they share, and of the importance of their community of family and friends.

Everyone gathered here today was invited to this ceremony because you have played a special role in [Name] and [Name]’s lives. You are present at this ceremony to celebrate their marriage and to witness their vows of love to one another. Will all of you, gathered here to witness this union, do all in your power to love and support this couple now, and in the years ahead? If so please respond, “we will.”

Guests: We will.

9. Declaration of Intent

And [Name] and [Name], have you come here today with the intention to be legally joined in marriage? Do you pledge to choose respect, kindness, and compassion toward one another, to listen deeply to one other, and to speak to one another truthfully, today and always?

Couple: We do.

10. Charge to Couple

[Name] and [Name],   your love is something that you both cherish, so much so that it’s moved you join in the union of marriage and create a home together. Today, you dedicate your lives to giving one another happiness and support. To be certain, entering into the covenant of marriage is an act of deep trust and faith in the strength of your love. It would be a fool’s error to base your marriage on the hope that your partner will change to become something they are not, or do something in the future that they do not already do today. Your marriage must be based on the heartfelt and sincere acceptance of one another, as you are, in each moment.

The pledge you make today expresses your devotion to one another and to the love you share, and the words spoken here will support your marriage if you are able to sustain your commitment through the inevitable hardships you’ll face together. Today, in the presence of your families and friends, you pronounce your love for each other and make a commitment that will define the next phase of your journey. We celebrate it with you, and wish you well.

11. Exchange of Vows  (Repeat after the officiant)

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my wife; to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; to love and to cherish; until we are parted by death.

I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my husband; to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health; to love and to cherish; until we are parted by death.

12. Exchange of Rings

May I please have the rings? (officiant is handed both rings)

Since ancient times, the ring has been a symbol of the unbroken circle of love, with no beginning and no end. Love given freely has no giver and no receiver, for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the freedom and power of this commitment you make here today.

[Name], placing the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me: [Name],I give you this ring, as a sign of my vow to love, honor, and cherish you.

And [Name], placing the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me: [Name],I give you this ring, as a sign of my vow to love, honor, and cherish you.

13. Pronouncement and Kiss

[Name] and [Name], inasmuch as you have pledged yourselves, each to the other, and have declared the same in the presence of this company by the exchange of vows and the giving and receiving of rings, by the power vested in me I now pronounce you husband and wife.

You may now kiss the Bride! (Applause)

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my pleasure to present to you, the new Mr. and Mrs. ________________ !

15. Recessional

Marriage Ceremony Script

Welcome to the wedding of [Name] and [Name]. On behalf of the couple, I welcome you to this celebration of love, and ask that all of you take a moment to silence your mobile devices. Thank you.

A wedding ceremony is a joyous occasion, filled with hopes, dreams and excitement. We are here today to acknowledge and honor the love that [Name] and [Name] share, and to bear witness to the commitment which will begin their journey as married partners.

Marriage is a time-honored tradition, and should never be entered into lightly. [Name] and [Name] have made a very serious and important decision in choosing to marry one other today, entering into a sacred covenant as life partners. While the responsibility to honor and sustain their commitment ultimately lies with the two of them, each of you gathered here today are here because you play an important role in their lives. As their community of support, there may be times that [Name] and [Name] will need your wisdom, guidance, and encouragement to work through the inevitable difficulties that lie ahead. I ask that all of you choose love in your thoughts, words, and actions toward them and their marriage, and do all you can to help them nurture and deepen their bond.

As when tending a garden, the quality of your marriage will be a reflection the effort that the two of you put into nurturing this relationship. You have the opportunity to go forward from this day to create a faithful, kind and tender bond. We wish for you the wisdom, compassion, and constancy to create a peaceful sanctuary in which you both can grow in love. [Name] and [Name], do you understand and accept this responsibility and do you come here freely to enter into the covenant of marriage?

[Couple] We do.

10. Reading

The following is an excerpt from Union, by Robert Fulghum.

“You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or between baseball innings – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart.

All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.” Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another over these years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same. For after today you shall say to the world – This is my husband. This is my wife.”

11. Exchange of Vows

[Name], please look into [Name]’s eyes and repeat after me:

I, [Name] take thee, [Name] to be my wedded wife, to laugh with you in joy, to grieve with you in sorrow, to grow with you in love, as long as we both shall live.

And [Name], please look into [Name]’s eyes and repeat after me:

I, [Name] take thee, [Name] to be my wedded husband, to laugh with you in joy, to grieve with you in sorrow, to grow with you in love, as long as we both shall live.

May I have the rings please?

Wedding rings are symbolic reminders of the unbroken circle of eternal love. Within the safety and comfort of a true marriage, love given freely has no beginning and no end. Love freely given has no separate giver and receiver. Each of you gives your love to the other, and each of you receives love from the other. May these rings serve to remind you of the freedom and power of your love.

[Name], placing the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me:

With this ring, I give you my promise, to honor you, to be faithful to you, and to share my love and life with you, in all ways, forever.

And [Name], placing the ring on [Name]’s finger, repeat after me:

And now, having entered into the covenant of marriage by the exchanging of vows and the giving and receiving of rings, by the power vested in me I now pronounce you husband and wife.

You may now seal these vows with a kiss!

14. Closing Words

[Name] and [Name], our best wishes go forward from this day with you and we wish for you a fulfilling life, rich in caring and in happiness. May you find a gentle and peaceful life that nurtures and comforts you, and that reflects your honesty, kindness and integrity. There is a wonderful life ahead of you. Live it fully, love it’s changes and choices, and let life amaze you and bring you great joy.

It is my pleasure to introduce, __________________________!

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Officiate With This Perfect 10-Part Wedding Ceremony Script

So you need to write a wedding ceremony script and officiate a wedding . Instead of grabbing a canned pre-written sample from one of the 695,691 webpages out there, start with the 10-part wedding ceremony script outline I use every weekend instead.

A canned script is restrictive right out of the gate. It says, “I’m not really sure what I’m doing.” When we use a wedding ceremony script outline , it communicates to our couple that we’re structured and flexible. The process ends up being way more collaborative, and the finished script ends up being way more personal.

It’s the difference between “Hey, I bought this cake. Now eat it,” and “Hey, let’s make a cake!” Or… something.

Call up your couple, sit down with them for an hour over a drink, and brainstorm through this standard 10-part wedding ceremony script outline. Talk over the personal elements they might want to add. I’ve included some of the most common variations when relevant so you can discuss some options.

Here is the ceremony script outline I start with for 100% of the weddings I officiate.

1. Officiant Opening Remarks

The wedding officiant takes the front with Partner 1 and Partner 1’s party (down the aisle or from the side), and then the officiant makes some brief opening remarks.

• Welcome the guests.
• Announce whether photos are allowed.
• Ask guests to please turn phones to silent.
• “With that, let’s begin!” That’s the cue for the processional.

Variations:

• After the officiant and Partner 1 and Partner 1’s party enter, maybe some grandparents or other important family members enter and are seated in the front row before the officiant speaks.
• If Partner 1 and his/her party are part of the processional, the officiant can enter alone and make the opening remarks alone before anyone else enters.

2. The Processional

The music starts, and the wedding processional begins.

• Ring boys and/or flower girls and/or junior bridesmaids enter.
• Partner 2’s party enters in single file.
• The officiant asks guests, “Please stand for [Partner 2] as you’re able.”
• Partner 2 enters with parent(s), walk the aisle, and stop at the front row.
• Partner 1 steps forward to receive Partner 2 at front row.
• Partners and parents exchange handshakes, hugs, and kisses with parent(s).
• Partner 1 and Partner 2 stand in front of the officiant, facing each other holding hands.
• The officiant invites guests to be seated.
• Sometimes when Partner 2 and his/her escort arrive at the front row, the music fades and the officiant asks who gives Partner 2 away or who supports this union. Partner 2’s escort answers, “I do.”
• The ring boys and/or flower girls and/or junior bridesmaids can enter either first in the processional or just before Partner 2.

3. The Officiant’s Speech

What makes today so important in the life of this couple? It’s the promises they are making to always be there for each other (“vows”) in front of their closest friends and family. Here’s where the officiant says some things about that.

Some suggestions for what to say:

• share a story about the couple,
• read a poem or excerpt from a book that is meaningful to the couple,
• say something deep and philosophical about commitment and faithfulness,
• add some prayers or blessings from the couple’s religious tradition.

Be creative, respectful, and remember everyone there wants to have fun and be engaged! (Well, except the couple. They don’t wanna be engaged anymore. Heh. See what I did there…? Ohhhkay.)

We may be legally required to say a couple of things in the ceremony, and I like to add them to the end of the speech. A couple of those things might be:

• “If anyone knows of any legal reason why these two may not be married today, please speak now.”
• “[Partner 1] and [Partner 2], do you stand here today to give yourselves to each other in marriage.”

How do we know if we have to include these things in the ceremony? Google up on the laws in your state or province.

4. The Exchange of Vows

This is when the couple makes promises to each other. It’s kinda the biggest part of the day. No pressure.

Have no fear! See my two blog posts on the three ways to say wedding vows and my curated list of favourite wedding vows.

5. The Exchange of Rings

The Best Man is usually holding both rings. The officiant states that the couple will now exchange rings as a physical symbol of the promises they’re making today.

• The Best Man gives Partner 2’s ring to Partner 1.
• Partner 1 slides the ring on Partner 2’s finger.
• The officiant asks Partner 1 to repeat a few lines about giving this ring as a symbol and a reminder of his/her commitment (i.e. “I give you this ring/as a sign of my commitment to you.”).
• The Best Man gives Partner 1’s ring to the officiant. (So that he doesn’t have to cut across the front.)
• The officiant gives the ring to Partner 2.
• Partner 2 slides the ring on Partner 1’s finger.
• The officiant asks Partner 2 to repeat a few lines about giving this ring as a symbol and a reminder of his/her commitment (i.e. “I give you this ring/as a sign of my commitment to you.”).

6. Pronouncing the Couple as Married

“Well now, in front of your closest friends and family (and by the authority given be by the province/state of _________ ), I pronounce you husband and wife/married! [Partner 1], you may kiss [Partner 2]!”

• Some officiants put this element after the signing, but I like to put it before. That way, everyone has clapped and cheered and the signing is more relaxed with a party-like atmosphere, rather than stiffer and more ceremonial.

7. Signing the Legal Documents

Is this a legal ceremony? The officiant tells the guests that the couple is going to sign some papers and we will all be back in just a few minutes.

• Music starts.
• If the officiant is legalizing the ceremony (or someone else in attendance is doing that), head over to the table and sign with the required number of witnesses (usually the Best Man and Maid of Honour).
• When finished, everyone comes back to the centre as before and the officiant gets ready to make some closing remarks.
• Sometimes the couple opts to do this in private with the witnesses before or after the ceremony.
• Some countries do this before or after the ceremony, so you can leave this out if it’s not customary where you’re from.

8. Officiant Closing Remarks

This is mostly practical, next-steps stuff. The officiant tells the guests 1) what the couple is doing next, 2) what the guests need to do next, and 3) thank you for coming. For example:

• “[Partner 1] and [Partner 2] are heading out briefly for photos and will rejoin us shortly,”
• “In the meantime, you are all invited out to the terrace where drinks and refreshments will be served, with the reception to follow shortly after.”
• “On behalf of the happy couple, thanks for coming and have a wonderful evening!”

9. Presentation of the Couple

Here’s where the couple gets officially presented to everyone for the first time. This is what I typically say:

• “Finally, stand with me now; it is my distinct honour to present to you for the first time: _______ and _______ as husband and wife/married!” or an alternative (i.e. “Mr. and Mrs. _______!”).

10. The Recessional

• The recessional music starts immediately.
• The couple heads up the aisle.
• When the couple has cleared the aisle completely (no photo-bombing and traffic jams!), the two wedding parties follow in pairs, linking arms and starting with Best Man and Maid of Honour.
• The officiant goes to Partner 2’s family, offers congratulations, and motions them to exit up the aisle.
• The officiant goes to Partner 1’s family, offers congratulations, and motions them to exit up the aisle.
• Finally, the officiant stands and motions the subsequent second rows to exit.

There you have it!

Now, one thing to note here at the end. This is a standard 10-part wedding ceremony outline. Our couple may expand it out to 22 parts or 648 parts by adding readings or rituals involving multiple family members, fire, sand, doves, F-18 flyovers, clowns, alcohol, etc.

Just go with it! And remember: it’s not our job to coordinate all the minute details like bringing all the candles and birdcages! Our role as Officiant is to facilitate and accommodate what they want their ceremony to look like and make the space for it to happen. Use my standard 10-part ceremony script outline as a starting point, and craft any style of perfect wedding ceremony from there.

If you feel you need more help, I offer a full wedding script + 1-on-1 coaching service here , and a full wedding officiating course called Unboring!Wedding Academy here.

Now get out there with your script and deliver the Best. Ceremony. Ever.

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Free Wedding Speech Examples to Celebrate the Big Day

These wedding speech examples will help your write a memorable wedding toast for the big day.

If someone has asked you to make a speech at a wedding, then you probably know the wedding couple pretty well. And since you know and love them, you'll want to make that speech personal, meaningful, engaging, and maybe even a little charming. Don't worry - we've got your back with free wedding speech examples you can use as guides. Use any of these sample wedding speeches as a jumping off point to help you speak from the heart. You've got this.

Best Man's Wedding Speech

The best man's speech is usually upbeat and lighthearted. He may tell some stories about the couple, and if he has known one or both of them since childhood, he may add a few tales from that period, too.

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Lighthearted & Amusing Best Man Speech Example

(Name) has asked me to talk today about what a great guy he is, and so I can honestly say that he's handsome, brilliant, funny and perrr.... (TURN TO GROOM) ... (Groom's name), I can't read your writing. What's this last word? Since we met, I have seen his transformation from an awkward youth to a slightly less awkward adult, and it is my great pleasure to speak on this important occasion.

Of course, we wouldn't be here today without (partner's name) and his/her/their ability to get shy old (groom's name) to propose. (Partner's name), I'm sure it was worth the wait. I often think that (partner's name) makes (groom's name) look good. Mainly by standing next to him. He/she/they is/are full of warmth, humor, and initiative.

Marriage is a serious matter which shouldn't be entered into without careful consideration and since (groom's name) took his sweet time proposing, I think it's safe to say he's thought about this for a long time. (Add humorous story about his commitment issues here).

In conclusion, these two married today for better and for worse. (Groom's name) couldn't have done better and (partner's name) couldn't have done….. (look down at notes and pause) better either. I'd like to thank the attendants on behalf of the couple. They all look wonderful, and I'm sure you'll all agree they have performed their role splendidly. And finally, on behalf of everyone here, I can truly say we wish nothing but the best for your future. You are a unique and perfectly matched couple, and we hope that all your dreams come true, and you have a magical life together. Ladies and Gentlemen, please join me in a toast............. To (couple's names).

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Groom's Wedding Speech

The groom's speech should be one that primarily expresses his appreciation for the love and support of his friends and family. He should also express his devotion to his new spouse.

Heartfelt Groom's Speech Example

I would just like to thank everybody for coming today, especially those that have traveled quite a ways to celebrate this day with us. Ever since I first started dating (spouse's name), his/her/their family has made me feel welcome and, well, like a member of the family. Now, I am officially part of that wonderful family, and I'm very grateful.

I would like to thank both sets of parents since neither (spouse's name) nor I would be here today if it weren't for them. I would also like to thank you for all your love and support over the years, and for all the advice you have given us. If we can raise a family half as wonderful, then we will be very happy.

I must also thank my new in-laws for bringing up such a compassionate and intelligent son/daughter/child. And, to my husband/wife/partner, you look absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for everything you've done. You know everything about me and love me just the same. I have my faults, yet you still agreed to marry me. I am extremely lucky today to be the one to marry you, and I know this is the start of many happy years together. I would like to thank (best man's name) for agreeing to be my best man and all the attendants for their help and support. Here's a toast to you all.

Bride's Wedding Speech

The bride's speech is very similar to the groom's speech. She should also express her appreciation to her family and friends and express her love for her new spouse.

Elegant Bride Speech Example

(Spouse's name) and I feel privileged to be sharing our day with all our friends and family who have been so important to us throughout our lives. Many of you traveled for quite a long distance. Thanks to all of you for the efforts and sacrifices you have made to be with us today.

I also want to thank the most wonderful parents a child could ever have. Not only for the love, support and guidance over the years, but also for everything you've done to help make this day perfect. We would have never managed without you both, and today would not have been possible or so special. Thank you to both sets of our parents from the bottom of our hearts.

Now it's time to thank my beautiful bridesmaids for everything they've done and for being the greatest friends ever. To my maid of honor, (maid of honor's name), you have been a lifesaver. You truly are the definition of a best friend and sister. Thank you for always being there for me.

(Spouse's name), I want to thank you for making my life complete. I am so lucky to be your wife, and I look forward to our life together. Finally, we would like to thank each one of you for being here with us on this special day.

Groom's or Bride's Father Speech

The groom's or bride's father should give a speech that welcomes the bride or groom into the family. He should also mention the joining of the two families and express well wishes and thoughts of happiness for the newly married couple's future.

Thoughtful Welcome Speech Example

Good afternoon everyone. First of all, on behalf of my wife and I, I would like to welcome (groom's or bride's parents) into the family. I'd also like to welcome relatives and friends of both families and thank you all for being here, especially those of you who have traveled a long way to make this special occasion so memorable. (Bride and groom's names) have obviously worked really hard on this beautiful wedding, and I'm sure everyone here agrees that the ceremony was wonderful.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to thank everyone else involved in making the day so special. At this point, I would like to formally welcome (bride or groom) into the family, even though you have been part of it for a good while now. Without sounding too corny, (bride or groom's name), you are a great person who clearly loves our (son/daughter/child) and obviously makes him/her/them very happy. I think you have been with (groom or bride's name) long enough now to know what you are getting yourself into by joining our family, so, to be honest, I don't have any sympathy for you. Seriously though (groom or bride's name), we are glad that you are part of our family, and I am proud to have you as a (son-in-law or daughter-in-law).

Sticking with tradition, I'd like to leave the new couple with some words of advice as they enter into this next stage of their lives together. As a great philosopher once said, a man who gives in when he is wrong is a wise man. Whilst a man who gives in when he is right is married. All that remains is for me to ask that you all join me in a toast to the happy couple. May you both live as long as you like and have all that you need for as long as you live. Ladies and Gentlemen, I give you (bride and groom's names).

Maid of Honor's Speech

The maid of honor's speech might give thanks to the bride for being chosen as the honored attendant. She might also give a little history as to how the bride and groom met, as well as when she first noticed that they had fallen in love. The bride's maid of honor could also relate some humorous, though not embarrassing, stories about the bride or the newly married couple.

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Gracious Maid of Honor Speech Example

When (bride's name) asked me to be her maid of honor, I started wondering where the custom of having a bridesmaid originated from. My research led me to the interesting origins of many of our wedding customs, and everything is done to protect the bride from misfortune on her wedding day.

In the old days, sometimes marriage was by capture, and a maiden was guarded by her family to prevent seizure. The bridesmaids would often act as decoys by wearing dresses similar to the bride's to confuse the kidnappers and to keep evil spirits away. Today, I have done my best to keep the evil spirits away, but at least the family wasn't a problem!

Both of you have found your other half. Thank you (bride's name) for being such a wonderful best friend. I'm glad you have found (spouse's name), and I know that he/she/they will always love you. Always love and respect each other. Remember that a married couple are indeed best friends, and good friendships are built not with time, but with trust! May you grow old together on one pillow, and may your life be filled with happiness and joy! My love to the both of you!

Craft Your Perfect Wedding Speech

Giving a wedding toast or speech doesn't have to be complicated or difficult. Base your speech ideas on your history with the couple, your friendship, and their love. With these examples to follow, you can craft a wedding speech that honors the newlywed couple and expresses your gratitude for being a part of their special day. Remember, the most important part of your wedding day speech is to speak from the heart.

The 7 Most Beautiful Wedding Ceremony Scripts…Ever

by islandmike | May 24, 2020

Ready to find the perfect ceremony script for your wedding?

This post includes a compilation of 7 of the most beautiful wedding scripts in the history of weddings.

• A Deeply Moving Non-Religious Ceremony Script
• Mildy Religious Wedding Ceremony
• Super Simple (and Short) Civil Ceremony
• A Traditional Religious Ceremony
• A Civil Ceremony – Short and Powerful
• A Lovely Religious Script with Corinthians Chapter 13
• Playful Civil Ceremony

PLEASE NOTE: Feel free to modify any of these scripts to fit your style.  You can always make a non-religious ceremony religious by adding a prayer and scripture reading.   Or you can change out the vows if you found something better.  (You may also find helpful The Most Comprehensive Guide Ever on Traditional Wedding Vows .)

ADDITIONALLY: Some minor changes were made to some of the scripts for aesthetics by world-famous wedding officiant Island Mike.

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1. A Sweet, Secular Ceremony Script From The Knot   INTRODUCTION AND WELCOME:

Good evening everyone!

From this place (here the minister or officiant should describe something about your chosen ceremony venue/location, about the significance or beauty of the location), we take ourselves out of the usual routines of daily living to witness a unique moment in the lives of ______ and ______. Today they join their lives in the union of marriage.

To all their guests, they are happy to share this moment with you. They have known most of you  for many years. You watched them grow up, you went to school with them, or you worked  with them. Because you are the ones who have supported them and known them so well, it is  only fitting that you are the ones to share this once-in-a-lifetime moment with them.

______ and _____ are pleased to have their parents in the front row…close to them for the  ceremony.

______ thanks her mother for providing her with every opportunity possible and being  the best mother anyone could ask for.

______ appreciates all the love and support his parents gave him over the years.

A wedding day is often a day when couples miss family members no longer with them. For ______  and ______, there are family members whose memories they hold dear.

(Here you can insert references to loved ones that have passed away.  Or you can mention loved ones that couldn’t be present for other reasons.)

And so it is that _____ and _____ present themselves to be married today…surrounded by the  people they love the most.

As _____ and _____ prepared for the ceremony part of this wedding celebration, they reflected  on what it is that they love about each other.  And this was was the easiest part of planning this wedding!

To the Groom:

______ (Groom’s name), ______ (Bride’s name) loves that you blend in so comfortably with her family.  She sees in you a funny, kind, and sweet  man. She loves that you think she is funny and that you always find a way to compliment her.

She loves that you always want to be close to her. You remember details of the stories she tells. You  want to be part of her family and circle of friends. You help her around the house. Most  importantly, you are so close that even when she is at her worst, you have never made her feel  like you want anything but to be closer to her.

______ (Bride’s name), _____(Groom’s name) loves that you ______________________(fill in the  blank). He loves your brain, your smile, and your beauty. He appreciates that  you are “low maintenance.” He likes that you can be really silly. He loves your emails and  texts. He loves your cooking. He loves your kisses. He just really loves you!

You both look to a shared future that includes raising a happy &  healthy family. That future also  includes a richly lived life together…going out to restaurants, hanging out with  family, relaxing at home in front of the TV, singing and dancing…Bride will do the singing, and  Groom will do the dancing.

The years will come and go…you won’t take each other for granted, you will laugh a lot, you  will be the best parents you can be, you will grow older and wiser together. It’s a good story, and the ending is not in sight!

(Optional Reading)

MARRIAGE VOWS:

We come now to the words ____ and _____ want to hear the most today…the words that take  them across the threshold from being engaged to being married.

A marriage, as most of us understand it, is a voluntary and full commitment. It is made in the  deepest sense to the exclusion of all others, and it is entered into with the desire and hope that it  will last for life.

Before you declare your vows to one another, I want to hear you confirm that it is indeed your  intention to be married today.

____, do you come here freely and without reservation to give yourself to _____ in  marriage? If so, answer “I do.”

_____, do you come here freely and without reservation to give yourself to _____ in

marriage? If so, answer “I do.”

_____ and _____, having heard that it is your intention to be married to each other, I now ask  you to declare your marriage vows.

Please face each other and hold hands.

Groom, please repeat after me…

I, _____ take you, _____  to be my wife.

I will share my life with yours,

and build our dreams together,

Support you through times of trouble,

and rejoice with you in times of happiness.

I promise to give you

respect, love and loyalty .

This commitment is made in love,

kept in faith,

lived in hope,

and made new every day of our lives.

Bride, please repeat after me…

I, _____,  take you, _____,  to be my husband.

Build our dreams together,

EXCHANGE WEDDING RINGS

Your wedding ring are the outward and visible sign of the inward and invisible bond which  already unites you two hearts in love.

Groom, place the ring on Bride’s finger and repeat after me….

I give you this ring.

Wear it with love and joy.

As this ring has no end,

My love is also forever.

Bride, place the ring on Groom’s finger and repeat after me….

May the wedding rings you exchanged today remind you always that you are surrounded by  enduring love.

Everyone has advice for newlyweds.  _____  and ______, I offer these good wishes to you on this special day.

May your life together be blessed with prosperity and good health.   May you always share open and honest communication between each other.   May you respect each other’s individual talents and gifts and give full support to each  other’s professional and personal pursuits.

May you cherish the home and family you will create together.   May all the years to come be filled with moments to celebrate and renew your love.   May your love be a life-long source of excitement, contentment, affection, respect, and  devotion for one another.

DECLARATION OF MARRIAGE

And so now by the power vested in me by __________________, it is my honor and delight to declare

you husband and wife. You may seal this declaration with a kiss.

I am pleased to present the newlyweds, Mr. and Mrs. ______________!

  2. Mildly Religious Ceremony Ceremony found on Erin’s Blog .

We are gathered together on this day to witness and celebrate the marriage of __________ & _________. We come together not to mark the start of a relationship, but to acknowledge and strengthen a bond that already exists. This ceremony is a public affirmation of that bond and as their dearest family and friends, it is our honor and privilege to stand witness to this event.

This day is made possible not only because of your love for each other, but through the grace and support of your family and friends. It is our hope that your fulfillment and joy in each other will increase with each passing year.

Marriage is a commitment in life, where two people can find and bring out the very best in each other. It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other human relationship can equal, a physical and emotional joining that has the promise of a lifetime.

OPENING PRAYER

Let us bow our heads in prayer. Lord, we thank you for gathering everyone here today. We ask that you help _____ and _____ to remember the strong love that they share. To work that love into practical things so that nothing can divide them. May their love always inspire them to be kind in their words, considerate of the other’s feelings, and concerned for the other’s needs and wishes. Increase their faith and trust in You. Bless their marriage with peace and happiness and make their Love fruitful for Your glory and their joy, both here and in eternity. Amen.

While the commitment begins with the two of you, its effect radiates outward. It touches your family and friends and ultimately all of society. When this commitment is seriously made and continuously fulfilled, it leads to the richest and most rewarding of human relationships.

Your relationship will take more than love. It will take trust, to know in your hearts that you want only the best for each other. Dedication, to stay open to one another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so. And faith, to go forward together without knowing what the future holds for you both.

While love is our natural state of being, these other qualities are not as easy to come by. They are not a destination, but a journey. Marriage is a give and take between two personalities, a mingling of two endowments which diminishes neither, but enhances both.

CHARGE TO THE COUPLE

Seeing that no moment is without meaning, we ask that you take this marriage as a beginning of your lives together. Today signifies the creation of a new home and a new family for you both. May you be fulfilled by each other’s love and friendship. May you be overjoyed by the promises you are about to make and the life together you will create.

Remember that in every marriage, there are good times and bad, times of joy and times of sorrow. Marriage is a journey – a time of adventure and excitement enhanced by the love, trust, dedication and faith you share in one another.

May the promises you make to one another today, be lived out to the end of your lives. Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys, but today is the day it all begins.

_____ and _____, do you, with your family and friends as your witnesses, present yourselves willingly and of your own accord to be joined in marriage?

Will you promise to care for each other in the joys and sorrows of life, come what may, and to share the responsibility for growth and enrichment of your life together?

Groom, please repeat after me.

I, ____, take you ____, to be my wedded wife

I give to you in the presence of these witnesses

My promise to stay by your side,

In sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow,

As well as through the good times and the bad.

I promise to love you without reservation,

Comfort you in times of distress

Encourage you to achieve all of your goals,

Laugh with you and cry with you,

Grow with you in mind and spirit

Always be open and honest with you,

And cherish you for as long as we both shall live

Bride, please repeat after me

I, _____, take you _____, to be my wedded husband

EXCHANGING OF THE RINGS

Having this love in your hearts, you have chosen to seal your vows by exchanging rings.

From the earliest times, the circle has been a sign of completeness. The rings that you have chosen to wear have neither beginning nor end, much like your love for one another. They are a symbol of the words that you speak today. May these rings be from this day forward, your most treasured adornment, and may the love they symbolize, be your most precious possession. As you wear these rings, may they be constant reminders of these glad promises you are making today.

_____, take this ring, place it on _____’s finger and repeat after me.

I give you this ring as a symbol

of my love and faithfulness to you.

_____, take this ring, place it on _____’s finger and repeat after me.

_____ and _____ from this moment forward you will never be alone. You will carry with you the love of another person, giving you a completeness and renewed lightness. May your life together be immersed in love and excitement. May you strive to enrich each other in every possible way. And may you work to bring the peace you find to this world.

Having pledged their fidelity to one another, to love, honor and cherish one another in the presence of this gathering and by the authority vested in me by the constitution and the laws of this state, it is my honor to now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss the bride.

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my honor to be the first to introduce you to: Mr. and Mrs. _____________.

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3. Super Simple (and Short) Civil Ceremony I found this one on Snippet and Ink . WELCOME REMARKS:

Welcome, family, friends and loved ones. We are gathered here today,  surrounded by the beauty of creation and nurtured by the sights and sounds of nature to  celebrate the wedding of _____ and _____.

You have come here from near and from far away  to share in this commitment now they make to one another, to offer your love and support to  their union, and to allow ______ and ______ to start their married life together surrounded by the  people dearest and most important to them.

_____ and _____ thank you for your presence here today. They ask for your blessing,  encouragement and lifelong support, for their marriage and life shared together. They also remember  other loved ones who cannot be here to share this moment.

_____ and ____, marriage is the promise between two people who love each other, who trust that love, who honor one another as individuals in that togetherness, and who wish to spend  the rest of their lives together. It enables the two separate souls to share their desires,  longings, dreams, and memories, their joys and sorrows, and to help each other through all u ncertainties of life.

A strong marriage also nurtures each of you as separate individuals and allows you to maintain your unique identity and grow in your own way through the years  ahead. It is a safe haven for each of you to become your best self.

You are adding to your life not only the affection of each other, but also the companionship  and blessing of a deep trust. You are agreeing to share strength, responsibilities and love. It takes more than love to make this relationship work.

It takes trust, to know in your  hearts that you want only the best for each other. It takes dedication, to stay open to one  another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so. And it takes faith, to go forward  together without knowing what the future holds for you both.

DECLARATION OF INTENT AND SHARING OF VOWS

_________ and _________, please join hands, look at one another now and remember this moment in

Officiant: Groom, do you take Bride to be your wife? I do.

Officiant: Bride, do you take Groom to be your husband? I do.

Officiant: _____, please take _____’s hand and repeat after me.

________, I take you as you are/ loving who you are / I promise from this day forward/ To be grateful for our love and our life/ To be generous with my time, my energy and my affection/ To be patient with you and with myself/ To fill our life with adventure and our home with laughter/ To inspire you to grow as an individual / To love you completely/ These things I pledge to you

_____, I take you as you are,/ loving who you are/ I promise from this day forward/ To be grateful for our love and our life/ To be generous with my time, my energy and my affection/ To be patient with you and with myself/ To fill our life with adventure and our home with laughter/ To encourage you to grow as an individual / To love you completely/ These things I pledge to you

GIVING OF RINGS

Officiant: Please present the rings

Your wedding ring is a symbol of your promise to one another. The ring, an unbroken, never ending circle, is a symbol of committed, unending love.

_____, as you place this ring on Bride‘s finger, repeat these words after me:

This ring symbolizes my love for you/ and the commitments we made today

_____, as you place this ring on Groom‘s finger, repeat these words after me:

CONCLUSION & PRONOUNCEMENT

______ and _____, you have come here today of your own free will and in the presence of family and friends, have declared your love and commitment to each other. You have given and received a ring as a symbol of your promises. By the power of your love and commitment to each other, and by the power vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife.

You may now share your first kiss as husband and wife.

Congratulations. Friends and family, I now present to you the newly married couple. Let’s hear it for ‘em!

4. A Traditional Religious Ceremony Found on A Paper Proposal OPENING PRAYER

We are gathered here in the presence of God, family and friends to unite _____ and _____ in holy matrimony. Marriage is an honorable estate, and is therefore not to be entered into lightly, but reverently, advisedly, soberly and with God’s blessing. Today, they will receive God’s greatest gift; another person to share with, grow with, change with, be joyful with and to stand with as one when trials and tribulations enter their lives. It is fitting, therefore, that we should on this occasion begin by asking for God’s blessing on this marriage. Let us pray.

Heavenly Father, we gather to celebrate your gift of love, and its presence among us. We rejoice that these two people have chosen to commit themselves to a life of loving faithfulness to one another. We praise you, Lord, for the ways you have touched our lives with loving relationships such as _____ and _____’s, and we give thanks for the special love and friendship you have put in their hearts. Renew within us an affectionate and loving spirit. Enrich our lives with the gracious gift of your love so that we may embrace others with that same love. May our participation in this celebration of love and commitment, give to us a new joy and responsiveness to the relationships that we cherish. In your loving arms we pray, Amen.

You may all be seated.

DEFINITION OF COMMITMENT 

Marriage is a joyous occasion. It is connected in our thoughts with the charm of love, the warmth of home, and with all that is pleasant, as being one of the most important events of our lives. Its sacredness and unity is the most significant and binding covenant known in human relations.

______ and _____, let me charge you both to remember that your future happiness is to be in mutual consideration, patience, kindness, confidence and affection. It is the duty of each of you to find your greatest joy in the company of the other; to remember that your love pledged today must remain undivided for a lifetime.

It is your duty, _____, to be to _____, a considerate, tender, faithful, and loving husband: to support, guide and cherish her in prosperity and trouble; to thoughtfully and carefully enlarge the place she holds in your life; to constantly show to her the tokens of your affection, to shelter her from danger, and to love her with an unchangeable love.

It is your duty, _____, to be to _____, a considerate, tender, faithful, and loving wife; to comfort, guide and cherish him in prosperity and trouble; to give to him the unfailing evidences of your affection; to continue making the place he holds in your heart, broader and deeper; to support him, value him and work with him to make your marriage the very best that it can be.

I call your attention to the seriousness of the decision which you have made and the covenant you are about to declare before God. The vows you are about to take are not to be taken without careful thought, for in them you are committing yourselves exclusively to one another for as long as you both shall live.

WEDDING VOWS

If you are ready to assume the obligations and duties before God, as I have defined them, you will unite your hands and pledge your love and your lives to each other.

Groom, repeat after me.

I ____, take you, _____, to be my lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, for as long as we both shall live. This is my solemn vow.

Now Bride, please repeat after me.

I _____, take you, _____, to be my husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, for as long as we both shall live. This is my solemn vow.

EXCHANGE OF RINGS

You will now exchange rings as a symbol of the lifelong commitment and abiding love which you as husband and wife have promised to each other.

Groom, please place the ring on _____’s finger, and repeat after me.

I give you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness.

And Bride, please place the ring on _____’s finger and repeat after me.

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CLOSING PRAYER

Eternal God, help _____ and _____ to fulfill the promises they have made here today and to reflect your steadfast love in their commitment to each other. Give them kindness and patience, affection and understanding, happiness and contentment. May their family and friends continue to support them in difficult days, so that their love for each other may continue to grow as long as they both shall live.

Let us all pray.

Our Father, who art in heaven,

Hallowed be thy name,

Thy kingdom come,

Thy will be done,

On Earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread,

And forgive us our trespasses,

As we forgive those who trespass against us,

And lead us not into temptation,

but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the kingdom,

And the power, and the glory,

Forever and ever.

_____ and _____, having witnessed your vows for marriage before God and all who are assembled here, by the authority invested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may now kiss the bride!

It is my pleasure to introduce to you for the first time…

5. A Civil Ceremony – Short and Powerful Found at Wedding Bee WELCOME AND INTRODUCTION

Welcome! Good afternoon, family and friends.  We have come here today to celebrate the wedding  of ______ and ______.  On behalf of the bride and groom, thank you for joining us.   By your presence, you celebrate with them the love they have discovered in each other,  and you support their decision to commit themselves to a lifelong relationship.

Marriage is a bond to be entered into only after considerable thought and reflection.  By making this commitment today, ______ and ______’s relationship will become stronger, better, and deeper.

Today, _____ and _____ demonstrate their devotion to each other by dedicating themselves to a life together and they show their respect for each other.  By setting forth to honor the vows they have created today, their lives, which began on separate paths, will be joined as one.

ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF FAMILY & FRIENDS

Today represents not only the joining of ______ and ______ but also the joining of their families and friends.

_______ and ______ would like to recognize their parents on this occasion.  They offer their profound gratitude for all the love and care their parents showed in raising them.  The unconditional gifts of love and support that you have continually offered have inspired them to become who they are today.  Without you, this day would not be possible.

_____ have also asked that we take a moment to honor those loved ones who are not with us today

[Names of those acknowledged here]

MARRIAGE ADDRESS

Deep abiding affection, the magical and compelling shared impulse that makes us seek each others’ company, is among the greatest gifts of the human experience.

Any of us who has been fortunate enough to find and express the kind of loving devotion that we are celebrating here today knows that it is an awesome and beautiful thing.

At this time, I would like to share 3 suggestions with the both of you:

My first suggestion is this:

Be constantly grateful for this precious person who has chosen to make a life with you.

My second suggestion is this:

Be generous with compliments.  Be attentive and helpful. The world can be a tough place

and any of us can be subject to rough handling.  Each of you can, by your tenderness toward each other,

kind words and thoughtful actions, make your marriage and your home an uplifting refuge.

Last, but perhaps most importantly:

Make truth the unfailing bedrock of your lives together. A happy, loving marriage is built on trust and respect. That trust and respect can only be sustained if you are both deeply committed to always being open and truthful in every exchange no matter how small.

My hope for you is this:

That you have many long years to delight in each other’s company, to feel gratitude for your great fortune in having found each other.

To a make home together that is at once sheltering and welcoming, to each do meaningful, productive work at home and in the world and to love and be loved by the friends and family who have come here today to support you

MARRIAGE STATEMENT OF INTENT/CONSENT

_______ and ______, do you, present yourselves willingly and of your own accord to be joined in marriage? 

Then please turn to each other and share your vows.

Today I promise you/that though the world may change/

and though we may change with it/

I will always love you/always treasure you/and will share all that I am with you/

I am proud, from this day forward/to be called your wife/husband

RING EXCHANGE

For thousands of years, men and women have exchanged rings as a token of their vows.

Let these rings be a sign that your love has a past, a present, and a future.

______, take _____’s ring and place it on her finger and repeat after me:

I give you this ring/as a sign that I choose you/

To be my wife/my partner/and my best friend/to the end of my days.

The love already shared by your hearts has been strengthened by the vows you have taken and the rings you have now exchanged.

PRONOUNCEMENT

______ and ______, we have heard your promise to share your lives in marriage.   In the honesty and sincerity of what you have said and done here today, a nd in accordance with the laws of the state of __________i t is my honor and delight to declare you henceforth t o be husband and wife.

You may seal your vows with a kiss.

6. A Christian Wedding Ceremony – Scriptural  

From a Wedding Ceremony to Remember

WELCOME AND INTRODUCTION

We welcome all of you here today as we have gathered together in the presence of God and these witnesses to join _____ and ______ in holy matrimony.

Marriage is a gift from God, given to us so that we might experience the joys of unconditional love with a lifelong partner. God designed marriage to be an intimate relationship between a man and a woman.

______ and ______, because your deep love for each other comes from God above, this is a sacred moment, and it is with great reverence that I now ask you to declare your intent.

______, do you take _____ to be your wedded wife, to live together  after God’s ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony?   Do you promise to love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, remain faithful to her as long as you both shall live?

And ______, do you take _____ to be your wedded husband, to live  together after God’s ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony?

Do you promise to love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, remain faithful to him as long as you both shall live?

Who gives _____ to be married to ______?

(The Escort shall say): Her Mother and I or I do or We do or Her family or other.

Today is the beginning of a new life together for you. It marks the commencement of new relationships to your families, your friends, and certainly to each other. You have invited these special guests to share in one of life’s greatest moments as they give recognition to the worth and beauty of your love and add their best wishes to the words that shall unite you today as husband and wife.

God knew your needs when He brought you together. He knew exactly what you needed to make you complete. And now, He wants you to commit yourselves to each other as the one He has chosen to complete you.

Through the ages, man has tried to define “love.” Poems, songs, and books all have been written trying to describe this little four letter word. But the best description I have found comes from God Himself, since He is the Author of love. In His Word in First Corinthians, Chapter 13.  It describes the kind of love that must characterize your lives if you are to live in joy and harmony and honor with each other, and also before God and your fellow man.

Listen to what it says:

CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 13 INSERTED HERE

______, I believe you are saying to all of us today that you are committing yourself to this  woman only, moving toward her in a more open and intimate way, giving yourself to care for her, and promising to love her as she needs to be loved.

And ______, I believe you are saying to us that you are committing yourself to this man only, moving toward him with increasing openness, tenderness, and respect, giving yourself to him, and trusting him as the head of your home, and, through him, listening to God’s plan for your life together.

And so, (Groom) , if you will love (Bride) as Christ loves the church, and

(Bride), if you will respond to (Groom) as unto the Lord,

your companionship as husband and wife will blossom into a physical, emotional, and spiritual closeness beyond which nothing can compare.

I, ______, take thee, ______, / to be my wedded wife, / to have

and to hold / from this day forward, / for better, for worse, / for richer, for poorer, / in sickness and in

health, / to love and to cherish, / till death do us part. / This is my solemn vow.

I, ______, take thee, _____, / to be my wedded husband, / to have and to hold / from this day forward, / for better, for worse, / for richer, for poorer, / in sickness and in health, / to love and to cherish, / till death do us part. / This is my solemn vow.

EXCHANGE OF THE RINGS

The wedding ring serves as a symbol of the promises you have just spoken. It is the outward and visible sign of an inward and invisible love that binds your two hearts together. The wedding ring also is a symbol of what God is. He is without beginning and without end—He is eternal.

As you can see, the ring is without beginning and without end. So I believe this exchange of rings not only reminds us of the unending love you have for each other, but also reflects the eternal love God has for each of you.

May I have the token of Groom’s love for ______?

This ring I give in token and pledge / as a sign of my love and devotion. / With this ring, I thee wed.

May I have the token of Bride’s love for ______?

WEDDING PRAYER/BLESSING

Our Heavenly Father, we ask Your blessing upon these two lives and the home they are establishing today. May the love they have for each other grow deeper and stronger because of their love for You.

Lord, You guided them to each other, now guide them in this new journey as husband and wife. As they walk down this path, light their way so they may keep their eyes focused on Your will, their hands holding fast to Your truth, their feet firmly planted in Your Word, and their hearts bound together by Your love. This we pray in Your name. Amen.

_____ and _____, since you have consented together in holy  matrimony, and have pledged yourselves to each other by your solemn vows and by the giving of rings, and have declared your commitment of love before God and these witnesses, I now pronounce you husband and wife in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Those whom God hath joined together, let no man separate.

_____, you may kiss your Bride.

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my privilege to introduce to you for the very first time, Mr. and Mrs. __________.

7. Playful Civil Ceremony

Brought to you by Miss Fancy Pants

Welcome! _____ and _____ have brought us together here for an occasion of great joy and a cause for great celebration. Having found each other, they have built the kind of relationship that will serve them well as the foundation for their marriage. They have chosen each one of you to be here with them to witness their wedding vows as they join together as husband and wife.

Marriage is a bold step into an unknown future. It is risking who we are for the sake of who we can be. In marriage, two lives are intimately shared; and the blending of the two must not diminish either one. Rather, it should enhance the individuality of each partner.

Each of us knows that a marriage is not created by a law or a ceremony; rather it occurs in the hearts of two human beings. It grows out of loving, caring, and sharing ourselves with another. This ceremony is not magic, it will not create a relationship that does not already exist and has not already been celebrated in all the commitments _____ and _____ have made to each other, both large and small, in the days since they first met and recognized their connection to one another.

So, in witnessing this ceremony today, we are observing only an outward sign of an inward union that already exists between _____ and _____. This ceremony is a symbol of how far they have come together and a symbol of the promise that they will make to each other to continue to live their lives together and to love each other solely and above all others.

There are only two official witnesses at a wedding but each and every person here today will witness the words that they will speak to one another and the vows that they will make. You should take good care to remember these words; for a marriage needs the help of a community, of friends and family who will be there when needed and will do all that they can during hard times to stand by _____ and _____ and offer their support to them and the new family that they create today. May you always do all within your power to support the union that will be made here today and to nurture the bond between these two people whom you love.

If the old fairy-tale ending “and they lived happily ever after….” is taken to mean “They felt for the next fifty years exactly as they felt the day before they were married,” then it says what probably never was nor ever would be true, and would be highly undesirable if it were. Who could bear to live in that excitement for even five years? What would become of your work, your appetite, your sleep, and your friendships? But, of course, ceasing to be “in love” need not mean ceasing to love.

Love in this second sense-love as distinct from “being in love” and it is not merely a feeling. Love is a deep unity, maintained by the will and deliberately strengthened by habit; reinforced by the grace which both partners receive from God. They can have this love for each other even at those moments when they do not like each other; as you love yourself even when you do not like yourself. They can retain this love even when each could easily allow themselves to be “in love” with someone else. “Being in love” first moved them to promise fidelity but this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. It is on this love that the engine of marriage is run: being in love was the explosion that started it.

DECLARATION OF INTENT

A successful marriage is not something that just happens. It takes work, it takes patience, and it takes time. It takes a commitment from both of you… a commitment to do whatever it takes to make your relationship thrive and not just simply survive.

_____, will you take _____to be your lawfully wedded wife and travel the rest of life’s road with her? Will you love her, laugh with her, comfort her, honor and protect her, and forsaking all others, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?

_____, will you take _____ to be your lawfully wedded Husband and travel the rest of life’s road with him? Will you love him, laugh with him, comfort him, honor and protect him, and forsaking all others, be faithful to him as long as you both shall live?

EXCHANGE OF VOWS

_____ and _____, the symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things we’ve promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word.” Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this – is my husband, this – is my wife.

I, _____, choose you, _____ In the presence of our friends and families, To be my wife/husband and partner From this day forward; To love you, To be a comfort and safe haven in your life, To hold you close, To listen deeply when you speak, To uphold you with my strength, To weigh the effects of the words I speak And the things I do, To never take you for granted, And to always give thanks For your presence in my life.

This is the point in the ceremony when people talk about the wedding bands being a perfect circle, having no beginning and no end. But we all know that these rings have a beginning. Rock is dug up from the earth. Metals are liquefied in a furnace at a thousand degrees. The hot metal is forged, cooled, and then painstakingly polished. Something beautiful made from raw elements.

Love is like that. It comes from humble beginnings, made by imperfect beings. It is the process of making something beautiful where there was once nothing at all.

The promises which you have spoken to each other today are inscribed forever in your minds, in your hearts. But words are fleeting so let these rings serve as a reminder of the feelings you have in your hearts at this very moment. 

Now, Repeat after me:

Groom (and then Bride), with this ring I am giving you my promise/to always love you/ cherish you/honor you and comfort you. I promise that I will love you/and keep my heart open to you/all the days of my life.

_____ and _____, n o one but you can declare yourselves married. You have begun it here today in speaking your vows before your family and friends and you will do it again in the days and years to come, standing by each other, sharing all that is sweet and bitter in life. Each tender act, each loving word will be the declaration of what was made here today.

Therefore, it is my joyful responsibility to officially acknowledge your union as “Husband and Wife”. You may now seal your marriage with a kiss.

Ladies and Gentlemen, it is my privilege to present to you for the very first time as husband and wife, ____________.

All of the above wedding ceremonies have been tried and tested in the real world at some of the most beautiful weddings ever witnessed. 

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This short non-religious wedding ceremony script was written by American Marriage Ministries to serve as a starting point for your own wedding ceremony. It is short but has an expanded heartfelt invocation for couples that want a quick wedding ceremony packed with extra good feels. We encourage you to use this script as is or build on this script for a more personalized ceremony for the couple.

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• Guests are Seated.

officiant to the reception

"Dear friends and family, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]. In the years that they have been together, their love for each other has grown, turning them into the couple you see before you. Now, they are ready to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife.

A true marriage begins well before the wedding day, and the efforts of marriage continue well beyond the ceremony. A brief moment in time and the stroke of the pen are all that is required to create the legal bond of marriage, but it takes a lifetime of love, commitment, and compromise to make marriage durable and everlasting.

Today you declare your commitment to each other before family and friends."

DECLARATION OF INTENT

OFFICIANT TO PARTNER A

"Do you [PARTNER A], take [PARTNER B] to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?"

• PARTNER A RESPONDS WITH AN AFFIRMATION.

OFFICIANT TO PARTNER B "Do you [PARTNER B], take [PARTNER A] to be your Husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part?"

• PARTNER b RESPONDS WITH AN AFFIRMATION.

RINGS EXCHANGE

PARTNER A TO PARTNER B

"[PARTNER B], I give you this ring as a symbol of my love."

• PARTNER A PLACES THE RING ON PARTNER B'S FINGER.

PARTNER B TO PARTNER A

"[PARTNER A], I give you this ring as a symbol of my love."

• PARTNER B PLACES THE RING ON PARTNER A'S FINGER.

PRONOUNCEMENT

OFFICIANT TO THE RECEPTION

"By the power vested in me by the State of [WEDDING STATE], I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may kiss your bride. Family and Friends I present to you for the first time [PARTNER A] and [PARTNER B]!"

RECESSIONAL

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Introduction

Officiant (to congregation) :.

Friends and family, we are gathered here today to celebrate the joining of _______________ and _______________ in marriage. Thank you for coming to witness their declaration of love for each other with this life-long commitment.

The joining of two people in marriage is a historic tradition binding a couple together with their love and devotion to each other. The vows they make today represent this commitment to their partner and serve as the foundation of their union.

As we reflect on the love these two people share for each other, I wish to share a quote from the ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu:

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.

Despite this quote originating over 2000 years ago, its message still resonates today as the love between _______________ and _______________ gives them the strength and courage to face life's challenges head on, hand-in-hand, for years to come.

I now ask _______________ and _______________ to officially make their commitment to this marriage.

Declaration of Intent

Officiant (to _______________) :.

Do you, _______________ take _______________ to be your husband/wife/partner ? To love and cherish them as long as you live?

_______________: I do.

And do you, _______________ take _______________ to be your husband/wife/partner ? To love and cherish them as long as you live?

Vow/Ring Exchange

The rings you exchange today are the physical embodiment of the love you share. They represent the commitment made today and the devotion of yourself to your partner as a continuous, unending band.

Whenever you look at your rings, remember the feelings you share on this day and let the love and devotion you have for each other continue to fill each day of your marriage.

And now I ask the couple to repeat after me as they exchange their rings..

Please take this ring as a token of my love for you above all others. I promise to respect and support you wholeheartedly through whatever challenges life may bring. With this ring I am yours.

(message is repeated)

Closing Statement

Marriage is a beautiful commitment you make to one another as you devote yourself fully and freely to your partner. Remember to make your partner feel loved and appreciated with each new day of your union. Cherish the special feeling of joy you bring each other, and your marriage will evolve into an endless circle of love and support.

The Pronouncement

It is my honor to now officially introduce Mr./Mrs./Mx. and Mr./Mrs./Mx. _______________. You may now seal your union with your first kiss as a married couple!

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Be on the same page.

Whether you and your partner decide to craft the ceremony yourselves or entrust the script to the officiant, the key is to ensure a shared vision. The ceremony is a celebration of your love, so it should genuinely mirror your preferences.Understanding the couple as well as the essence of their relationship, there is a commitment to crafting a ceremony that authentically captures their unique connection. Before drafting a sample script, sit down and listen to each other's desires.

DON’T WING THE VOWS.

Not every couple wants to exchange handwritten vows, and that’s okay!! Personalized vows certainly don’t supersede more traditional vows. That said, if you do want to write your own vows , it’s important that you and your fiancé both dedicate sufficient time to perfecting your prose. You’ll be making promises to each other, reminiscing on the most epic and monumental moments of your relationship (as much as you wish to share), and committing to a lifetime together, so your words should be reasonably rehearsed. Know that your vows are truly for you both, so you don’t need to feel pressure to appeal to any of your guests.

Yet, being on the same page with your officiant, you should have a game plan about how much time should be spent on each portion of your ceremony - and together, you’ll agree on an appropriate amount of time for your vow exchange.

Programs do have a purpose.

We’ll say it again: weddings do have a pretty familiar format, from one to another, in that they all usually have a processional, a welcome, readings or an anecdote/address/sermon of sorts, vows, exchange of rings, pronouncement, first kiss, and recessional. But apart from that, they can be as bespoke and tailor-made as possible. That’s why wedding programs aren’t just for show, they serve a purpose, especially if a bride and groom are having a religious ceremony or one that might be extraordinarily unique.

Providing guests with something to reference while they sit for the ceremony is super helpful - 1) to make guests feel included in the day and 2) to help them understand what is taking place during the wedding ceremony. I won’t lie, I love programs, and I think they’re the perfect place for couples to share messages with their guests and let them in on anything that’s particularly meaningful to them or their love story. Of course, creating their own wedding website can help with that, too!

Okay, here are some sample wedding ceremony scripts for your perusal! But before we jump in, just one really important thing for you to consider....

Only invite peple to the wedding, who you know will come to your wedding ceremony.

That’s like our most critical piece of advice, especially when you’re mulling over your biggest budget killer. People who don’t come to your ceremony (without a good reason, of course), don’t deserve to party with you. And yes, it’ll happen. Trust us when we say that, because there will be people who you’ll notice aren’t there. And those fine individuals aren’t actually fine, they suck👎. The wedding ceremony is the most important part of your big day and your happily-ever-after that follows, so guests should be there for it all .

If only there was a way to make it grossly clear that you expect your guests to be present for EVERY part of your wedding day - not just for the dance floor and open bar.... You could; however, make your own custom invitations (we've got a whole bunch of FREE printables ) and include whatever little FYIs... if you're so inclined.

short, sweet and funny wedding ceremony script

Welcome. Welcome. Welcome.

Officiant: Good afternoon, lovely folks! We're gathered here on this spectacular day to witness the union of [NAME] and [NAME]. You all look fabulous, and the weather's not too shabby either. So, let's dive into the good stuff!

[NAME] and [NAME], today is not just about pretty invitations and a stunning venue. It's about the wild ride you've been on since you first crossed paths. Remember the time when you first met? You figured out each other's quirks, learned how to make each other laugh, and discovered the art of supporting one another through life's less-than-simple moments. You even managed to blend your families, friends, and communities into a new village, filled with warmth and enthusiasm. And guess what? Today, you're the mayors of that love-filled village.

Marriages come with their fair share of challenges, but today is a celebration of the love that has already conquered many obstacles. So, let's keep this party rolling!

Officiant: As part of today's festivities, [NAME] has enlisted the poetic talents of [NAME] for an original poem. Brace yourselves for some poetic magic.

(Poem Reading to proceed) Thank you [NAME] for that Poem

Wedding Vows.

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME], hold those hands tight and repeat after me:

Couple: [NAME], I solemnly promise/ to spice up our days with laughter and beauty,/ to cheer for your victories/ and inspire you in times of doubt./ I vow to be your partner, confidant, and biggest fan,/ loving you for all the days of my life.

(Officiant turns to the other partner and repeats the vows)

Officiant: So, [NAME] and [NAME], are you both up for this adventure called marriage? Shout out a hearty "We do!"

(Couple says “We do!”)

Officiant: And to everyone here, are you ready to support this dynamic duo, remind them of their vows, and showcase love and family at its finest? Let me hear you scream, "We do!"

(Crowd says “We do!”)

Exchange of Rings.

Officiant: Behold the rings, symbols of life's crazy, unbreakable circle and the love that binds you. Slip those beauties onto each other's fingers and repeat after me.

Couple: I give you this ring/ a reminder of today,/ when we declared that our love conquers all./ May it continue to unite, inspire, and celebrate us/ throughout our adventure together.

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME], with immense joy, I declare you partners in crime, officially married for the first time! Now, seal the deal with a smooch and let the celebrations commence! Cheers!

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PERSONAL FRIEND AS OFFICIANT WEDDING CEREMONY SCRIPT

Officiant: Please be seated.

First, I’d like to begin by welcoming everyone and thanking each and every one of you for being here on this most happy of days. It’s no accident that each of you are here today, and each of you were invited to be here because you represent someone important in the individual and collective lives of NAME and NAME.

I truly can’t think of a better venue than _________ [“paradise” for a destination wedding, “this beautiful church” for a more religious affair, etc.] for an occasion that I know is not only monumental for the wedded-couple-to-be, but for all of us who are lucky to know and love them as individuals; but even more so as a perfect pairing.

The most remarkable moment in life is when you meet the person who makes you feel complete. The person who makes the world a beautiful and magical place. The person with whom you share a bond so special that it transcends normal relationships and becomes something so pure and so wonderful, that you can’t imagine spending another day of your life without them. For NAME, that happened about 20 years ago when s/he met me and we became best friends [add some humor if your officiant is a friend]. But about X years ago s/he met NAME, who is pretty wonderful, too. I know how deeply these two care for and love one another, and I feel privileged to be here today among all of you as a witness of their commitment to a lifetime of love for one another.

I think I’ve had the good fortune to meet most of you here today at some point or another, but for those of you whom I haven’t met, my name is [short biographical info about how the officiant knows the couple].

The Love Story.

Officiant: Now, NAME and NAME have asked that I keep this speech short, classy, and family-friendly, and politely asked me to leave out stories that are unflattering to either of them. So I’ve had to redline stories about previous flings...drugs or alcohol...encounters with the police...but I do feel comfortable saying, “I told you so.” Which is exactly what I said when I learned that NAME and NAME’s relationship was becoming truly serious.

As a third-party spectator to their developing love, it was extremely clear that the two of them represent a perfect pairing because each of them complements the other so well. They balance one another, and while each of them are tremendous individuals on their own, together they are even better. And being better together, as a team, a unit, and partners in crime, is what has been many years in the making and ultimately leads us to being here today, witnessing their commitment to one another in front of those they love most.

I wish I could tell you a single story about NAME and NAME that summarizes their relationship and how they enrich each other’s lives, and the lives of each of us, but the truth is there isn’t one single event that is a good encapsulation of what they mean to me, to each other, and to all of us. But what I do know is that both of them care deeply and passionately for each other; they protect each other; they make each other laugh and think outside themselves; that time magically seems to both fly and slow down when they’re together. They help each other in ways that are obvious and unnoticed, but always appreciated.

I also know that it’s not just anyone with whom you can have communication with simply a look, or remember the weirdest names of each other’s Lyft drivers, or surprise each other with reservations at a restaurant you’ve been eyeing for years, or say “I’m sorry” every time it’s warranted (...eventually). They do that for and with each other.

But it’s also my personal experiences with NAME and NAME that highlight the quality of their love. It doesn’t matter if I’m with them in person, or simply in a bizarre group text with them—when I’m engaging with NAME and NAME, I am always enjoying myself. And I am certain that that’s part of what makes them so special to each of us: how happy and contented we feel when we are with them. And what I wish for them on their wedding day is that their lifetime together as a team is one of complete contentment; full of those moments that they wish would never end, and that they continue to make one another smile and laugh as they make each of us do.

So, without further ado…

Dearly beloved and honored guests:

We are gathered together here to join NAME and NAME in the union of marriage.

This contract is not to be entered into lightly, but thoughtfully and seriously, and with a deep realization of its obligations and responsibilities.

The grooms/brides/bride and groom have each prepared vows that they will read now.

[Exchanging of vows]

Officiant: And now:

NAME, do you take NAME to be your husband/wife?

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish, and protect him/her, forsaking all others, and holding only unto him/her forevermore?

And NAME, do you take NAME to be your husband/wife?

Officiant: NAME and NAME will now exchange rings as a symbol of love and commitment to each other. Rings are a precious metal; they are also made precious by you wearing them. Your wedding rings are special; they enhance who you are. They mark the beginning of your long journey together. Your wedding ring is a circle—a symbol of love never ending. It is the seal of the vows you have just taken to love each other without end.

NAME, please place the ring on NAME’s left hand and repeat after me:

As a sign of my love

[“As a sign of my love”]

That I have chosen you

[That I have chosen you”]

Above all else

[“Above all else”]

With this ring, I thee wed.

[“With this ring, I thee wed.”]

And NAME, please place the ring on NAME’s left hand and repeat after me:

The Good Wishes.

Officiant: To make your relationship work will take love. Continue to date each other. Take time to show each other that your love and marriage grows stronger with time.

It will take trust to know that in your hearts, you truly want what is best for each other.

It will take dedication to stay open to one another—and to learn and grow together.

It will take loyalty to go forward together, without knowing exactly what the future brings.

And it will take commitment to hold true to the journey you have both pledged today.

The Declaration of Marriage / "The Kiss"

Officiant: And now by the power vested in me by _______________, it is my honor and delight to declare you married. Go forth and live each day to the fullest. You may seal this declaration with a kiss.

I am so pleased to present the newlyweds, NAMES.

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Traditional Wedding Ceremony Script

Officiant: Welcome, family, friends and loved ones. We gather here today to celebrate the wedding of NAME and NAME. You have come here to share in this formal commitment they make to one another, to offer your love and support to this union, and to allow NAME and NAME to start their married life together surrounded by the people dearest and most important to them.So welcome to one and all, who have traveled from near and far. NAME and NAME thank you for your presence here today and now ask for your blessing, encouragement, and lifelong support, for their decision to be married.

Definition of Marriage.

Officiant: Marriage is perhaps the greatest and most challenging adventure of human relationships. No ceremony can create your marriage; only you can do that—through love and patience; through dedication and perseverance; through talking and listening, helping and supporting and believing in each other; through tenderness and laughter; through learning to forgive, learning to appreciate your differences, and by learning to make the important things matter, and to let go of the rest. What this ceremony can do is to witness and affirm the choice you make to stand together as lifemates and partners.

Declaration of Intent.

Officiant: Will you, NAME, take this woman to be your wedded wife?

Groom: I will

Officiant: Will you, NAME, take this man to be your wedded husband?

Bride: I will

Officiant: In the spirit of the importance of strong friendships to a marriage, NAME and NAME have asked two friends to read selections about love that especially resonate with them.1st READING, followed by 2nd READING.

Support of Community.

Officiant: Two people in love do not live in isolation. Their love is a source of strength with which they may nourish not only each other but also the world around them. And in turn, we, their community of friends and family, have a responsibility to this couple. By our steadfast care, respect, and love, we can support their marriage and the new family they are creating today.

Officiant: Will everyone please rise. Will you who are present here today, surround NAME and NAME in love, offering them the joys of your friendship, and supporting them in their marriage?

All: We will

Officiant: You may be seated.

Officiant: We've come to the point of your ceremony where you're going to say your vows to one another. But before you do that, I ask you to remember that love—which is rooted in faith, trust, and acceptance— will be the foundation of an abiding and deepening relationship. No other ties are more tender, no other vows more sacred than those you now assume. If you are able to keep the vows you take here today, not because of any religious or civic law, but out of a desire to love and be loved by another person fully, without limitation, then your life will have joy and the home you establish will be a place in which you both will find the direction of your growth, your freedom, and your responsibility. Please now read the vows you have written for each other.

Bride and Groom: I NAME/NAME, take you, NAME/NAME to be my husband/wife, my constant friend and partner, and my love. I will work to create a bond of honesty, respect, and trust; one that withstands the tides of time and change, and grows along with us. I vow to honor and respect you for all that you are and will become, taking pride in who we are, both separately and together.I promise to challenge you and to accept challenges from you. I will join with you and our community in an ongoing struggle to create a world we all want to live in, where love and friendship will be recognized and celebrated in all their many forms. Our home will be a sanctuary and a respite for us and for those whom we cherish. Above all, I will give you my love freely and unconditionally. I pledge this to you from the bottom of my heart, for all the days of our lives.

Officiant: May I have the rings, please?

Please repeat after me: I give you this ring, as a daily reminder of my love for you.

Officiant: By the power of your love and commitment, and the power vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife! You may kiss each other!

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Modern Wedding Ceremony Script

Officiant: Good afternoon. NAME, NAME and I would like to welcome everyone on this gorgeous day. It’s because of all of you—because of this strong community—[NAME] and [NAME]’s relationship has strengthened and grown and led them to this very moment. Thank you for being here, now let’s begin.

[NAME] and [NAME], what you’ve accomplished here today is no small feat. Your journey began way before you sent out the invitations, chose this beautiful venue or even decided to spend the rest of your lives together.

Your journey began the moment you first met. You took the time to learn what makes the other person smile, what makes them laugh and how to best support them when life is less than simple. You welcomed each other’s families, communities and lifelong friends, and joined them together with warmth and enthusiasm. You built a new village with your love, and have worked every day to support this village as it changes and grows.

Marriages bring hard days, just as they bring beautiful ones. This day is a reminder of what your love has already accomplished, and the amazing possibilities of what it can continue to accomplish and overcome in the many, many years ahead of you.

Officiant: As our reading today, [NAME] has asked his/her cousin to perform an original poem to honor their vows.

(Reading to proceed)

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME], please take each other’s hands and repeat after me:

Couple: [NAME], I swear to you/ that I will dedicate my life from this day forward/ to filling our days with beauty and laughter./ I will celebrate your spirit and all of your accomplishments/ work to inspire you/ and be here to remind you of your beauty and strength./ I take you today as my partner/ my confidant/ my other half/ and I will love you for the rest of my life.

(Officiant turns to other partner and repeats the vows)

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME], do you take one another as partners, form this day forward, as husband and wife/husband and husband/wife and wife? Please yell a hearty “We do!”

Officiant: And to everyone here, do you promise to stand by this couple, to remind them of their vows, and to act as an example of love and family? Please yell a hearty “We do!”

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME] have chosen these rings to represent the unbreakable circle of life and love. Please place them on each other’s ring fingers and repeat after me.

Couple: I give you this ring/ to remind you of this day/ when in front of our closest community/ we vowed that our love can overcome all things/ that our love unites, inspires and celebrates/ and will continue do so for the rest of our lives.

Officiant: [NAME] and [NAME], it is with such joy that I now send you out into the world to spread the beautiful light that you share with those around you. By the power vested in me, I now, for the first time, pronounce you married. Now kiss and go celebrate! Prepared by Shutterfly editors

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Wedding Officiant Speeches Ideas + Free Templates

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Wedding officiant speeches could be a bit tough to put together, especially if the officiant is green at the ears. This poses the issue of anxiety, trying to over-impress, or flopping totally.

Well, there is no one size fits all wedding minister speeches, because you tailor your speech according to wedding style. The kind of relationship you have with the couple also matters in the structure of your speech.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Does the officiant introduce themselves.

The wedding officiant does not necessarily have to introduce themselves as everyone would know who they are and why they are there. They could start with a few lines such as: ‘Welcome everyone and thank you for being here to witness the union of (bride) and (bride).’

How does the officiant introduce wedding vows?

There is no official line for introducing the wedding vows, but a generic and one goes like this: ‘We have come to the point of your ceremony where you’re going to say your vows to one another. But before you do that, I ask you to remember that love, which is rooted in faith, trust, and acceptance, will be the foundation of an abiding and deepening relationship.’

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• If you’re officiating wedding speeches, you must discuss with the couple on what types of wedding ceremony they desire. Know their ideas, length, tone, style, and order of ceremony.
• Start of ceremony Begin your wedding minister’s speeches by welcoming the guests and passing on important information. Let them know if phones, pictures, or videos are prohibited.
• The processional Let the audience know it’s time for the couple to come in. “All guests stand as you see fit.” After the processional, ask them to sit. At this point, some officiants ask “who gives out the other.”
• The officiant’s speech Wedding ceremony speeches by officiants begin with a love story about the couple. You may also read a funny poem that makes meaning to the couple. Talk about love, commitment, and faithfulness.
• Rings exchange Say lines on commitment and ask them to repeat after you. For instance… “I honor you with this ring as a sign of my love…”
• Signing and pronouncements You’ll tell the guests what’s about to happen. After the couple signs, you’ll pronounce them as a couple.
• Close remarks Tell the guests what’s next. If there will be a photo session, reception, or get-together. Then thank them for coming.

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Traditional Wedding Officiant Speech Sample

Traditional officiant wedding ceremony speeches follow the age-long template and procedure. Although things are changing, there are parts of the structure that remains untouched. And many other speech styles have adopted parts of the template. Traditional speeches by officiant have depth and are particular about love, commitment, and faithfulness.

OPENING WORDS Friends, _____ and _____ have invited us here today, in the presence of God, to share in the celebration of their marriage. We who gather here today are separated by the many different experiences that we have had. Despite these differences, we gather here today in this place because we share something in common. We share a desire to affirm and support the relationship of _____ and _____. Marriage is an act of will. It requires a commitment to care for another person. By caring we show concern for the life and growth of those whom we love. Marriage requires a commitment to take responsibility for another person. By responding we experience the needs of that other person and try to help meet those needs. Today, guided by God’s love and wisdom, we affirm and celebrate _____ and _____ wedding day. [READINGS] THE QUESTION OF INTENT Before God, your friends, and your families, I ask you to affirm your willingness to enter the covenant of marriage and to share all the joys and sorrows of your lives and your relationship, whatever the future may hold. _____, do you take this woman to be your wife? Do you promise to love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health as long as you both shall live? Groom: I do _____, do you take this man to be your husband? Do you promise to love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, in sickness and in health as long as you both shall live? Bride: I do Repeat after me. I take you, _____, this day as my wife/husband. I promise to walk by your side forever as your best friend and your soul mate. You are my beloved one and I am proud to marry you. I promise to support your dreams and to be there for you all our lives. EXCHANGE OF RINGS From the earliest times, the circle has been a symbol of completeness, a symbol of committed love. An unbroken and never-ending circle symbolizes a commitment of love that is also never-ending. This ring should be a reminder of the commitment to love each other that you have made today. Repeat after me. I, _____, give you _____, this ring as a symbol of my commitment to love, honor, and respect you. [THE UNITY CANDLE CEREMONY] BLESSING _____ and _____, you have now affirmed your love for each other before your family and friends. You have come from different background, have walked different paths. You are different individuals. Your love has transcended these differences. In the years before you may the richness of the traditions that have nurtured you enhance and brighten your lives as you help to create and shape the future. CLOSING WORDS May God bless you and keep you. _____ and _____, by the power vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife. Groom, you may kiss the bride. PRESENTATION OF THE NEW COUPLE It is my pleasure to present to you _____ and _____ as husband and wife.

Wedding Officiant Speech For A Friend’s Wedding

If you’re officiating a friend’s wedding, then you’ll have a relaxed environment. Your tone should be playful and even comedic. Get creative by lacing your speech with fun stories of your years together. But you must study and understand your audience so you don’t come across as crass and unappealing.

INTRODUCTION Welcome everyone! On this beautiful day, _______ and _______ have brought us together to celebrate their love and union in matrimony. Thank you all for joining us and being a part of their love story. After years of nurturing a beautiful, strong relationship, it’s great to see these two taking the next step towards building a family. I remember the day _______ told me about their first date. There was a light in her eyes that I’d never seen before. She was excited and nervous. She worried that ______ didn’t feel the same connection she felt. It warms my heart to see the way _______ looks at _______. He looks at her as if she’s the last and only woman on Earth, and to him, I know she is. I’ve seen these two be there for each other through life’s unexpected twists and turns, only growing closer and stronger from each setback. I’ve seen them share laughs, exchange inside jokes and most shocking of all, I’ve seen _______ share his dinner with _______, which is when I knew this was serious. Marriage isn’t easy but I trust these two. I have trust in their love, their friendship, and their commitment to one another. With that, I think it’s time to let them speak on their love. DECLARATION OF VOWS AND COMMITMENT _______ and ______, have you come here today of your own free will to declare your commitment to one another? We have. Do you promise to be there for each other in the good and the bad? To grow with, understand and respect one another during your life together? We do. Then please face each other and share your vows. [EXCHANGE OF VOWS] [EXCHANGE OF RINGS] Let these rings represent your eternal love and the promises you have made here today. Let them be a symbol of your unbreakable bond and this new beginning of your life together with no end in sight. ______, take _____’s ring and place it on her finger and repeat after me: With this ring, I promise to love and cherish you to the end of my days. ______, take _____’s ring and place it on his finger and repeat after me: With this ring, I promise to love and cherish you to the end of my days. Your love has now been strengthened by the promises you have made here today and the rings you have exchanged. PRONOUNCEMENT ______ and ______, we have heard the sincerity in your promise to share your lives in marriage. We recognize your love and support your decision to build a home together. By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife. _______, you may kiss your bride! Everyone, give it up for Mr. and Mrs _______.

Funny Wedding Minister Speech

A funny ceremony speech has humor-laced all over the script by officiants. The officiant uses humor to relay life facts. Humor gets easier if you have a personal relationship with the couple. But if you aren’t close and you’re not sure about how much to say, keep it light.

Welcome to all of you. Thank you for being here today. We are glad you could make it and hope you enjoy the day. We’d like to take a moment to also remember the people who can’t be here today. We are sure they are with us today in spirit. Marriage is so many things and we’ve created this ceremony to express many aspects of marriage. And the best the advice can come from the most interesting places. “Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love. How on earth can you explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? Put your hand on a stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with that special girl (or in the case of the reason we gather today, special boy or girl) for an hour and it seems like a minute. That’s relativity.” On cold winter nights, love is warm. It lies between you and lives and breaths and makes funny noises. Love wakes you up all hours of the night with its needs. It needs to be fed so it will grow and stay healthy. Love doesn’t like being left alone for long. But come home and love is always happy to see you. It may break a few things accidentally in its passion for life, but you can never be mad at love for long. Is love good all the time? No! No! Love can be bad. Bad, love, bad! Very bad love. Love makes messes. It leaves you little surprises here and there. Love needs lots of cleaning up after. But love makes you meet people wherever you go. People who have nothing in common but love stop and talk to each other on the street. Throw things away and love will bring them back, again, and again, and again. But most of all, love needs love, lots of it. And in return, love loves you and never stops. And now, for the wedding vows. Are you ready? Are you sure? Do you _____, solemnly swear that you will support and defend the institution of marriage against all enemies, foreign and domestic; Do you promise to honor and love _____ in sickness and in health, in good times and bad times, Do you promise to cherish her as your most beloved according to the regulations and the uniform code of love justice, so help you God? Yes, I do. Do you _____, solemnly swear that you will support and defend the institution of marriage against all enemies, foreign and domestic; Do you promise to honor and love _____ in sickness and in health, in good times and bad times, Do you promise to cherish her as your most beloved according to the regulations and the uniform code of love justice, so help you God? Yes, I do. EXCHANGE OF RINGS The wedding ring is an unbroken circle, which symbolizes unending and everlasting love. It is a visible symbol that represents your inner commitment to one another. Because these circles are designed without an ending they speak of eternity. May the incorruptible substance of these rings represent a love glowing with increasing luster through the years. May these rings which you give to each other be a sign of your love, trust, and faithfulness. Repeat after me: _____, I give you this ring as a sign of my lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you. _____, I give you this ring as a sign of my lifelong devotion. Wear it and know that I love you. May your home be filled with laughter and the warm embrace of a summer day. And may you find peacefulness and beauty, challenge, and satisfaction, humor and insight, healing and renewal, love and wisdom, as in a quiet heart. May you always feel that what you have is enough. I now pronounce you Husband and Wife! You may kiss the bride!!!

Same-sex Wedding officiant Script template and Speech

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Even as an officiant, it might not always be easy to give great wedding officiant speeches. This template can serve as a guide to writing speeches for wedding officiants, for any type of wedding.

• Make the research – You could start by doing your homework. Go on the internet, and check places such as Google, Pinterest, Instagram, or Youtube for wedding officiant speech samples for same-sex weddings. You could streamline your search to find only funny speeches or more regular speeches and get unique ideas to work with.
• Start writing the draft – The beginning is always the hard part, so don’t procrastinate writing your officiant speech for a wedding ceremony. Even if you feel like you haven’t researched enough, just start. You can always edit your draft as you go along or write another one.
• To write awesome wedding speeches for an officiant for a same-sex wedding , you have to keep an open mind. A lot of the material you will find online would be for CIS heterosexual couples, so always keep your couple in mind and edit your speech where necessary. Create that speech that is uniquely theirs.

Same-Sex Wedding Ceremony Speech Template

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This can be considered an official guide or template for wedding officiant ceremonies and speeches for same-sex weddings. Following each step, you wouldn’t need to worry about getting your speech done anymore.

• Welcome Everyone No matter the type of wedding, whether you’re making a Persian wedding officiant speech or non-denominational, you’ll begin by welcoming all the guests and thanking them for their support to witness the couple get married and celebrate with them. Lots of them might have canceled schedules or traveled far to be there, so it would be nice to appreciate them.
• Talk About Marriage The body of officiant wedding speeches usually includes some lines about marriage. Since it’s the topic of the day, you could talk about it in general, reminding the couple why they are there and the seriousness of their commitment. You could also give them some advice on the ups and downs of marriage, the sweet and the bitter, the highs and the lows. Also, how the love that they share is what will get them through anything that life throws their way.
• Share a Personal Story (If you have one and time permits) Some of the best wedding officiant speeches come with a story. Stories are often the best way to pass a message across because it helps you to connect with people. It also helps them remember the message. So, if you have any stories about marriage to share, this would be the perfect place to share them. As the officiant, you might have a personal bond with the brides or grooms. Sharing your stories would be meaningful to them, and you could choose to share a sentimental and loving story or even an embarrassing one that could crack them up. You could also share an experience that you’ve had with the couple. A most loving or affectionate one that lets you know that they can weather any storm together. After this, you can continue with the vows.
• In Closing Wedding speeches for the officiant at same-sex weddings are usually not very different from those of CIS heterosexual couples. You can only make your wedding ceremony officiant speech unique by factoring in the specific couple when writing your speech. If their experiences and your experiences with them are present in the speech, then it should be perfect.

Every couple is unique so wedding officiant speeches should be crafted to fit each couple, same-sex, CIS gender, heterosexual or other. With these tips, you can hone your craft and write the best wedding officiant speeches ever.

• Selecting Appropriate Quotes: When choosing quotes for your wedding officiant speech, consider ones that reflect love, unity, and the couple’s journey. For instance, a quote like “Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together. Love is about how much you love each other daily.” – Unknown, can emphasize the enduring nature of their love.
• Incorporating Religious Verses or Texts: If the couple has a religious background, incorporate meaningful verses or texts from their faith. For example, you might use Corinthians 13:4-7 from the Bible, which speaks about love’s qualities: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud…”
• Non-religious Inspirational Quotes: Opt for non-religious inspirational quotes for secular ceremonies. A quote like “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” – Audrey Hepburn, beautifully conveys the idea of cherishing the relationship and finding strength in each other.

Wedding Ceremony Speeches Dos And Don’ts

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•  Do get creative with your speech by blending in a sweet short story of the couple. If you’ve been a part of their lives for a long time, then you’re in the best position to make it rain. Talk about everything that’s okay for public ears. Tell their love story.
• Don’t veer off-topic or get over-excited that you start to sound boring. Stay on point and if you don’t have so much to say, keep it short. We advise that you have discreet cue cards that you can refer to. It helps keep you in check.
• Do keep humor light especially if you’re not close to the family. You don’t want to end up looking like a clown because your joke fell flat. Humor is a great icebreaker for weddings. But when you’re not sure about what to expect, keep it light. Don’t go overboard.
• Don’t forget to practice your speech until you can recite it naturally and off the heart. Also, spend some time learning the names you’d be pronouncing. You want to call these names right so you don’t end up pissing off guests.
• Do give a copy of the speech to the couple for keep.

Wedding officiant speeches can be very interesting and fulfilling if done right. You only need a few expert hacks to get by. You’ll consider the wedding style, the tone the couple wants to set, and the length of the wedding. This will help you determine how creative you can get with the officiant’s wedding speech. For creative inspiration, we’ve dropped some tips for writing officiant wedding speeches and officiant speech etiquette.

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• Meet with the couple beforehand to get an idea of what they expect or wish to see at their ceremony. Be sure to discuss the length, tone and order of your speech. Whether they prefer a short ceremony, a secular officiant script or want to add their own creative spin, you’ll be prepared to provide that for them.
• Start writing your speech as early as possible and ask the couple for feedback. It’s always best to have a third party review your speech for any errors.
• Ask the couple for any rules they wish to implement during the ceremony. They may want to ask guests to silence their phones or refrain from taking too many photos.
• Establish the order of the ceremony with the couple. Some couples opt to sign legal documents at the ceremony in front of their friends and family, while others prefer to sign them in private, either before or after the ceremony. Make sure you know how they wish to proceed with this component of their wedding.
• Confirm that the marriage license is valid. States have different laws regarding the window of time a license is valid and can be signed.
• Be prepared for how and when to submit legal documents. Once the license has been verified, complete all relevant fields. On their wedding day, make sure all required parties have signed including yourself, the couple and witnesses.
• Be aware of any filing deadlines in your state and return the license to its issuance office appropriately. In many states, the couple can return the marriage license themselves.

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• Do include a short and sweet anecdote about their love story. If you know how they met or got engaged, weave it into the speech to make it unique to the couple.
• Don’t get off topic. Avoid going on a tangent by keeping your script short and to the point.
• Do practice your speech and the names of important family members. Depending on the style of the wedding, some speeches thank or mention parents and grandparents of the couple so you want to make sure you’ve got their names down.
• Don’t go heavy on the jokes. Humor is great but when in doubt, keep it light. If you don’t know the family very well, some jokes may fall flat or not go over well with certain family members.
• Do type up a nice copy of your speech for the couple to keep afterward.

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• Do include an endearing short story about the bride and/or groom. Use this story to add a little playfulness to your speech and pull at the heartstrings of friends and family.
• Don’t tell embarrassing stories about the bride or groom. Keep your stories light and focused on their love for one another.
• Do write a unique introduction. Since you know them personally, give yourself the freedom to stray from the traditional wedding ceremony introductions.
• Don’t go into too much detail. Although you know the couple well, they may have invited acquaintances and distant friends to the ceremony so keep your speech concise.
• Do type up a nice copy of your speech for the couple to keep afterward. A great wedding gift idea would be a framed print of their vows they can cherish for years to come.

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How to Plan a Civil Wedding Ceremony That Feels Special and Meaningful

Whether your civil "I dos" are the main celebration or a precursor to another event, we'll help you plan them like a pro.

Jaimie Mackey was the real weddings editor at Brides from 2013 to 2015. She also worked as a luxury wedding planner and produced over 100 high-end weddings and events in Colorado

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Sure, we love the pomp and circumstance—and flowers, and cake, and gowns—that go along with a traditional wedding , but when it comes to legally tying the knot, none of that is actually required. (And, let's be honest, it's never necessary if you don't want it to be!) To officially say "I do," all it really takes is a recognized officiant, a marriage license , and a few witnesses (and even those aren’t required in all states). A civil ceremony will cover it—and, while we often think a civil ceremony means jetting off to city hall, just the two of you, it can really take place anywhere and look however you'd like.

As with wedding planning, it's important to remember that your wedding can be whatever you want it to be, whether it’s a trip to city hall , a totally intimate celebration with just your families, or a huge to-do. And, even though the civil ceremony will likely be smaller in size, that doesn't mean it has to be any less important. "Whether you have just the two of you or your most immediate family attending, give it as much priority as a larger wedding," say Julie Bunkley and Courtney Wolf of Invision Events. "You'll want the moments documented so hire a photographer if even for a short period of time, get your hair and makeup done, and consider having a bouquet."

Meet the Expert

• Julie Bunkley is the owner and creative director at Invision Events , a destination wedding planning studio based in Birmingham, Alabama.
• Courtney Wolf is Invision Events' principal wedding planner.
• Valorie Darling is a photographer based in Los Angeles. She has captured nearly 150 weddings in her time as a wedding photographer.
• Chanda Daniels is a wedding planner, founding partner of Ethos West Collective , and a member of the Brides review board.

So, whether you’re saving up for the big celebration, want to get married before a major life change, or simply can’t wait to tie the knot, here’s what you need to know for having a civil ceremony now and a big reception later.

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What Is a Civil Ceremony?

A civil wedding ceremony is a non-religious, legal marriage ceremony presided over by a legal officiant. These types of weddings often take place at a city hall, but they don't have to. While they're often attended by just a pair of guests (referred to as witnesses), a civil wedding ceremony can include a larger guest list.

Your Guide to Planning a Civil Ceremony

1. do your research.

It’s not as easy as waltzing into city hall with your IDs. Every state has its own set of rules when it comes to applying for a marriage license, so make sure to check first. Generally, a civil ceremony is subject to the same requirements as a religious one in regards to fees (such as venue and marriage license) and restrictions (like age). So, keep an eye out for fees, required documentation, and waiting periods. For instance, Thursdays and Fridays may be more popular days (which means longer lines) if you're thinking of city hall. Also, be sure to check if you'll need a witness (or two) or not.

Make sure to check your state's requirements because rules regarding witnesses and documentation vary.

2. Choose an Officiant

While, again, requirements vary from state to state—and, in some cases, by county—a civil ceremony is generally presided over by a legal official. That person can be a justice of the peace, county or court clerk, notary public, judge, or magistrate. If you go to the city hall, that person will be provided.

3. Decide Who to Invite

Having a civil ceremony doesn’t mean you have to skip the guest list entirely, but there are often limits on how many guests you can bring—especially if you're getting married at your local city hall. Always check the rules at your ceremony venue before extending an invitation to any family members or friends. And don't forget that witnesses can be guests too. Some states require two witnesses over the age of 18, while others don’t require any witnesses at all. Sure, you can grab some strangers out of the waiting room, but why not give a few people you love the honor of signing your marriage license?

Another reason to boost that guest count? Chanda Daniels, a wedding planner based in California, says that bringing the "maximum number of guests" is an easy way to make your civil ceremony that much more special. Consider inviting your parents and siblings for an intimate celebration , or add on a few close friends. While you’ll be having a wedding later to celebrate your union, this is the moment , so invite those closest to you to be a part of it.

As for how you should invite guests? Bunkley and Wolf suggest being as personal as possible, especially considering the small guest list. "If you have time to send a personal note of invitation, that is the best way," they say. "No matter how small, being as intentional and personal as possible makes it more memorable and special." That said, if you're pressed for time, you can always make a phone call or send an e-vite . 

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4. Plan Your Looks

Accrording to Wolf and Bunkley, "the most memorable weddings are always the most personal," and an easy way to accomplish this is through your attire. "Put your spin on your civil ceremony with your own personality through your outfits (whether new or from your current closet)," they say. Daniels agrees: She suggests going all out—wear something truly special (don't count out a wedding dress!) and have your hair and makeup done, so you look and feel your best when you mark this major milestone.

5. Hire a Few Key Vendors

Consider bringing a photographer to capture the day's special moments, as the civil ceremony is part of your wedding story. "Civil ceremonies can be incredibly special and powerful because of how intimate they are," says Valorie Darling , a photographer based in Los Angeles. "I usually hear that couples set off thinking it will be procedural and are surprised by how emotional it turned out to be, all of a sudden reciting vows to each other without anyone else. To capture this is something you'll return to—the purity of that moment together."

In addition, Darling says hiring a photographer for the civil ceremony has an added perk: "It's also an opportunity for your photographer to build a relationship so, on the big day, you're close and more relaxed, meaning your photographer can capture the wedding day with ease and you can enjoy living it."

You should also think about any extras you'd like to have with you: A wedding bouquet or boutonnière are always good ideas, but certain spots might allow you to include additional floral moments (Daniels says to check with your locale). You may also want to have a something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue to tie your civil ceremony to wedding tradition.

6. Celebrate Making It Official

You’re married! Mark the occasion in a way that feels special, whether it’s a Champagne toast and cupcakes with just the two of you, offers Daniels, a family dinner at home, or a late lunch after a midday ceremony. "In every city, there are amazing, iconic restaurants nearby where couples can celebrate with an amazing lunch," she adds. If you have witnesses or guests, make sure to include them in the fun.

Then, take a little time to revel in the moment together—alone. We love the idea of booking a room at a nice hotel for the night or heading out of town for the weekend for an early minimoon .

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How to Plan a Wedding After a Civil Ceremony

Yes, you’ll already be legally married by the time your wedding rolls around, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be just as special—especially since rules no longer apply! A few ideas we love?

• Include all the traditions you love, and skip the ones you don’t.
• Have a short and sweet ceremony to symbolize your union.
• Walk down the aisle with your father, or you and your partner can make your entrance together.
• Exchange vows that you’ve personalized, and include a reading or two that speak to you.

Since this part doesn’t have to be legally binding (been there, done that), ask whomever you wish to serve as officiant—no online ordination required. And don’t worry about explaining the situation to your guests—they’re coming together to celebrate the two of you, and your love story is still your love story, so there will definitely be happy tears, whether your officiant is registered or not.

Then, once you’ve had your “first kiss,” continue to celebrate however you'd like! Now all you have to do is decide which anniversary you’ll celebrate...

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Reasons to Have a Civil Ceremony

It's less expensive.

Civil ceremonies can be appealing to couples for a variety of reasons, but a big one is the smaller price tag that accompanies them. If the civil wedding isn't followed by a religious ceremony and large-scale reception, the only costs are the fees that go along with it. If time is of the essence and you can't wait to start your lives together, a quick legal procedure can be far more attractive than the months of planning that go into larger weddings.

It Makes Navigating Religion Easier

Interfaith to-be-weds may opt for a civil ceremony as a compromise to avoid the pitfalls of navigating both of their religions. Similarly, non-religious couples may not want a religious ceremony that doesn't feel particularly authentic to their beliefs.

You Have More Freedom With Your Venue

Those with their sights set on an adventurous outdoor wedding could find themselves limited when it comes to the constraints of religious ceremonies—the Catholic church, for example, won't conduct weddings outside of a church. A civil ceremony can be much more flexible in this case, which can be a major draw, especially for creative couples looking to design their own ceremony.

It Reduces Family Drama

Last but not least, family can be a deciding factor. If you're navigating tricky family dynamics, a civil ceremony, attended by just a few guests, could be the simplest way to go.

A civil union is a legally recognized, non-marriage union whereas a civil marriage is a legal marriage with a non-religious ceremony. Semantically, a legal marriage can also be considered a civil union, but a civil union is not a marriage.

A civil marriage ceremony can take between 10 and 15 minutes. This can vary depending on what you choose to include in the ceremony as well as any paperwork or formalities that need to be completed beforehand.

A civil ceremony can be the same as the nuptial ceremony of a wedding for those who don't wish to include a religious ceremony. The civil ceremony is not the same as the wedding reception, or celebratory party, however. Usually, the civil ceremony takes place on a different day preceding the religious ceremony and reception.

Civil marriages are usually not recognized by religious communities unless they are followed by a religious ceremony, though it's always best to check with a member of the clergy first. A religious marriage is a marital union recognized by the canons, traditions, and constraints of a specific religion. It is not acknowledged by the law until a marriage license is filed.

Catholic tradition does not recognize marriages that take place outside of a Catholic Church by Catholic individuals. A convalidation ceremony can transition a civil marriage to a Catholic marriage and have the union formally recognized by the Catholic Church.

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